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Topic: HELP! He wants to start a relationship during Saturn transiting my natal Venus!
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artificial_paradise
Newflake Posts: 24
From: los angeles, California
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted November 20, 2021 05:42 AM
  
We have been friends for a year. We met online, and then recently met up in person and shared our feelings for each other. Now he wants to get into a long distance relationship. I am hesitant for a few reasons. We also tend to clash a lot. It’s like our egos are constantly at odds. But we also, have this sort of transformative effect on the other where it could lead to major growth for us both. I’m also going through a saturn square my venus transit but I believe it’s gonna end soon . We also have his Saturn square my moon in our synastry. He can also be kinda intense at times and I have a tendency to attract overbearing men. But I’m not sure if it’s feeling his saturn harsh aspect to my moon or the mars square mars. I’m not sure what I should do next. I feel like it’s my call. I would love some insight based on our synastry. If y’all can give me any type of feedback it’ll be much appreciated!!! https://imgur.com/a/8xRW6YO He’s blue I’m red!
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vansio
Knowflake Posts: 2071
From: the outskirts of Delphi
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted November 20, 2021 06:37 AM
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mee_chryssa
Knowflake Posts: 671
From: Romania
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted November 23, 2021 07:09 PM
I would say that it's not going to work out based on synastry, but you have to check the composite to see how the relationship will be. Mars square Mars shows that the initial attraction is not going to be fulfilling for both of you, and Venus is also square Mars. Even with Mars conjunct ASC, which shows an initial attraction, this one is more on the physical part than a romantic one. A very good aspect is Sun conjunct Moon, and the square from Saturn to Moon is difficult but it's found in long term relationships. And you also have it in your natal chart, so you will not feel it as much, but he will. Your Saturn is conjunct his Moon so there is some responsability to each other. But the expression of feelings is really restricted here and with the squares to Venus and Mars, this leads to more difficulty. Also, a transit of Saturn in square to natal Venus is a bad sign for a relationship. I had it this year and I had high hopes with a guy. Probably you will appreciate more after it ends. You need to check the composite to see how the relationship will go. IP: Logged |
@eloquent__sky
Knowflake Posts: 46
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Registered: Jun 2021
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posted November 24, 2021 02:40 PM
Based on the synastry I do not find the relationship to be deep. It can be a fun one though. Can you post the composite chart too?
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outofideas
Knowflake Posts: 657
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Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 25, 2021 03:53 PM
I second all opinions above.You do have some harsh aspects in synastry and Saturn is just moving away from a square to your Venus. No wonder you are hesitant. It doesn't look like a prosperous or long-term potential type of relationship. Maybe a transient one if you do like the person and can overlook his red flags and overbearing personality for a while. But from what you have said it doesn't sound healthy and like it would work out. IP: Logged |
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