Really good question! My husband’s Saturn is in my 9th house!
My Mercury Taurus is right on the cusp of my husband’s 8th and 9th house. I would have to look at the decimal points to know what house it is actually in for sure.
Within the first month of knowing each other, we went camping together for a few days with a group of friends. We decided to date exclusively after that trip. A few months later we went to a music festival. (More camping and van sleeping)
W/in a year of our relationship, he went on the family trip with me and I visited his grandpa who lives on an island in the Upper Peninsula where I would have no phone signal.
4 years into our relationship we visited his aunt in AZ!
I really pushed him to finally take his aunt up on this offer since I got my first job w/ PTO.
I then booked us a bed and breakfast place w/ a jet tub in our room.
Then he got his wind travel tech job shortly after that trip. I have been to 4 new states to visit him because of his job.
This was our first year leaving the country together to celebrate our honeymoon.
We are very compatible when it comes to traveling.