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Originally posted by todd:
hi Stoika7in the composite your psychic connection with him is clearly shown by the node on the ascendant. this gives the ability to read each other's minds and respond to questions before they are asked etc.
chiron is square to Lilith and the moon which shows a similar desire to understand each other emotionally. this gives a analytical ambience to your conversations with both of you constantly asking why the other feels as they do about everything.
if this develops into a face to face relationship, then this aspect can contribute to arguments.
of course with Uranus opposed to venus the emotional/physical attraction is quite immediate and intense and with the mars/venus midpoint opposed to eva ,you are quite infatuated with him at the least .
withceres conjunct to juno, your attraction is actually quite strong and,you likely wonder what a serious relationship might be like with him.
though as you have noticed there are some aspect of concern.
with nessus conjunct the south node, Saturn conjunct the descendant and the mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct the node,it would seem that he is not compromising and would have to control the relationship. nessus particularly often shows a almost pathological need to rule the partner.
right away with urnaus/venus opposition and the Saturn/nessus/south node stellium, the relationship likely would have an abusive side to it. this dichotomy usually shows off and on feeelings. this looks like a relationship of extremes between love and hate.very bipolar in nature.
with pluto conjunct to the MC and the sun at the IC,coupled with the strong Saturn, there most likely would be a block of emotional flow.this aspect would also accentuate the controlling dynamic and shows a lackof will to compromise so the relationship likely could not assume a "normal" stance. that is the bipolar nature won't change.
this darkness would only be strengthen as orcus is conjunct the moon and Lilith.this aspect could indicate a past life connection between you, but it doesn't indicate a positive past life connection. Pluto opposed the sun could likewise give impulses of a past life,but overall there is more oppression that love indicated.
with Eris square to the vertex,there is again a strong attraction but this is more physical than emotional and love or intimacy usually can not develop when the emphasis on carnal desire as eris usually is.
with mercury conjunct to aura there is a good overall mental rapport and you both seem to be very in tune with each others feelings. the square of mercury to mars can give heated conversations but any divisiveness is short lived.
the Neptune/Jupiter midpoint is opposed to chron and square to orcus, so it seems there are hidden differences
. this is not usually an aspect of truth, though it might only show a with holding of feelings or issues but not necessarily deceptive practices or words.
todd
Hi Todd, I really can't thank you enough for enlightening me about some aspects of this Composite! <3
I knew about the NN/ASC psychic connection, but I thought ours was given more from the synastry SN/Chiron opposite NN/Uranus... and in the same way, I thought that this was also a sign of past life connection... Then, I suspected that the Comp. Mars/SN conjunction opposite to Neptune showed that a past connection wasn't a "peaceful" one... (Once I read that in karmic astrology this would suggest past life where the two were enemies!)
Btw, you're totally right, I feel I could fall hard in love with this person and I'm extremely attracted.
Do you think this feeling would be mutual?
(what about the Chiron/Venus trine Jupiter? :-) )
It is true that he might not be compromising, as far as I know he's a very stubborn Taurus, and somehow inflexible in his decisions... I'm not sure what you mean by "bipolar" relationship though. He doesn't seem an aggressive or abusive man at all, he's known as being very peaceful indeed and with humanitarian/human rights committments/values... I'm a little rebel Aquarian and with my Aries Mars I've never let anyone take control over me, so maybe a controlling attitude would certainly create conflicts, but I doubt I could accept any abusive relationship... I'm wondering, maybe the fact that we have Mars trine Mars, Pluto opposite Mars, Pluto square Venus in synastry would give a strongly passionate relationship and this might also give that love/hate rs you are talking about? Cause of a certain intensity of feelings? Or did you mean just a clash between personalities?
Yes, I feel we are very in tune with each others, on the mental/intellectual/artistic level, and as an aquarius this is what strengthen my attraction to him, but this is also why I feel it is not only a carnal attraction, I actually feel there would be much more than this... Maybe not on his side?
And yes, you're spot on, feelings are hidden... I never showed him I'm attracted to him, and he didn't either, so I basically have no clue if he feels attracted by me as much as I do... and I also have the feeling there's a lot of unsaid between us.
I'd dare to ask you, can you see/suggest a favourable time to meet this person at all in the near future?
Thank you so much again!! <3