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Topic: Dating both guys not sure if I should pick one over the other?
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ChildofVenus
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posted August 26, 2022 08:42 AM
  
I went out with this guy last week we had a good time and I like him. He asked me when he could see me again. And I'm planning to see him again next week. Our synastry isn't good though but the Composite has good aspects. (I don't really know what he wants. But he said he likes to feel a connection before having sex). He has Moon in Virgo which isn't compatible with Moon in Aquarius. He has a good job and his own place. I like him because he seems kind of serious. 
This guy asked me out on a date and I'm going to meet him next week our synastry is better and the Composite chart is good. He said he didn't want anything serious. (He broke up with his girlfriend in February and they have a baby together)
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vansio
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posted August 26, 2022 07:05 PM
Chart 1 looks better IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 26, 2022 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
Chart 1 looks better
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vansio
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posted August 27, 2022 03:48 AM
Yep. With NN-Moon, he’ll be more likely to pursue you too..The second chart looks like trouble. I don’t like the Saturn-NN connection. Disappointments. Since he said he doesn’t want anything serious (manspeak: I won’t give you anything in return for sex), it’s not worth trying. My only advice is don’t sleep with him and see how long this kind of person (mentality) sticks around. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted September 05, 2022 10:10 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
Yep. With NN-Moon, he’ll be more likely to pursue you too..The second chart looks like trouble. I don’t like the Saturn-NN connection. Disappointments. Since he said he doesn’t want anything serious (manspeak: I won’t give you anything in return for sex), it’s not worth trying. My only advice is don’t sleep with him and see how long this kind of person (mentality) sticks around.
Yeah, I think you're right I saw the guy that I have Moon conjunct North Node with again yesterday. And he said he told his best friend about me. I don't know what to do really. Because our synastry isn't that good. I like him but I'm just afraid that things won't work out. IP: Logged |
Zorya
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posted September 05, 2022 12:51 PM
So, I'm still learning but I give it a go.I wouldn't say that Saturn-NN in the second chart isn't too bad because it's aspected well with Venus and the Sun! Also, as I understand, it's her Saturn. Also, overall there are more blue lines than red (and that counts for something right? lol)! BUT Neptune-Sun conjunction - I'm not sure but this feel like a obstacle. Then again, both suns are in trine, which is good. Jupiter and Moon&Mars conection is also good. The first chart looks easy going, but not as significant to me. Honestly, go on dates with both and give it some time... in the end it's your own feelings that matters.
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ChildofVenus
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posted September 05, 2022 01:38 PM
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Originally posted by Zorya:
So, I'm still learning but I give it a go.I wouldn't say that Saturn-NN in the second chart isn't too bad because it's aspected well with Venus and the Sun! Also, as I understand, it's her Saturn. Also, overall there are more blue lines than red (and that counts for something right? lol)! BUT Neptune-Sun conjunction - I'm not sure but this feel like a obstacle. Then again, both suns are in trine, which is good. Jupiter and Moon&Mars conection is also good. The first chart looks easy going, but not as significant to me. Honestly, go on dates with both and give it some time... in the end it's your own feelings that matters.
The guy that I have Saturn conjunct NN with keeps saying he wants to meet up but then he stops talking. The guy that I have Moon conjunct North Node with we've met up twice already. Yesterday I went to his house for our second date. IP: Logged |
Zorya
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posted September 05, 2022 02:32 PM
Well, he has his Mercury in the 12th house, which would make communication hard for him. I wonder what it means with the NN there too...IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 23, 2022 11:20 AM
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted October 10, 2022 10:12 PM
Not even looking at the charts, go for the first guy. My own honest opinion is that the other guy's energy will be split between you and his ex since they have a baby together. I know we shouldn’t judge romantic partners based on things like that, but he also just broke up with her in February. I don't think that is someone you should settle for. First guy has his own place and you said he wants a connection first before sex. I think I remember you have venus in pisces. That placement, I know for sure will want a connection too. This guy will be grounding for you and he has better things to offer you.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 11, 2022 02:01 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Not even looking at the charts, go for the first guy. My own honest opinion is that the other guy's energy will be split between you and his ex since they have a baby together. I know we shouldn’t judge romantic partners based on things like that, but he also just broke up with her in February. I don't think that is someone you should settle for. First guy has his own place and you said he wants a connection first before sex. I think I remember you have venus in pisces. That placement, I know for sure will want a connection too. This guy will be grounding for you and he has better things to offer you.
I did pick the first guy but I messed things up with him. I don’t think he’s ever going to talk to me again.
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Randall
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posted October 22, 2022 07:36 PM
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Randall
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posted October 31, 2022 02:51 PM
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Randall
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posted November 14, 2022 02:12 PM
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Randall
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posted November 26, 2022 10:49 AM
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