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otha92 | I am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got alot pride at the sametime. anyone with insight help |
athenegoddess | I have the same thing. Libra rising 12 degrees, with pluto in scorpio in the 1st. People seem intimidated by me as well. I think people are afraid of my power. But i really don't care. I stay true to myself no matter what. And we have enough followers in the world, how can i be a leader if I'm afraid to be myself? Just words of advice. |
otha92 | i bet you get alot of jealousy and animosity thrown your way too. i appear stand offish but im just protecting myself. curse the exoskeletons of my cancer sun and Scorpio moon |
athenegoddess | Oh yes. Women are especially jealous of me. In fact thats where all the indifference to my appearance comes from! Men are drawn to me.. I seem to attract them quite easily. I have a Cancer Sun and Capricorn Moon.
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LovelyAries86 | quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: I have the same thing.Libra rising 12 degrees, with pluto in scorpio in the 1st. People seem intimidated by me as well. I think people are afraid of my power. But i really don't care. I stay true to myself no matter what. And we have enough followers in the world, how can i be a leader if I'm afraid to be myself? Just words of advice.
Same here! I'm not a loner and I'm not shy. Some people do dislike me, since they are intimidated in ways. However, I have a ton of people who like me very much. So I'm really not that worried about it. The Libra/Scorpio pair is ironic but interesting. I actually enjoy it!
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LovelyAries86 | quote: Originally posted by otha92: exoskeletons of my cancer sun and Scorpio moon
Yeah I think the Cancer Sun is more of the issue here. Not your Libra influence. And Pluto in the 1st is only painful if you *fight* it - if you remain receptive to change & embrace your power you'll be a lot happier! People will be intrigued by you - make that a positive instead of a negative! |
otha92 | yeah the guys glare and the woman stare lol im much too shy for relationships though. |
libran_dream | I also have a Libra AC with 1st house Pluto. Most Libra AC people born between about 1975 and 1990 have 1st house Pluto. So it's a very frequent placement. I can be a little intimidating, sure, it's mostly the way I look at things I think, there's a certain unflinching quality to H1 Pluto, no matter what's on the AC. It's difficult to pretend you're not interested in something that interests you. I don't think I get any jealousy, I don't believe in that. Animosity doesn't come out of nowhere. If I have a bad attitude that day, of course strangers will be wary. When I'm fuming about something, people will get out of the way. If I'm in a good mood, they'll like me. It's simple. Pluto has a way of making you imagine a power that is common rather than individual. We're not that special. But when younger, we like to believe we are. THAT is what presents a weakness and what people are wary about. |
otha92 | i was born in 1992 im going by my vedic chart, i know they dont use pluto but i did in my chart and it puts it in my 1st house, im a leo sun scorp moon scorp/pluto rising in western. but i think im a libra ascendant one of my ears is slightly higher than the other, i get told im nice looking, and i am always smiling |
otha92 | i remember as a kids the kids would ask me why was i alway smiling, lus ive never had a hard life like scorpio ascendant describes. i had a pretty pleasent childhood. |
ScandinavianCrab | Libra asc at 16.21 degrees and pluto at 19 degrees squaring sun and mercury in cancer and trines moon and venus in Gemini. I've signed up for a 350$ class in meditation and mindfulness that starts in a few weeks. I'll try to remember to report back what I might experience. |
Gabby | quote: Originally posted by otha92: I am such a Loner lol. im not the social type. I alway remember a slight or injury,But i always remember when sombody helps me. I care about what people think. . . People seem intimidated by me, & i get strong reactions from people im well mannered & shy. People dislike me b4 knowing my name. I just wanna be liked. . I always keep my guards up. I attract women,but im hard to get know,very aloof. And im always nervous when i talk. to one i thinks cute so .my love life sucks I hate being out in public,People always stare at me. I do have low self-esteem,lol but i got alot pride at the sametime. anyone with insight help
It's like you described me!! Libra AC@7.05 Libra Pluto@11.05 I hate that ppl have such a strong reaction to us, just our mere presence seems to inspire a reaction, either fascination or stress. I wish we could just blend in, be invisible and not linger on the minds of ppl who feel antagonized by our Pluto silently sitting out there for everyone to see...they think it's us that did something to make them feel that way, but we didn't! |
PlutoBabe | Pluto conjunct exact at 29 Libra. I don't feel so lonely when I was a kid. I always tolerate people's BS just to keep the peace. I do have my best friend admitted to me she is jealous of me. Then I have my sister told me that they're people that would be jealous of me. About the power thing, I seriously don't think I have any power or anything that would give off any power vibe. I think I have always tried to be nice to people. But now as an adult, I am giving up on making relationship or friendship work. I became a loner, I have had enough of people taking me for granted. I am lazy to go out meet anyone, lazy to entertain anyone at all but at the same time knowing I need some friends. I prefer one to one friendship than a big group type. I have more guy friend than girl friends but even so I am never too close to them consistently, they wouldn't chat me up either. I learned eventually girl close friend will leave me one day. I am not too close to any guy friend, I just fear it would lead to something outside of friendship. I know all I want is just friendship but not always for them. I am definitely a loner now. |
Dumuzi | i have it, people either love me or hate me like other people have mentioned i tend to prefer one on one interaction but i'm fine with groups and parties etc lot of ups and downs when it's come to my love life is what it is, my sun is sextile pluto (square saturn though, trine neptune) which might help and i have venus conjunct my ascendant (south node too) balancing out a kite (though it's also part of a t-square) which also probably alters it |
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