hi thereaper95 I don't see then necessary stability here at all.the sun conjunct the south node and square to Uranus certainly gives an amazingly electric connection between you but this aspect is very unstable and divisive. you and she have very different takes on many things in life.in addition Jupiter is square to Saturn which is always a problem to forming long-term relationships. again you both have opposite takes onmany things.
vensuis square to juno and the vertex so she does seem to really want a relationship to work in the longterm but with mars square to pluto there doesn't seem to be enough give and take here. I see this as a off and on attraction but I don't thing there is enough middle ground of compromise.