posted November 04, 2015 02:42 PM            

I can't do this. I can't take when my BF is friends with beautiful girls and then talks to them kind of flirting

First of all if you need friends you can have guys and if u need a woman then you can have your girlfriend and that should be it

Why do u need to hang out with a girl also? Because you like her personality? Too bad! It's called priorities just forget about her or else I'll forget about you

I don't want anyone cheating on me. That's ridiculous...

posted November 05, 2015 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I feel like This is my Vedic moon in Scorpio manifesting. That or my boyfriend is very confused...

I can't do this. I can't take when my BF is friends with beautiful girls and then talks to them kind of flirting

First of all if you need friends you can have guys and if u need a woman then you can have your girlfriend and that should be it

Why do u need to hang out with a girl also? Because you like her personality? Too bad! It's called priorities just forget about her or else I'll forget about you

I don't want anyone cheating on me. That's ridiculous...

How do u feel about your spouse being friends with people of the opposite sex?

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posted November 06, 2015 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Not the Mars Moon. lol The bad sign is him wanting to keep his friends who are girls around.

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posted November 12, 2015 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I feel like This is my Vedic moon in Scorpio manifesting. That or my boyfriend is very confused...

I can't do this. I can't take when my BF is friends with beautiful girls and then talks to them kind of flirting

First of all if you need friends you can have guys and if u need a woman then you can have your girlfriend and that should be it

Why do u need to hang out with a girl also? Because you like her personality? Too bad! It's called priorities just forget about her or else I'll forget about you

I don't want anyone cheating on me. That's ridiculous...

How do u feel about your spouse being friends with people of the opposite sex?

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Check his venus sign, nakshatra Ardra in venus for a man has ALOT of girls as friends. I just broke up with a guy with his venus there, turns out he was in love with another girl. Lol Funny because he tried to keep me from other guys? Either way, bottom line I don't prove myself to a man, they prove themselves to me. I just wish him a happily ever after and a good life.

posted November 13, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
I don't mind who my guy is friends with. My boyfriend gets along with both men and women but has a couple of women friends he likes to meet once in a while (some are exes), and also has lots of female colleagues, all about 15 to 20 years younger than me. Can't say it phases me. Sometimes it happens that one of the women he's friends with develops a crush on him, and that's always hard on him because it usually means the end of the friendship. Poor guy He's rather often hit on in his job environment by customers as well, but fortunately he's not into women who chase after him, and not in need of validation through other people's attention - and if he were, then I wouldn't be into him in the first place so that's not a problem.

It would in any case be unfair for me to demand that he get rid of female friends because most of my own close friends are guys. I don't click so easily with women and have only two close female friends (one of them a lesbian). They are great but to restrict me to these two people in my friendships would be cruel. I surely wouldn't be willing to get rid of any of my male buddies and my bf has never demanded that, fortunately.

My ex hubby was close friends with his ex of seven years, and I liked her a lot too. I remember how once, when the three of us went on a short hike together, he was having one of his Pisces moments and she turned to me: "Dear God, I'm sooo glad it was you who ended up marrying that whiny dude!" We had a good laugh at his expense over it. We invited her to our wedding, and she was also there when our daughter was baptized. I learned some astrology from her, too. Great gal, I'm glad she didn't resent me. My ex didn't have many other female friends though. He and I were together for 13 years, and it didn't end because of infidelity on either side.

Maybe for me it's easy to not feel threatened by my partner's female friends because I know from personal experience that platonic friendships with the other sex can be completely non-romantic (I read somewhere that's typical of tropical Aries Moon women, and it may be (Vedic Moon sign is Pisces though). In fact, when I'm *friends* with someone, it means he becomes like a brother to me and I don't feel attracted to them as a man. Also, if someone develops a crush on me and lets it show, I immediately put some distance between us, as I find that incompatible with friendship. Needless to say I require every friend to respect my relationship with my guy, I hate it when people hit on me while in a relationship and can't be friends with such people anymore. Also, when I'm with someone, I'm faithful in every sense and I find the idea of starting something romantic with one of my colleagues, acquaintances or buddies repulsive. It seems to be rather similar with my guy (he has tropical and vedic Aqua Moon and trop. Scorp Venus conj. Uranus/Vedic Libra Venus conj. Uranus). We're both independent people but very loyal at the same time.

In all honesty, I couldn't have a relationship with someone who can't accept the fact that I have these male friends in my life. It would mean we are not compatible and that our relationship is doomed from the start. My very first boyfriend was like that, he tried to alienate me from all my friends, male and female even, and even from my family - in his ideal world, we would have been stranded on a deserted island all by ourselves lol! Never again. *shudders*

Now, a quarter-century later I wonder why I ever put up with something like that.

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