I never want to ask without first trying myself, so let me give my assessment. Maybe then some of you can give me some feedback?I am going to jump to the synastry and composite because I feel like it would be a saga if I started with the natals...
What I find interesting is how similar we are. Both water Suns, with Moon in opposite sign of Earth. He has Pluto opp Venus, my Venus is parallel Pluto. His Virgo moon, my Virgo Venus and Mars (and my Mars is right on his Moon). His Cap Mars, my Cap Moon conjunct.
I was at first disappointed to see Mars Moon all over the synastry and composite, but looking deeper it appears there is much more. I think the Mars Moon serves to attract and magnetize, and I think this is soulmate.
His NN/SN squares my MC/IC, and widely my Venus. My NN/SN and his Venus (wide). I think I shake him up and bring new ideas to him in his spiritual life- my 8th house Sun/Jup in his first. My Moon in his 7th is nice. His Sun on my IC.
In synastry our chart rulers are conjunct. My 7th house ruler is widely sextile his 7th (does that even count?). Our 5th house rulers (Mars) are trine. Our 8th rulers don't connect, but we do in reverse- my Uranus square his Mercury. But he meets my 8th house needs bcs his 7th is in my 8th, and he embodies Gemini with his 3rd house mooon.
In composite, that looks intense. Pluto conjunct Valentine in the first??? Look out now! And Mercury Moon Mars in scorpio, along with the NN/ all that opposite Sun Jupiter in the 8th/9th. Furthermore, the composite ASC is conjunct our natal chart rulers...
I don't know about longevity, and maybe permanency is not the focus here. I have come to question permanency in general. What I do see is passion and a coming together to grow and evolve spiritually. I believe this is a deep connection from a past life, and we are meant to resolve that here and now.
Thoughts? Feedback? What am I not seeing? How can I learn more?