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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted November 14, 2021 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Galactic,

I'm very interested in your thoughts on my recent connection with this man.


His birth chart is correct for the most part. He did mention it could be off for a few minutes.

Here are the charts. Let me know if you need me to add an asteroid or something else.

I really appreciate you.

My natal


His natal

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Thank you

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posted November 14, 2021 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unfortunately, I probably won't be able to get to this in depth until this coming weekend. But for now, two Jupitarians--that's potentially a lot of high vibes! There is a deeper compatibility here than shown by the Signs alone, just by that fact there.

We often don't focus as much on how the strongest Planets in our Natals interact with the strongest Planets in the Natals of the other, but it is definitely a major factor. And it's always nice to see two older, service Souls coming together in love and connection.

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posted November 15, 2021 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Unfortunately, I probably won't be able to get to this in depth until this coming weekend. But for now, two Jupitarians--that's potentially a lot of high vibes! There is a deeper compatibility here than shown by the Signs alone, just by that fact there.

We often don't focus as much on how the strongest Planets in our Natals interact with the strongest Planets in the Natals of the other, but it is definitely a major factor. And it's always nice to see two older, service Souls coming together in love and connection.


I appreciate your comment
Even though the connection is nice, I feel like some attraction to him is lacking on my part. It's weird because his sun is on my vertex/eros (pretty tightly - orb 1) and my Venus is on his AC, yet to me attraction is basically 0. He is starting to come off a bit too strong.

If you have time during your weekend, would you please also give me your thoughts on this relationship? I have known him for 10 months. We are a bit on and off due to the long-distance nature of our relationship. He is travelling to be close to where I live in a week or two, and he mentioned he has plans to come to my city. I don't put too much weight on this relationship either but he always comes back. I like his personality a lot more than the Sag guy. He is more respectful towards me. Sag guy tends to be a little too self-involved/attention-seeking, and complains a lot too lol. I find myself yawning a lot when I'm with the Sag guy, but with this Leo person, I'm never bored.

my chart

his (correct for the most part, he doesn't remember the exact minute. I personally believe my sun is in his 6th rather than the 7th)

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posted November 17, 2021 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Friendly bump!

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posted November 21, 2021 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry, it's been a weird and busier than usual weekend for me. For example, today I hiked 10 miles in a state park whilst on San Pedro, and ever since I got home, I've been tired AF (and in and out of consciousness).

I will really try to get to this tomorrow after work.

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posted November 22, 2021 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Galactic thank you for remembering this thread! I hope you enjoyed your hike it sounded amazing and INTENSE!


Please take your time I'm in no rush and am more than thankful for your input here. By the way, if you find some time to take a look at the charts, can you please give me your view on the second relationship? I am no longer interested in the relationship with the Sag guy (we were not compatible).


Thanks!

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posted November 26, 2021 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there Girlwitharainysoul,

Thank you, it was mostly enjoyable, and music was strongly intensified.

The second guy fulfills your 7th House more strongly since you have Saturn conjunct your Descendant and he has Saturn Rising in his chart--though in his case, the Sun might actually be stronger than Saturn all in all. Solar energy as is, is much faster vibratory in nature than Saturn, so that would help to balance out the slower vibratory tendencies that are common when Saturn is very powerful.

Also, he fulfills the Neptune energy that is also a part of your 7th, since Uranus, a ruler of the 7th, is conjunct Neptune, and in his chart, the faster moving, more sensitive chart ruler (Mars) is widely conjunct Neptune.

It seems like this connection has a strong past life emotional bonding component to it with his Moon closely conjunct your Desc and your South Node in his 8th. It may be that you'll have to work a bit at developing healthy independence/individuality in this life to counter balance some of the possible co-dependent past patterns. This is something he is working on in general since he has Aries NN in the 5th.

Even if your Sun is technically in his 6th, if it is conjunct the Desc, it overall will have more of the latter flavor than the former. So in that sense, you also strongly fulfill his 7th House.

With your Venus in his 8th opposed his Neptune, it will be a good idea to be as honest and direct with him as you can be (and vice versa), but yet at times, the Cancerian guardedness and secretiveness will tend to come out at times with him, because the 8th House is not a comfortable House for Venus. And yet at other times, you'll find that you will gush out deep and hidden secrets. He will kind of bring out the extremes within you in that respect. And Venus is an important/sensitive point in your chart since it rules your Sun and MC.

All in all though, the communication should be pretty open and honest since you have that close Mercury Jupiter/ASC conjunction in the direct, usually honest Sign of Leo. Both Planets have a thing for truth, though they come to it and express it in different ways. And it's a union of opposites, which in it's own way is powerful and binding in nature. Anytime you have a conjunction between two planets that rule opposite signs, it indicates strong attraction and bonding. Including even that Moon-Saturn conjunction (though that can be tinged with a heaviness at times, or at least a duty/responsibility type of vibe).

Strong general compatibility with his Sun in your 1st and same Sign as your Jupiter. And with your Moon in his 4th conjunct his Jupiter. Plenty of high vibes as well. Though, Moon in 4th, while it can indicate a deep closeness, it can be so intense and emotionally affecting at times that the partners tend to need definite breaks from each other.

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posted November 28, 2021 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Galactic,

Thanks a lot for taking the time and writing your analysis to me. I agree with you on most parts, especially the part about co-dependency. What do you think about my mercury on this NN?

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posted November 28, 2021 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it generally supports and bolsters the pattern of strong communication pattern between you. And/or maybe you can help him to become more openly communicative? As I'm sure you (and most straight and bi women) have already noticed, men tend to have issues in that area in general, especially about their feelings. In turn, he might stimulate deeper and/or more intuitive thought processes, questioning belief systems, philosophies, and other 9th House themes. And obviously for him, it will impact him most in 5th House areas such as romance/dating, sex, having fun, children, and other 5th House matters.

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posted November 28, 2021 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like the sound of that.
Thanks a lot Galactic

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posted November 28, 2021 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome.

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posted November 28, 2021 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And if you care about some updates, a few days ago he moved to a place close to where I live, and we have been talking every day since. Mostly fun stuff, friendly messages, but he mentioned a few times that he'd like me to go visit him, before he can come to me. It's harder for him to come because he has no vacation days and just one day off at this new job. he gets home at 11pm. sleeps for a few hours and goes to work in very early morning. He likes it though (he has worked for this person before for a year before Covid) and I think his Mars in cap has no problem with this schedule. my work however is more flexible. I am seriously considering going to him. Do you sense based on the charts, he might get offended if I casually brush myself against his hand in order to break the ice between us? He is quite shy and timid but I know he is not a virgin lol. He's just extra respectful and classier than me I guess!

I am a pretty defensive person myself, testing a man for a couple of months before deciding on physical intimacy, but physical electricity is important for me as a taurus lol, and i'd wanna figure out the compatibility sooner before wasting more time chatting with him every day because it could take months before he can come. All of this is because based on your analysis and my own feelings I see a lot of potential with him and at this stage in my life I would definitely go for the more stable things.

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posted November 28, 2021 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Girl!

I’m still following your story and being a fly on a wall… hope that’s ok! Looking at your synastry, I think you’re communication with each other would support an honest conversation… but he’s a cap Mars and they can keep their sexual needs/thoughts pretty hidden. They’re deeply sexual though, so I think he’s just successfully hiding his attraction.

But your Mercury to his sun, and you being an Aries Mercury anyway… and him, he’s got Mercury opposite Moon so he has a hard time expressing his feelings. I think you could help him out. Do you talk about sex ever? If he talks about it, he’s thinking about it. But coming back to cap Mars… they build for the long game.

I say go for the visit, know he’s investing in the relationship. Explore what happens and trust your intuition. I think you already know and can sense the potential?

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posted November 29, 2021 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with StoneMoon. I mean the guy has Scorpio Rising and Leo Sun--these are the two most sexually passionate signs of the zodiac. With the Scorpio Rising and Cap Mars, he might keep it under wraps at times, but sexual connection is going to be very important to him as well.

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posted November 30, 2021 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Stonemoon
I love reading your replies. I definitely sense the potential and I am willing to give this a big chance! I've been feeling about him more "intensely" as of the past few days. I don't know if it's because he and I are talking more compared to before or if something deeper is actually starting to form here.
We haven't yet discussed physical intimacy but I so badly want to! However I understand with the 5 hour drive between us now it's not exactly helpful to bring that type of thing up. More specifically because he's so tired these days due to overworking himself. When we first got to know each other he only once mentioned something about wanting to cuddle in front of the TV, so I know he CAN be expressive when he wants to! and I am quite sure he's had experiences before, but honestly it would not have been a deal breaker even if he were a virgin.
His boss is on an international trip now and he told me how plans to ask him to hire me once he gets back, so I can move to that city. I'm not sure I want to live in that city and I still haven't told him. I probably shouldn't overthink it and should tell him already before he gets his hope up. Or, should I wait a few more days to figure out how I really feel about living in that city?
It's becoming such a dilemma.

How are things with your potential romantic interests? Do you have some fresh tea for me?!

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posted November 30, 2021 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Galactic!

I felt "things" when I read that! Another person I trust and usually go to did tell me the same thing, basically they told me not to worry because the sex is gonna be good with the composite mars in the 1st along with several other factors.
Thanks a lot for letting me know about your perspective.

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posted December 04, 2021 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow- so much happening for you! What did you decide? And how do you feel about moving? Would you do it just for you? Would you want the job being offered if this guy wasn't in the picture?

The eclipse didn't really hit your individual charts too intensely, but the eclipse Mars squares your composite Venus, so perhaps this encouraged more movement for you as a couple? Eclipse Mercury on your natal Vertex, and opp composite Mercury... hopefully there are talks happening between you?

I think this is more of a pivotal time for you personally. Your natal NN is being hit by Venus in Cap, and of course this is opposite your Mars Chiron. It really brings it back to that question from the top- what do YOU want in life, whether this guy exists in the picture or not? Love can bring opportunities and change and growth, but maybe this is important for you to choose what direction you want to go, regardless of love. You will find love on any path you are on, so for you it's just to listen to your own needs and follow that. Eclipse Mars soon to transit your Moon and Mars/Chiron in trine, this will be a great time for you to feel what you want and go for it. I feel like you will know what you need or want.

I am excited to hear what you decide!!!!

And sadly, no tea to spill here. My teacup is pretty freakin' empty these days! And not even any tea leaves left behind to read.

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posted December 05, 2021 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome Girlwitharainysoul.

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posted December 07, 2021 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stonemoon thanks for your great analysis! I hadn't had the chance to check what the eclipse was doing to my chart.

By the way hold on a little longer I'm sure with the eclipse falling so tightly on your AC/DC axis you're about to enter a relationship soon. Especially if you feel so ready for that!

More update: we're getting more flirty over text. On calls he's still shy it's quite cute. Suddenly he's telling me in texts he wants to protect me. Cap Mars is showing you guys! I told him I can plan a visit if he wants but I also told him about the challenges I'm facing and that it may not be so soon that I'll be able to go, and he said he prefers to come to me first. I am actually relieved. I was gonna almost call its shots and keep things shallow and in the friend zone because even though the job at his city pays much more, I can't just leave and move, arrangements are gonna take time.


Something I have noticed about myself lately, maybe because of my Saturn return or eclipse or maybe both, is that somehow I have always been craving a relationship that starts with friendship and then moves to deeper affections (not talking about friends with benefits scenarios here). I have Venus in the 11th and DC in Aqua, he has Venus in the 11th too. I like that he can become friends with women without sexualizing things. Most men I met (including the sag guy in the first post) were offended by my mention that I want to be friends first and see how it would develop. They didn't understand that's just how my Venus works. It's been years since I have had a friendship/romance connection with a man. A friend who understands you and doesn't judge you. A friend who shares world views similar to yours. So I know how valuable this is and I appreciate him for not pressuring me.

I'm soon gonna have a serious discussion with him though, regarding a relocation I'm considering (not to his current city, to a city far away from both our current locations), as the prospects are good for me and people want me there. If he decides he doesn't like that place, I'm gonna have to consider things really carefully by noting how I'm feeling about him at that time.

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