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T O P I C R E V I E Wana_beeI was just thinking about those love stories, where people break up or get a divorce, then years later reunite and lead a beautiful relationship. LoL Not that I know any of those stories personally. But I’m sure it’s not just a Hollywood -thing.. I hope so. So how would a possible chart of that kind of relationship even look like? It can’t be too good, since there was a long term separation. It can’t be too bad either, or else they wouldn’t return to each other. Btw I’ m not talking about relationships where someone breaks up for a couple of months then resumes the relationship. I’m talking about real separations. Any idea?margym0oThere's so much to say about these types of situations. So many real life factors (non-astrological) that can play a part.When I hear stories like this I think either strong Uranus (for that sudden, impulsive break) or Saturnian (lessons learned) or a combination of both. Some people just get together too early in life, but come back together at a time where they've both matured and grown into who they are as individuals. I don't think it's always the "hearts and flowers" type of romance either, rather it is two people who grew to understand the work it takes to maintain a relationship and are now willing to put in that work to keep the love alive. A strong basis of friendship helps with this too I think, because the two people genuinely enjoy just being with each other without the pressure to "be anything" other than themselves. Sometimes too it's purely situational...when two people find themselves in the same boat (divorced with children for instance) suddenly they have that basis of commonality and take on the ensuing challenges together. I would say despite all of this the initial bond would have had to be strong (hence the friendship part of it), otherwise there will be nothing compelling them to give it another try in the first place. If the relationship was crap, I doubt they would even bother.
So how would a possible chart of that kind of relationship even look like? It can’t be too good, since there was a long term separation. It can’t be too bad either, or else they wouldn’t return to each other.
Btw I’ m not talking about relationships where someone breaks up for a couple of months then resumes the relationship. I’m talking about real separations.
Any idea?
When I hear stories like this I think either strong Uranus (for that sudden, impulsive break) or Saturnian (lessons learned) or a combination of both. Some people just get together too early in life, but come back together at a time where they've both matured and grown into who they are as individuals. I don't think it's always the "hearts and flowers" type of romance either, rather it is two people who grew to understand the work it takes to maintain a relationship and are now willing to put in that work to keep the love alive. A strong basis of friendship helps with this too I think, because the two people genuinely enjoy just being with each other without the pressure to "be anything" other than themselves. Sometimes too it's purely situational...when two people find themselves in the same boat (divorced with children for instance) suddenly they have that basis of commonality and take on the ensuing challenges together.
I would say despite all of this the initial bond would have had to be strong (hence the friendship part of it), otherwise there will be nothing compelling them to give it another try in the first place. If the relationship was crap, I doubt they would even bother.
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