Sorry! I didn't notice this until now when I remember that this exchange exist. Haven't been here awhile CONTAINMENT
Expressing upset feelings like anger, sadness, hurt, or fear presents a dilemma. The card Containment suggests that it's often fruitful to contain your feelings before expressing them. It is going within yourself to fully experiece whatever you feel, then expressing these feelings in an appropriate and constructive way without the heat of emotion.
BARRIERS
In passing through the gates of fear, you discover who you really are - tapping into strength you didn't think you had and experiencing joy you didn't believe you could. Vital energy is released in moving through a barrier, energy once caught up in being on guard. You open the doors wide to all the happiness and fulfillment you truly deserve.
EBB & FLOW
This card encourages you to relax and let your steps, together or apart, flow more easily. Respect your cyclic nature. The challenge is to balance your rhythms together and try to reduce the emotional turmoil that can occur when you are out of synch.
Based on this reading I feel he want to settle things right with you. There is some difficult issues, resentment, disappointments in his mind or between you two. This hangs heavy in his mind.