I used to be that way. I hope nothing changes that for you. The last six years "cured" me of that, unfortunately. At least, for now. I can think of three people that I hate - all out of my life, but the feelings are still strong. That doesn't mean that I don't still care for one of them; I think the hate is there because I do care, and I was betrayed.
I would have put it on my Mars in Pisces and/or Moon conjunct Venus before. Uranus conjunct ascendant apparently accepts people as they are - and I do, with most people.
What is the rest of your chart?