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T O P I C R E V I E Wwhitewitch111I really need to know what my ex is feeling for me right now, and where this is going to go...I have a boyfriend right now, but I can't help having feelings for my ex. I love my boyfriend more, I will never doubt that, but I really need to know what he's feeling right now in terms of me, and what's going to happen between us. I can exchange if you would like me to. MetalAphroditeI'll exchange.My q is how did J feel because of my guitar video?I'll read for you in my next post. whitewitch111ok, you bet, thank you. cherful24 does it really matter what he thinks aboutyou? are you going to leave your current boyfriend?if you knew that your ex cares and loves you and would be with you still, would that change your mind about your feelings for your boyfriend and whether or not you would continue to be with your boyfriend?... ask yourself those questions because I'm sure more than one or two or three people are going to reply to you on that. I personally em not going to answer because I don't want to confuse your little heart anymore than it is.so truly gain clarity on what you want. what direction you want to go in before u make a move whitewitch111I just want them both, "B" makes me feel good about myself and I have fun with him and truly love him, but "P" makes me feel whole, as if he's the other part of my soul....:'( After all the hurt he's done me, I just can't seem to let go...MetalAphroditeQ: How does whitewitch's ex feel because of her?A: 9 of Arrows clarified by Prince of Arrows.Hm, how did the relation end, if you don't mind my asking? Was it because of a misunderstanding between the two of you? It seems as if he can't get over how things ended and seems to be hovering over the edge of what's going on with you now, making sure you're okay........ I'm going to pull another card to further clarify.EmperorHe has gained insight on what's happened in the past and it's changed his stance on how he felt about a situation that occurred between you. He's concerned about how things went down and seems to be hanging around, trying to scrutinize you and your next moves. I can see him waiting on the edges, just watching.Q: What will happen to whitewitch and her ex in the future?A: 8 of Arrows clarified by 2 of Pentacles.Aww, well, it seems that the troubled past is clarified by you two and set aside. However, where does that leave you two now? There's the implied infinity symbol between the 8 of Arrows and the 2 of Pentacles here. You need to live the path you have chosen. The ex and your relationship will not break. You can't just drop your life because he deems it so, no matter how much you want to return. He will remain by your side and you have a friend for life. It's tempting, but you paid your penance to him. It's time he pays his penance to you.Hope that helps.cherful24well if someone makes you feel whole then that's the best you can ever feel.but with that being said there's a lot of work that would need to go into starting a relationship over with him and it is not guaranteed to work out. the one you're in now is not guaranteed to work out however it chances of success or higher, for obvious reasons.I understand where you are coming from because I have a similar feeling and passion and love towards an exq who hurt me and if he came around and left his wife to be with me I don't know if I would say no to that. but what I do know is that I would never make one ounce of effort, first.therefore I would not get yourself worked up over these types of questions or thinking or pondering the future events unless you start seeing an effort from this man. MetalAphroditeI thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.I made the mistake of giving up happiness with a current beau to seek happiness from the past. What I didn't realize at that time was that the current bf understood the wants and needs of the current me and was not confusing that person with who I used to be.I have made peace with the me I used to be. Any mistake that happened already cannot be changed, only the lesson to be absorbed if still available for mental, emotional, and spiritual download.I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.cherful24very intriguing... so you did go back to your ex and I'm guessing it didn't work out?QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:I thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.I made the mistake of giving up happiness with a current beau to seek happiness from the past. What I didn't realize at that time was that the current bf understood the wants and needs of the current me and was not confusing that person with who I used to be.I have made peace with the me I used to be. Any mistake that happened already cannot be changed, only the lesson to be absorbed if still available for mental, emotional, and spiritual download.I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.[/QUOTE]MetalAphroditeYeah, he cheated on me several times. I finally moved on with someone who I genuinely loved, and still do to this day.My best friend of ten years was the other woman lol.And the guy I left gave me the name Metal Aphrodite because I was hard as nails in all of my innocence.The creep talked to me seven years after we broke it off to try and rekindle a relationship. He was engaged to someone I knew. I told him to get lost and leave me alone. The guy I left passed away in 2011 from complications from Crohn's. I sometimes hate how idiotic I can be. quote:Originally posted by cherful24:very intriguing... so you did go back to your ex and I'm guessing it didn't work out?QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:[b]I thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.I made the mistake of giving up happiness with a current beau to seek happiness from the past. What I didn't realize at that time was that the current bf understood the wants and needs of the current me and was not confusing that person with who I used to be.I have made peace with the me I used to be. Any mistake that happened already cannot be changed, only the lesson to be absorbed if still available for mental, emotional, and spiritual download.I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.[/B][/QUOTE]cherful24Wow :-)QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:Yeah, he cheated on me several times. I finally moved on with someone who I genuinely loved, and still do to this day.My best friend of ten years was the other woman lol.And the guy I left gave me the name Metal Aphrodite because I was hard as nails in all of my innocence.The creep talked to me seven years after we broke it off to try and rekindle a relationship. He was engaged to someone I knew. I told him to get lost and leave me alone. The guy I left passed away in 2011 from complications from Crohn's. I sometimes hate how idiotic I can be. [/QUOTE]whitewitch111Hey Metal, I'm sorry it's taken me a bit, I just had to walk around and clear my head after reading that, why we broke up is because he simply fell out of love with me, and felt very bad about it, although it wasn't all him, I was very smothering towards him, like an overbearing mother, I pressured him into a relationship I would say, but not on purpose, it was just because I loved him so much and couldn't bare us being apart. He felt very guilty that he would never love me back as much so decided it was better for me if he left. I think he still feels guilty too. Ok brb with your reading. MetalAphroditeIf he didn't cheat on me, I would have never met one of the strongest supports in my life through the "other" woman lol.She refused to try any of my backwards schemes to reveal he was two timing. It was frustrating but I admired her moral standards and adherence to that. MetalAphrodite quote:Originally posted by whitewitch111:Hey Metal, I'm sorry it's taken me a bit, I just had to walk around and clear my head after reading that, why we broke up is because he simply fell out of love with me, and felt very bad about it, although it wasn't all him, I was very smothering towards him, like an overbearing mother, I pressured him into a relationship I would say, but not on purpose, it was just because I loved him so much and couldn't bare us being apart. He felt very guilty that he would never love me back as much so decided it was better for me if he left. I think he still feels guilty too. Ok brb with your reading. Take your time, no rush. My butt is sore from being cramped in a car lol.Even in having said that, your current bf loves you as is, correct? Do you feel that your relationship with B was built under the same circumstances you described with P?whitewitch111no definitely not, with "B" it was like a magnetic attraction we both had so much love and devotion for each other the moment we first laid eyes on each other. He thought I was the most beautiful woman in the world. He's so good to me, I honestly couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, which is why I so hate having these feelings for "P"MetalAphrodite quote:Originally posted by whitewitch111:no definitely not, with "B" it was like a magnetic attraction we both had so much love and devotion for each other the moment we first laid eyes on each other. He thought I was the most beautiful woman in the world. He's so good to me, I honestly couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, which is why I so hate having these feelings for "P"It's emotional residue from a previous version of you. Who you were when you were P is different from the "you" you are now with B.I wonder if P is seeing how you blossomed with B's love. He could have had you and treated you the same. He did not. One thing my guy friends have continuously impressed upon me as they were educating me about dudes is that with a guy, actions speak louder than words. Let his actions do the explaining for him, not his words. You'll notice if you resist a guy's machinations, he'll give up easily. Some guys actually follow through and stick it out, cool. Most don't.whitewitch111Hey Metal, going to give you a reading now. Sorry I was just really overwhelmed last night.
I can exchange if you would like me to.
My q is how did J feel because of my guitar video?
I'll read for you in my next post.
if you knew that your ex cares and loves you and would be with you still, would that change your mind about your feelings for your boyfriend and whether or not you would continue to be with your boyfriend?
... ask yourself those questions because I'm sure more than one or two or three people are going to reply to you on that. I personally em not going to answer because I don't want to confuse your little heart anymore than it is.
so truly gain clarity on what you want. what direction you want to go in before u make a move
A: 9 of Arrows clarified by Prince of Arrows.
Hm, how did the relation end, if you don't mind my asking? Was it because of a misunderstanding between the two of you? It seems as if he can't get over how things ended and seems to be hovering over the edge of what's going on with you now, making sure you're okay........ I'm going to pull another card to further clarify.
Emperor
He has gained insight on what's happened in the past and it's changed his stance on how he felt about a situation that occurred between you. He's concerned about how things went down and seems to be hanging around, trying to scrutinize you and your next moves. I can see him waiting on the edges, just watching.
Q: What will happen to whitewitch and her ex in the future?
A: 8 of Arrows clarified by 2 of Pentacles.
Aww, well, it seems that the troubled past is clarified by you two and set aside. However, where does that leave you two now? There's the implied infinity symbol between the 8 of Arrows and the 2 of Pentacles here. You need to live the path you have chosen. The ex and your relationship will not break. You can't just drop your life because he deems it so, no matter how much you want to return. He will remain by your side and you have a friend for life. It's tempting, but you paid your penance to him. It's time he pays his penance to you.
Hope that helps.
but with that being said there's a lot of work that would need to go into starting a relationship over with him and it is not guaranteed to work out. the one you're in now is not guaranteed to work out however it chances of success or higher, for obvious reasons.
I understand where you are coming from because I have a similar feeling and passion and love towards an exq who hurt me and if he came around and left his wife to be with me I don't know if I would say no to that. but what I do know is that I would never make one ounce of effort, first.
therefore I would not get yourself worked up over these types of questions or thinking or pondering the future events unless you start seeing an effort from this man.
I made the mistake of giving up happiness with a current beau to seek happiness from the past. What I didn't realize at that time was that the current bf understood the wants and needs of the current me and was not confusing that person with who I used to be.
I have made peace with the me I used to be. Any mistake that happened already cannot be changed, only the lesson to be absorbed if still available for mental, emotional, and spiritual download.
I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.
QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:I thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.
I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.[/QUOTE]
My best friend of ten years was the other woman lol.
And the guy I left gave me the name Metal Aphrodite because I was hard as nails in all of my innocence.
The creep talked to me seven years after we broke it off to try and rekindle a relationship. He was engaged to someone I knew. I told him to get lost and leave me alone. The guy I left passed away in 2011 from complications from Crohn's.
I sometimes hate how idiotic I can be.
quote:Originally posted by cherful24:very intriguing... so you did go back to your ex and I'm guessing it didn't work out?QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:[b]I thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.I made the mistake of giving up happiness with a current beau to seek happiness from the past. What I didn't realize at that time was that the current bf understood the wants and needs of the current me and was not confusing that person with who I used to be.I have made peace with the me I used to be. Any mistake that happened already cannot be changed, only the lesson to be absorbed if still available for mental, emotional, and spiritual download.I don't want to confuse you. Please take my reading with a grain of salt.
QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:[b]I thought the same thing cherful did before the reading and was going to say it, but that's a given.
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QUOTE]Originally posted by MetalAphrodite:Yeah, he cheated on me several times. I finally moved on with someone who I genuinely loved, and still do to this day.
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Ok brb with your reading.
She refused to try any of my backwards schemes to reveal he was two timing. It was frustrating but I admired her moral standards and adherence to that.
quote:Originally posted by whitewitch111:Hey Metal, I'm sorry it's taken me a bit, I just had to walk around and clear my head after reading that, why we broke up is because he simply fell out of love with me, and felt very bad about it, although it wasn't all him, I was very smothering towards him, like an overbearing mother, I pressured him into a relationship I would say, but not on purpose, it was just because I loved him so much and couldn't bare us being apart. He felt very guilty that he would never love me back as much so decided it was better for me if he left. I think he still feels guilty too. Ok brb with your reading.
Even in having said that, your current bf loves you as is, correct? Do you feel that your relationship with B was built under the same circumstances you described with P?
He's so good to me, I honestly couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, which is why I so hate having these feelings for "P"
quote:Originally posted by whitewitch111:no definitely not, with "B" it was like a magnetic attraction we both had so much love and devotion for each other the moment we first laid eyes on each other. He thought I was the most beautiful woman in the world. He's so good to me, I honestly couldn't ask for a better boyfriend, which is why I so hate having these feelings for "P"
I wonder if P is seeing how you blossomed with B's love. He could have had you and treated you the same. He did not. One thing my guy friends have continuously impressed upon me as they were educating me about dudes is that with a guy, actions speak louder than words. Let his actions do the explaining for him, not his words. You'll notice if you resist a guy's machinations, he'll give up easily. Some guys actually follow through and stick it out, cool. Most don't.
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