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ChildofVenus | This seems to be a theme with me and someone else. My Moon is in his 2nd house and his Sun Pluto and Mars is in my 2nd house. I like having this overlay both ways. |
TaurusVenusGirl | I had someone's Moon in my 2H. I don't know his birth time so don't know what overlays he had with me. He provided for me.. He was wealthy but didn't show it off. He was even considering buying me an apartment when I suggested it to him. Needless to say he was very generous towards me. I never had to worry about money when I was with him. Actually understood why women married solely for money after that relationship. |
kani | Interesting. My friend took me in her home and provided for me when I would have been homeless otherwise. Her sun is in my 2nd house . My sun, venus and mars are in my boyfriend's 2nd house and he quite often would like me to buy him gifts or provide for him (which I refuse - if I buy a gift then it's from the heart and not because he wants me to). |
ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: I had someone's Moon in my 2H. I don't know his birth time so don't know what overlays he had with me. He provided for me.. He was wealthy but didn't show it off. He was even considering buying me an apartment when I suggested it to him. Needless to say he was very generous towards me. I never had to worry about money when I was with him. Actually understood why women married solely for money after that relationship.
That sounds similar to my situation my Moon is in their 2nd house I help them financially. Their Sun, Mars and Pluto is in my 2nd house. They give me gifts and help me with money when they can. But it’s more so gifts I receive from them. |
TaurusVenusGirl | I meet that man when I was homeless a few years ago. After the second day we met, he gave me the keys to his home and had a bowl of cash on his piano. Told me to help myself to it. Whatever I needed, he provided. It was the first and last time in my life I ever actually felt safe. |
teasel | quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: I meet that man when I was homeless a few years ago. After the second day we met, he gave me the keys to his home and had a bowl of cash on his piano. Told me to help myself to it. Whatever I needed, he provided. It was the first and last time in my life I ever actually felt safe.
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ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: I meet that man when I was homeless a few years ago. After the second day we met, he gave me the keys to his home and had a bowl of cash on his piano. Told me to help myself to it. Whatever I needed, he provided. It was the first and last time in my life I ever actually felt safe.
You should have stayed with him lol. |
TaurusVenusGirl | quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: You should have stayed with him lol.
LOL!! Omg no!! I can't stand the SOB now! I should probably add, he also controlled me via his purse strings if I didn't do as he said. He would threaten to kick me out on the street again. It wasn't all peaches and cream. He did teach me a valuable lesson though, never rely on or depend on anyone in life.
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TaurusVenusGirl | Even after I moved out though, he would always come over and take me out to eat and ask me if I had money and give me money, he would always spot me $50 whenever I saw him. He was like a part time job, but he constantly put me down. No matter what I did he would berate me. He was the only negative force in my life and him providing for me, even when I no longer lived with him, was not worth the emotional abuse that came with it. |
MMarie | I work with someone who has a stellium in my second house - sun/Merc/pluto/Uranus. He is very generous with me not with money but when he gets extra tickets to events or has something he does not need. |
ScandinavianCrab | Now i see. The only woman whom i dated seriously that tried to spoil me has her scorpio moon right at the cusp of my 2nd.. I guess i will never have a casual relationship with my eventual sugarmom. Lol (2nd in Scorpio) I rather provide for myself though. Pluto conjunct ascendant(?) |
ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: Even after I moved out though, he would always come over and take me out to eat and ask me if I had money and give me money, he would always spot me $50 whenever I saw him.He was like a part time job, but he constantly put me down. No matter what I did he would berate me. He was the only negative force in my life and him providing for me, even when I no longer lived with him, was not worth the emotional abuse that came with it.
I understand it's not worth the emotional abuse. That's odd that he still offered you money even after you were no longer with him.
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ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab: Now i see.The only woman whom i dated seriously that tried to spoil me has her scorpio moon right at the cusp of my 2nd.. I guess i will never have a casual relationship with my eventual sugarmom. Lol (2nd in Scorpio) I rather provide for myself though. Pluto conjunct ascendant(?)
It's good to be self-sufficient but it's nice to have someone who will help you if you need it. |
TaurusVenusGirl | He knows I've got noone to help me and he's well off, so he'd still provide for me. Plus all his mates just lived on wellfare and went to the pub and would never work.. I was always studying and working and trying to better myself.. This was also why he'd help. I wasn't on welfare, never trying to achieve anything, and just feeling sorry for myself. It was almost like he felt obligated to help me.. He was always impressed that I would always pick myself up, brush myself off, and keep trying regardless the obstacles. He wasn't used to seeing that and in a way wanted to help me as he always saw me helping myself. Plus I helped him too in other ways. I wonder if he was paying me back from a favour I helped him with in a past lifetime.. |
ChildofVenus | I wonder if it's ever the house person provides for the planet person. My Moon is in another person's 2nd house and this person told me they would pay my bills. |