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AlmaRegulus
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posted November 16, 2021 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this longing for ideal love.

It doesn't help that my Chiron is almost conjunct Dsc, my Venus is in Capricorn and square Pluto.

At the same time, it turned out that I also have a tight Isis-Osiris conjunction (0*09 orb) and my Psyche and Eros are in contra-antiscia (1*28 orb).

Is it really something reliable for meeting a big love? My Isis and Osiris are both retrograde. Or will my live life suck forever?

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posted November 17, 2021 09:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please post your natal chart with progressions and transits.

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AlmaRegulus
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posted November 17, 2021 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow comdoc thank you for your attention!

So here are my natal + progressed charts:

- as you can see, the pr. Sun is trining Asc and about to sextile Venus, ruler of the 7th

- pr. Valentine is on natal South Node

- pr. Mars conjunct pr. Amor, and when pr. Moon was on this conjunction, I started dating someone after a dozen of years of loneliness, but I am not happy in this relationship... a lot of instability on his part and poignant jealousy on my part... he makes me feel insecure. So I am obsessed now with the relationship topic but I don't think this guy is the one...

- pr. Moon on the 5th house cusp - I was thinking a lot about getting a baby but this guy is not ready for that definitely; I am not sure I'm ready either, especially as a single mom; but it's kind of my last chance this couple of years to get a baby

- pr. Mercury ruler of 8th on natal Mercury and Mars ruler of 5th

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posted November 17, 2021 07:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And here is a progressed chart with transits:

- well, tr. Neptune was making a sextile to my natal Venus ruler of 7th and to Dsc for a while; now these aspects are separating

- and it's also been conjunct my pr. Mars ruler of 5th - it mainly makes me feel drained and illusional, unable to focus on my work, obsessed with soulmates and stuff and it's gonna be stuck to my Mars for several years!!!

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AlmaRegulus
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posted November 17, 2021 07:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And here is my natal with transits:

- tr. Pluto, while squaring natal Pluto, was conjunct my Valentine and guy's Amor exact - when we started a relationship. Previously it didn't bring any relationship while it was conjunct my natal Venus ruler of 7th, just an unhealthy obsession

- tr. Saturn on my natal Sun and South Node has been a pain; although trining Moon, Jupiter and Saturn at the same time - mixed feelings, but unable to do anything Saturnian productive; that concerns mostly my 10th house matters

- tr. Uranus on my natal Chiron; I feel my eternal pain in relationships but no idea how to deal with it; the wounded healer is not healing; now Uranus is approaching my Dsc, I am terrified...

- tr. North Node in the 7th house; makes sense; the relationship started when it was entering the 7th house from the 8th

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posted November 17, 2021 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And my natal with solar arc directions:

- SA Venus approaching natal IC square to natal Uranus - when the progressed Venus was in the same placement I've moved to another continent; other progressed planets in this placement produced the same effect; hopefully this time I won't have to move but will meet the love of my life, for a change

- SA Vertex approaching natal North Node

- MC conjunct natal Moon, Jupiter, Saturn - mixed events in 10th house matters, first bad when it was on Saturn, then good on Jupiter

- SA Neptune on natal Sun - probably 10th house matters; hopefully nothing dramatic, no moving etc.

- SA Valentine has been on natal Amor since the relationship started

- SA Asc is approaching natal Antivertex

Yeah all this is screaming about a significant relationship - WHERE IS MY SOULMATE?...

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posted November 18, 2021 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alma, watch Mars transit your AC sextile Venus around Thanksgiving. You asked where, I'd suggest Astro*Carto*Graphy. If you would like me to look at it, please post a world map from astro.com AstroClick Travel.

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posted November 18, 2021 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi sweet AlmaRegulus, I’m a romantic at heart myself so I understand the longing for a companion that will truly love you for who you are and who will gladly accept the immense amount of love that you have in your heart just for them. But please believe that even if you do not have someone special in your life right now, you are worthy of love as you are now. And even if there is no soulmate for you in this lifetime, you are still a wonderful and special person that deserves good things. However I hope that all your wishes come true and that you will find that great love as soon as is possible.

In the mean time, please treat yourself with the love and tenderness you would expect from a soulmate to prepare yourself for that joyous moment.

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GalacticCoreExplosionV2
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posted November 18, 2021 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Hi Alma..there are so many things to say and so little time. Tbh, I think/feel/intuit that the only true, ideal love is the love that the Source/Prime Creator has for us, It's children/potential Co-Creator companions. Because it is the only love that is completely pure, unconditional and universal.

But I know what you mean in the more earthly and romantic sense. My experience was, it was when I dropped my attachment to the feeling of needing to have an ideal love, is when it showed up in my life. In your original post, you meant to write, "Or will my love life suck forever?" but instead wrote, "Or will my live life suck forever?" I think there is a message from your Expanded/Higher self that slipped in there for you. Just live your life, drop the expectations and attachments, and then it may come.

You have the ruler of your 7th, Venus, in the testing sign of Capricorn. Nothing comes easy for Capricorn--it is a struggle, a challenge, a testing, but if one has consistency, if one keeps to their inner ideals and is true and has integrity, then Capricorn eventually does, usually, bring gifts. But it is a longer term kind of thing.

Btw, on a side note, you have an interesting chart on a few different levels. Being a predominant Uranian, you have to watch the tendency to go towards extremes (especially since it is in combo with Scorpio Asc). Out of all the Planets, I would say that Neptune, Uranus, and Venus are the most idealistic oriented type symbols (sometimes Jupiter as well).

Also, didn't realize this previously, but you and I have an interesting chart comparison in some respects. Your 7th and Moon ruler, Venus is conjunct my Sun, my chart ruler to the degree. Your faster moving chart ruler, Mars, along with your 8th ruler Mercury, is almost conjunct my Venus, ruler of my Moon and MC, to the degree (slightly more than a degree with Mars but quite close with Mercury) and in my 7th.

Your Sun South Node conjunction is widely opposed my Asc, and my 7th and Venus ruler, Uranus is widely conjunct your Asc, your Asc is in my 4th House, and your Moon-Jupiter-Saturn conjunction is conjunct my Moon.

Nice to meet you again old, same soul group, friend?

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posted November 19, 2021 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear PlutoWasHere thank you for your sweet words! You really touched my heart and moved me to tears. Thank you sweetie, and wishing all the best joy and love to your life!

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posted November 19, 2021 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Galactic what an encounter, soul space buddy! These overlaps are incredible, actually I've never met anyone with these placements, at least not among people I was close enough to ask their birth info.

Thank you for your support and warm words. I agree wholeheartedly with all you said. Completely agree about the Love of the Creator. And believe me I was certain that I will be alone forever, actually even on the day my current date kissed me, I was having these thoughts when we accidentally met on the bus in the morning. I was sure that our interaction was just friendly.

But now that he has moved some energies in me, I got hopes again, or maybe I'm so restless because of all this prognostic resonance. What if it's the time when I can get with the love of my life, what if I miss him, or this guy is actually the one? cause the prognostic has never been so active in terms of 7th house matters.

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posted November 19, 2021 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear comdoc, thank you, so nice of you!

Here is the Astro Click Travel map around the place where I live. I don't think it would be possible to go to another continent at the moment.))

I now live closest to IC-Neptune line. Now I wonder - is that why I want to stay here? Not just IC, but also Neptune is the second ruler of my 4th.

Maybe it would be easier with this view. So I live between Venus trine Asc and Mars trine MC, shouldn't it be promising?))

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posted November 20, 2021 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're welcome. Please post your world map. Forget about your limitations. You can enjoy connections from a distance without moving physically.

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posted November 20, 2021 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Alma,

You're welcome. And I very much understand.

You wrote, "And believe me I was certain that I will be alone forever..."

That's kind of going to the other extreme. Very Uranian! Maybe try a neutral, in between approach and mind set, where you are open/receptive to the possibility, but not strongly seeking nor desiring?

In any case, with the current guy, maybe just take it day by day?

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AlmaRegulus
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posted November 23, 2021 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much dear Galactic for your kind words! Maybe it's true that I am over-reacting. At the same time I look quite tamed with all the Libra and Saturn LOL. The guy doesn't have much Uranus in aspects (just Saturn-Uranus conjunction sextile to Mercury, plus he has 11th house North Node) but he is more Uranian than me, seems it's the effect of out-of-bounds Uranus.

And I do need a lot of space but at the same time strong emotional bond and merge (Pluto-Uranus conflict). I hate Uranian stuff in romantic relationships. So now something happened again and I'm aching again. He has Pluto ruler of 7th in the 7th sextile to Moon. He is strong but not obsessive like me. But maybe destined to deal with Pluto psychoes. This Pluto widely (6*) conjuncts my Asc triggering Scorpio themes.

He does have Scorpio progressions though, like progressed New Moon in Scorpio in the degree of my Asc. Besides, in natal synastry his Pluto squares my Nodes exact, and my Pluto only conjuncts his Mercury. So yeah he has an upper hand...

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posted November 23, 2021 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AlmaRegulus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear comdoc, thank you so much, so sweet of you! Here is the world view.

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