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Meili Zhiwei
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posted December 11, 2003 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Meili Zhiwei     Edit/Delete Message
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divinia
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posted December 11, 2003 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for divinia     Edit/Delete Message
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Fundamentalism is an emotional conviction while True Seeing or Sight is a Knowing that is divorced from emotion and emotionalism. That is the Sight of Daf, when he states that he cannot “believe” the message, but he Knows it to be the Truth.

That makes it quite clear to me. In fact, your entire post makes a lot of things clear. I feel so much joy!

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juniperb
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posted December 11, 2003 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message
Meili, thank you! I felt this needed addressed and broached the subject (in Dafs post) with high hopes that you or Daf would address the past so we can prepare for our future. Your words spring to life which I can not articulate. It is time to heal from the indignities of the past.

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The Teachers and Warners are not here to punish sin. They are not here to punish ignorance. They are here to Teach “covering”. The Lord shall “cover” the sinner, hiding his sins. The Lord shall “cover” the waywardness of the ignorant, straightening the road. Of course, this is conditioned that the individuals in question request such covering. Conditioned that they ask. This asking requires no witness, no secondary testimony, no public pronouncement. It is a petition from the Heart to its Lord, private, sacred and an activity that perfumes the heavens and inspires the angels to sing.
Thank you for this loving re-minder

juniperb

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FishKitten
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posted December 11, 2003 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FishKitten     Edit/Delete Message
Meili...Yes, that is almost exactly how it went for me as well. Fundamentalism just broke my little heart. When I was a child and heard all the fire and brimstone sermons, the thought came into my mind that it would be better if there were no God than to have some vindictive, punishing, jealous guy watching from the clouds just waiting for people to make a mistake so he could cast them into an eternity of torture. Then I would panic, because He must have heard me think that and now I was probably doomed. It was very difficult. Later, I realized that what I had been taught was wrong. What a relief that was. And, eventually, like you, I opened my heart and mind and found that Knowing exists beyond Believing. I found a path because I asked. Looking back, it seems that those type churches usually either convince a person that the church are right and the only way to "heaven" or they convince the person that there is no right way and there is no heaven. It is fortunate that the connection of spirit to its source is not so easily severed. Thank you very much for sharing your personal experience...and you too, Juni. I often wondered, if we create our own reality, why I would have created such an unpleasant one for my early years. Eventually, the answer became more clear. Without having lived through fundamentalist indoctrination, I doubt I ever would have had the understanding or sympathy that I now have for those still caught up in it. So many hurtful things have been done in the name of "Christianity", I might have hated them if I hadn't gotten the chance to know them intimately. As it is, there is no hate in my heart, only joy and accpetance.

Thanks again to everyone for these posts. They feel really good and heartwarming.

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juniperb
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posted December 11, 2003 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message
Fish kitten

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QueenofSheeba
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posted December 11, 2003 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
Meili-- I think my experience is shaping up to be similar to yours. While I was not raised in the fire-and-brimstone tradition, my upbringing (which is still going on, I guess) was definately uptight Christian. I am currently an agnostic who secretly believes in some kind of a god... but like you, atheism isn't really an option because God was ingrained in me a little too deeply. (I actually don't feel any need to become an atheist, but I would if someone tried to force a religion on me.)

I like the last part of your post best: "Peace and Blessing to those who suffer in the name of religion."
And we are suffering from it. Recalling another quote: "Mankind will not be free until the last king is strangled with the entrails of the last priest." --Diderot
(I know it's a little strong ).

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QueenofSheeba
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posted December 11, 2003 11:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
FishKitten-- I really don't like God as he/it is portrayed in the Judaeo-Christian tradition. You too, right? He's such a spiteful, jealous prick! I have concluded that God had a bad upbringing and has Issues, Issues, and more Issues.

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seeshells
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posted December 12, 2003 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeshells     Edit/Delete Message
My friend Meili, it is so good to have you sharing your knowledge with us again,I have learned so much from you and all of Lindaland. I hope the book is published and you three are settled. I hope all is well. Blessings, Sue

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FishKitten
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posted December 12, 2003 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FishKitten     Edit/Delete Message
I know how you feel Queen of Sheba. When one is taught to fear God because he is jealous and vindictive, where does that leave a person? One of the things never made sense to me as a kid was being taught that God is Love and the most understanding being in the universe while at the same time being told that he would cast people into hell for nothing more than being a member of one protestant church instead of another. I asked one time that if I, an imperfect human, could love people enough not to want to see them suffer for eternity, wouldn't God, who was infinitely more perfect and understanding, love them at least as much as me. Actually, if you could have seen the faces of some of my Sunday School teachers when I came up with my questions, you would have a good laugh. I'm pretty sure they thought I was sent to them as some sort of test (like the ones Job had). Anyway, it's all good for me now. May you find joy and peace as well.

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dafremen
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posted December 12, 2003 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dafremen     Edit/Delete Message
I was raised Presbyterian, but it always seemed wrong to me. The communion always seemed wrong,the hypocrisy always seemed wrong, the idea of a three-headed God always seemed wrong. None of it made any sense to me, except for the parts about Jesus looking at people with sincere love and compassion. That made sense to me. My father stopped attending services when I was about 14 or 15. The hypocrisy and cliquishness of it eventually got to him too.

To be truthful, I'm grateful, that I never had God crammed down my throat. It's sad to hear people that have been so emotionally scarred by contact with a human creation labelled "god", that they are hesitant to listen to anything that contains the word God in it. It's understandable, but still it's very very sad, because none of you are to blame for the fact that a bunch of people who do NOT understand God, tore through your hearts in a vain attempt to explain God's Will to you. When I say vain, I equate it with VANITY, because how presumptuous is it to try to brand the word CHRISTIAN or MUSLIM or HINDU or PAGAN on another's soul in the name of one's own notion of God? God is perfectly capable of teaching us what God is, in God's OWN way.

Today I watched as a Jehovah's Witness greeted a young lady and then began to weave her religion's tale of what God wanted, and what God promised, and how God was going to make that happen, and I was (not to my credit I'm afraid) a bit perturbed. (Understand that the RIGHT way is to let God's Will be done. I didn't do the right thing, I reacted..because I was perturbed.)

I wasn't perturbed because the woman was spreading her beliefs, no I too feel that tolerance and patience are the best Evangelism and so if I were where I should be spiritually, I would have let it be. But I'm not where I should be, and I didn't let it be. Instead, I walked up to the lady, smiled and said

"Good morning sister, how are you this lovely day?"

"Just fine, and you?"

"Couldn't be better. Say, I see you are handing out literature. That's GREAT, what a coincidence..I am too."

I reached into my bag and pulled out a copy of the first message which John delivered(Woe)..the one that says:

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Woe to you hypocrites that speak the words of your chosen ones, but close your ears to God's message when it comes. He speaks through dreams and signs, words that are whispered to the heart, but you have shut yourselves off from these as men have instructed you to. For this, you are doomed to follower your elders into the grave where neither the Word of God, nor the words of men will reach you again.

She wouldn't even look at it. Just kept shaking her head.

"No, that's ok. I have mine right here", she said.

"Are you sure? Perhaps there's some information in here that could add to what you already know?"

"No, no..that's fine. I don't need anything else. Don't really need to hear what you have to say."

"Ok", I said, "Sorry to bother you, I just figured since you were sharing, that you'd understand what it's like to have a message to share."

"No, that's ok. Goodbye."

Then I turned to the girl who had been listening to this exchange, shrugged my shoulders and moved on.

From a distance, I watched what happened after that.

The young lady listened politely as the JW sister went on and on, but when she attempted to hand her a copy of The Watchtower, the young lady waved it off. I could almost hear her saying, "No, that's ok", as she shook her head.

As I write this, I'm wondering..did I do the wrong thing? OR the right thing? Perhaps God was working one of His mighty miracles after all. OR perhaps that's just the vanity of my own wishful thinking.

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StarLover33
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posted December 12, 2003 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarLover33     Edit/Delete Message
If we are all talking about our religious background. I am Roman Catholic, well my family is anyhow.

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FishKitten
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posted December 13, 2003 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FishKitten     Edit/Delete Message
It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong to me, Daf. I mean, if you had gone up and started attacking the woman's beliefs or her actions, it would be a different thing. You only offered information, then walked away. And isn't that what your friend John is doing...offering info to those who will hear it and accept it? Those who won't even listen and give the message some thought are not your responsibility. Just my opinion, of course.

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Randall
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posted December 15, 2003 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Most of the people I know are Baptists.

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Randall
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posted December 16, 2003 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Reasonably nice people, too.

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TINK
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posted December 16, 2003 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Really??!!?? Hmmm. Imagine that.

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Ra
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posted December 19, 2003 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
I, too, a recovered southern Baptist. (Thank God!)

... for my first 15 or so years. I was no where near sheltered, though. My parents were/are very open, and my grandmother gave me A Treatise on White Magic by AAB for my 21st birthday!

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TINK
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posted December 19, 2003 11:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Lucky Ra! Your Grandma sounds like fun. My father was Catholic and quite close-minded but my mom was an open-minded Episcopalian. Thank Heavens! I remember many dinner table arguments over whether or not Gandhi went to heaven or hell. Crazy. But it opened my mind to other ways of thinking and believing. My mom always ended the discussion by saying, "there are many mansions in my Father's house". And there sure are. Many paths up the Mountain. Many rungs on Jacob's Ladder.

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spiria
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posted December 28, 2003 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for spiria     Edit/Delete Message
hello all!
daf, i have to agree with fish kitten, you were just presenting your opinion , it actually sounds like you kept your perturbedness under control whilst still being you. it is good to challenge people sometimes, esp. if done with respect. it is the only way things can ever change. i am a 'recovered' catholic - eek! - my dad still one and my mom a 'recovered' baptist. my first love in this lifetime was a hare krsna....all this makes for an interesting mix which ended up making me realize how similar it all is, with different labels.

peace and love to all of you! i am delighted to have found lindaland and all of you! it is helping me through a spiritually trying time! not to mention just downright refreshing and enjoyable!

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JustAmanda
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I like to call myself the Rebel Baptist..because I attend a Southern Baptist church, that I do love, but I also follow a bit of my own path, rather, God's path that I have discovered for myself...at any rate, my beliefs currently work for me and that is what I feel is important...

It's not my job to shove my beliefs down people's throat...but it is my job to display love and kindess towards everyone...which I try to do.

Funny though, my grandmother was very gifted with intuition and could read people's aura's like nobody's business...this gift was passed to my own mother, who continues to nurture this gift, and then to my sisters and myself...and ultimately I've passed it to my daughters...among some other gifts that must be from Divinity. So...we were raised as Baptists, but my mother sought out tarot readers and even had a deck at one time long ago...so, I guess my whole family are Rebels!

heheeh...Baptist's without a cause...hehehe

interesting topic! I enjoyed this thread very much!

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QueenofSheeba
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posted January 03, 2004 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
I found out the other day that my father's family was historically Catholic up until my rather eccentric grandmother, who followed Scientology and always wanted to see a UFO. My mother's family are Baptists. I avoid them as much as possible, mainly because they live in the most boring state ever (Kansas) and are institutionally homophobic.

I think it would be cool to identify as Catholic, so long as I didn't have to do or believe anything... I wish Catholicism was an ethnicity as well as a religion, like Judaism.

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posted January 08, 2004 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Scientology and UFOs?

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posted January 09, 2004 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Grasshopper     Edit/Delete Message
Coincidence?!? I think not!

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juniperb
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StarLover33
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Can anyone educate me a little on Scientology? I have no idea what it is all about. All I know is that Tom Cruise is a follower.

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