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Polyhemnia | Scorpios, I get along with them fairly well for being a Leo. One of my closest dearest friends is a Scorpio. I love the guy, and I understand him very well, theres great communication with him. HOWEVER when it comes to relationships he has/had with other woman, he and I are such polar opposites. I feel I am speaking the truth and being supportive, and his sensitivity thinks otherwise! Is it in our charts that show this!? Him: Sun/Scorpio Moon/Taurus Mercury/Scorpio Venus/Scorpio Mars/Leo Me: Sun/Leo Moon/Taurus Mercury/Cancer Venus/Virgo Mars/Gemini Any thoughts? |
Dancing Maenad | quote: Originally posted by Polyhemnia:
Any thoughts?
Run. Don't look back. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: Run. Don't look back.
Haha I would miss him too much. I have known him for almost five years. We had had conflict in the past that has caused us to not talk for X period of time but we always keep our friendship. |
theunknown | Well I'm not sure what your synastry look likes but his sun, mercury, venus all square your sun and moon at least by sign. Your mars doesn't aspect his planets even by sign and gemini mars can be very flighty at time (even for me and I'm an aqua with aqua mercury). All his scorp placements might feel too sensitive |
Dancing Maenad | As you wish. I gave up! lol I love the women, but the dudes are ^$*^((&*%^#$. I lose patience with their fixed ways and paranoia and need for revenge lol. I have a good male Scorpio friend and I keep telling him he needs to grow into the eagle instead of crawling like a silly arachnid. Because no relationship will ever work until he forgives his ex for ripping his heart out - told him forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Nope. I'd have more success convincing a brick wall to become a flower. :/ ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ |
LucieLemonade | It's the fire water thing again! I have a very good friend that is a Pisces. We stop talking every three weeks or some. As much as I adore him, I can't deal.. Sigh. But I you don't have so much fire, which is probably why you've been able to stick it out for 5 years... I've known my friend for about 18 months and I'm at my wits end.
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DeepFreeze | quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: As you wish. I gave up! lol I love the women, but the dudes are ^$*^((&*%^#$. I lose patience with their fixed ways and paranoia and need for revenge lol. I have a good male Scorpio friend and I keep telling him he needs to grow into the eagle instead of crawling like a silly arachnid. Because no relationship will ever work until he forgives his ex for ripping his heart out - told him forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Nope. I'd have more success convincing a brick wall to become a flower. :/
I don't forgive either but I do move on. An ex tried to get back 6 years later and I never said a word about it for 6 years and we were friends. But when she tried to get back then I let her know. It didn't really hurt anything when I told her but it shut her down. I'm Leo if there's anyone who didn't know already. |
DeepFreeze | Oh..... I do get along with Scorpio just fine BTW. Never had a problem with any one of them. In fact, the only Scorpio placement that I MAY have had an issue with was moon. But they were a cancer. Just too much anxiety, worry, nervousness. I just ignored them. I figured it was better than snapping on them. |
Polyhemnia | I love the comments and opinions. Yeah we definitely get a little fire and water lashes at each other, but I have water in my chart as well that cools my fire. He is stubborn as any fixed sign and boy does it make it difficult for trying to be there for him in regards to this situation! He's currently upset with me because he isn't over this Leo chick he had intense feelings for, for a year and a half; yet this Leo, ripped his heart out countless times, spit on it, dug her heel in it, and YET he still insists that he "loved" her. (I think he was infatuated [part of the reason as to why hes upset with me]) I'm only expressing my honesty, about the relationship they shared, but he's too caught up in the idea of her, that anything "negative" I have to say makes him sting me, and make me look like the bad guy for caring and sharing! Am I really in the wrong for just expressing how I feel about it!? He has informed me throughout the time he was feeling those feelings for her, the way he treated her. So it's not like I'm assuming, I know she didn't care about him, yet he cares about her!!! Arg! Scorpios... |
DeepFreeze | I'd do the same. I'm honest with my friends and if they don't like it they can find dishonesty somewhere else. FYI to people... Honesty doesn't have to be rude. It can be caring. |
Doux Rêve | quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I'd have more success convincing a brick wall to become a flower.
Priceless. quote: Originally posted by Polyhemnia: I know she didn't care about him, yet he cares about her!!! Arg! Scorpios...
It's called being in love... Scorpio or not, the dude has feelings for that girl. Of course he's not gonna take it well that you badmouth her. If he's too sensitive about it, I'd advise you not to talk about it with him and let him deal with it on his own. He's super fixed so it's probably gonna take him a while to get over her. |
rorrr | I'm a Scorpio and I've been in a relationship with my Leo man for a year. It is possible!!! But it will take work to try and understand each other. Scorpios are proud like Leos but our pride comes from determination and a deep emotional reserve instead of ego. Connect with us emotionally - show love, be loyal, and you will get Scorpio's unceasing loyalty back. Lots of great sex and surrendering a couple personal secrets is also a pretty safe bet to a Scorpio's good side too - LOL! I think the intensity might be a bit much for some Leos, but, you know, just laugh it off or whatever. I would however agree with other posters that Scorpio men can have a bit of psycho-darkness. Depends on a lot on the rest of the chart, but I think female Scorpios can handle a bit of dark emotion because we can cry or scream or work it out, but boys are not taught how to manage emotionally well and in some cases this can make Scorpio dudes a bit villainous!!! |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: It's called being in love... Scorpio or not, the dude has feelings for that girl. Of course he's not gonna take it well that you badmouth her. If he's too sensitive about it, I'd advise you not to talk about it with him and let him deal with it on his own. He's super fixed so it's probably gonna take him a while to get over her.
Yeah I feel thats the best way to handle this situation. He professes he was in love with her. However I think otherwise. He is having a lot of trouble letting go of her. I want him to know I'm not badmouthing her, but showing what he is avoiding. |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'd do the same. I'm honest with my friends and if they don't like it they can find dishonesty somewhere else. FYI to people... Honesty doesn't have to be rude. It can be caring.
So true. Honesty is the best policy. |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by rorrr: I'm a Scorpio and I've been in a relationship with my Leo man for a year. It is possible!!! But it will take work to try and understand each other. Scorpios are proud like Leos but our pride comes from determination and a deep emotional reserve instead of ego. Connect with us emotionally - show love, be loyal, and you will get Scorpio's unceasing loyalty back. Lots of great sex and surrendering a couple personal secrets is also a pretty safe bet to a Scorpio's good side too - LOL!I think the intensity might be a bit much for some Leos, but, you know, just laugh it off or whatever. I would however agree with other posters that Scorpio men can have a bit of psycho-darkness. Depends on a lot on the rest of the chart, but I think female Scorpios can handle a bit of dark emotion because we can cry or scream or work it out, but boys are not taught how to manage emotionally well and in some cases this can make Scorpio dudes a bit villainous!!!
LOLZ! Wow, wow, wow he is not my lover XD I'm in a relationship with an Aquarius. A man whom keeps me on my toes, sparks my life with excitement, share great conversations with, and a lot of other wonderful aspects. The Scorpio here mentioned is a close friend of mine that I have known for too long now ;P I do like your input on the two fixed signs though. I can agree to it, I haven't persoanlly had an intimate relationship with a Scorpio but I can definitely see those aspects being present in a relationship. |
4lifephrases | OR Maybe it is just this week. The transits are quiet funny at the moment. Honestly I am Scorpio and I do not think I would be able to live with somebody who was a Scorpio. We are so damn difficult ! |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by 4lifephrases: OR Maybe it is just this week. The transits are quiet funny at the moment.Honestly I am Scorpio and I do not think I would be able to live with somebody who was a Scorpio. We are so damn difficult !
Honestly I don't pay attention much to the current transists. I wonder they play apart now that you've mentioned it. Yeah I find when it's the same signs it's either love or hate. I couldn't imagine living with another Leo. Especially an August Leo. In my experience I notice a difference between July and August Leos. |
StrandedSaturn | You never really know if you get along with them or not. Sure, they can be charming and enigmatic, but I think they hide a darkness from people. I'm surprised nobody ever talks about their smirk. I think it's the cutest thing ever. Transits matter a lot trust me. Ever notice when you are talking to a Scorpio or watching one talk to others, they are so into it? Their eyes are like daggers when they speak they stare right at you and a lot of eyebrow movement and smirking and stuff. The ones I know also can turn dead serious and stare at you out of nowhere and say more with that stare than they can with any words. |
LovelyKitty | quote: Originally posted by Polyhemnia: Scorpios, I get along with them fairly well for being a Leo. One of my closest dearest friends is a Scorpio. I love the guy, and I understand him very well, theres great communication with him. HOWEVER when it comes to relationships he has/had with other woman, he and I are such polar opposites. I feel I am speaking the truth and being supportive, and his sensitivity thinks otherwise! Is it in our charts that show this!? Him: Sun/Scorpio Moon/Taurus Mercury/Scorpio Venus/Scorpio Mars/Leo Me: Sun/Leo Moon/Taurus Mercury/Cancer Venus/Virgo Mars/Gemini Any thoughts?
Just your sun that square his (by sign) . The other personal planets( moon merc venus mars) are compatible ! My Imho , you could work out easily in long term relationship |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by StrandedSaturn: You never really know if you get along with them or not. Sure, they can be charming and enigmatic, but I think they hide a darkness from people. I'm surprised nobody ever talks about their smirk. I think it's the cutest thing ever. Transits matter a lot trust me. Ever notice when you are talking to a Scorpio or watching one talk to others, they are so into it? Their eyes are like daggers when they speak they stare right at you and a lot of eyebrow movement and smirking and stuff. The ones I know also can turn dead serious and stare at you out of nowhere and say more with that stare than they can with any words.
Yes I have noticed those distinct facial features and intensity in the eyes. My boyfriend's bestfriend is a Scorpio and he demonstrates those features often. |
Polyhemnia | quote: Originally posted by LovelyKitty: Just your sun that square his (by sign) . The other personal planets( moon merc venus mars) are compatible !My Imho , you could work out easily in long term relationship
Well we already have a long term friendship. He knows we make a good pair too. |