posted November 05, 2021 11:39 PM            

think I picked up on some transits of the p composite that triggered it and thought I’d share for any other newbies educational purposes…

Progressed composite sun was conjunct transiting south node
Progressed c Venus and progressed c Uranus almost exactly conjunct (when we met they were about 3 degrees apart)
His progressed moon was 2 degrees from my natal moon
Our progressed Venus conjunct my natal Venus almost exactly
Our progressed ascendant 2 degrees from his natal ascendant
My progressed Mars conjunct his progressed Venus and his progressed Saturn conjunct my progressed Venus both by declinations.

Anyway. Hoping someone can help me with trying to decipher if this is completely done or if we’re cooling off?
Here’s our composite

Here’s our progressed composite

Does anyone have any thoughts? Is this over for good or are we just figuring things out? Things got argumentative when mars conjuncted our composite sun and have been off then for a few days.

Im a little bit dramatically beside myself bc this one really hurts

posted November 06, 2021 12:55 AM            

My natal

His natal

Synastry

posted January 01, 2022 04:07 PM            

i'm sorry i dropped off on the thread. i checked in a few days and thought it hadn't gotten any traction and then soon after- you were right. it definitely started up again (november 15th) but then we got into a fight where we decided we were better off cutting things off (december 14).

Started up again charts:

Progressed composite with transits

Composite with transits

Breaking things off:

Progressed composite:

composite with transits:

posted January 01, 2022 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
And I would add that with all these approaching interaspects that you've mentioned in the first post it doesn't look like it's over. Or if you keep it over it would be like cutting on alive flesh (since by progressions you need each other).

I did once do a breakup (and there were indeed challenging aspects), but in our progressed composite Sun and Venus were one degree before approaching a conjunction. I was unaware of it at the moment. I was suffering greatly and did not get in a relationship for ages since then. I wonder if in reality we needed to live that Sun-Venus conjunction together and if my life would have been fuller if I didn't do that breakup (which I did cause I felt that he didn't have as much feelings for me).

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
Yeah not only Venus conjunct Uranus but also opposite Chiron OUCH in your progressed composite. Did you hurt each other? Is there a potential for healing?

But I would say (from the first glance( that it's not over since the Sun is approaching a big trine to Part of Fortune and North Node in your progressed composite.

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sorry about dropping off the face of the earth i always think its so disappointing if i offer some thoughts and the OP doesn't offer feedback on it. makes it quite a bit less rewarding to connect on these forums.

re: Venus conjunct Uranus but also opposite Chiron. So definitely started super randomly/very suddenly. We were both obviously very attracted to each other but had "friendzoned" each other for multiple reasons (but one aspect in the composite I think makes it really obvious what a major reason was lol). As far as hurting each other... I think we have misunderstood each other a lot. We've also gotten into these tiffs when we've spent extended amounts of time apart- so meaning, we get a long really well when we're together, but don't do so well when we're not physically with each other for some reason. Overall, it has DEFINITELY been healing for me. I think for him as well, but I can't be sure.

re: POF and Sun approaching a perfect trine: such an interesting catch!! Idk how it ties in, but we ended up getting things back on track when the trine was still about a degree from being exact. However, it was separating by a degree when we got into the last "fight."

re: approaching interaspects- i think i'm lacking in language/my astrological understanding because i'm not sure what you're referring to.

i will say, that this composite has made me believe A LOT more in predictive techniques regarding timing. there were so many timing venus/uranus exact conjunction/chiron opposition in the progressed composite was one, as well as all of the other aspects i mentioned in my first post. also, as we're likely ending this now...his progressed moon moved out of its conjunction to my late scorpio moon into sagitarrius. also, our composite ic was conjunct the lunar eclipse at the beginning of december.

however! this also made me believe less on the psychological ties behind the meaning of synastry and composite charts. one thing you said hit home hard: feels like cutting flesh. similar to your past relationship with the sun/venus conjunction you didn't see out, i feel like he just didn't care enough about me/the relationship. like it feels very one sided to me how important he was/the relationship was.

I think that stands in direct contrast to the composite/synastry which made it seem like he'd be as invested if not more than me. i wouldn't say i made it clear to him that if this isn't a permanent break he needs to be the one to reach out, so i guess its not totally fair for me to expect that of him. but the "fight" was really just about me feeling not important to him/dispensable. he was always exteremely closed off about how he felt, which at first meant to me that he was just living out his mooon/saturn trine or his moon square venus aspects, but that his venus in scorpio and its conjunction to pluto meant he was really into me and didn't know how to express it. kinda think i was being delusional with that though now

i guess for now...i'm very convincned of the validity of timing through progressed composites/composite transits. From the lunar eclipse on our ic, his progressed moving out of sign conjunction with my natal moon and there being no applying aspects to the progressed moon right now, I think i'll say we're likely done. I think the retrograde venus moving over our progressed moon several times will be the final nail in our coffin.

very sad, very unfortunate but taking this as a lesson that synastry/composites are not soemthing that i should have gotten this excited about/felt validated the permanance i felt for him.