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shop22much | Anyone ever have their Venus conjuct someone's Pluto and visa versa? Ive read theres a deep connection, profound love, almost obessesion between these 2 people, also read about possible past lives together. What was your experience with this person like? are you still with them or are they in your life at all? if not in your life, how do you feel about them today? what are your views about this aspect between 2 people? how did you feel when you first met the person? was it like you knew them all your life? etc etc |
pidaua | I had someone's Sun and Venus conjunct my Pluto in Virgo. It was pretty horrible for me. He was obsessed and almost angry with me (it didn't help that my own natal Sun and Venus squared his Virgo Sun / Pluto). It can be easier if you already have those aspect.. for example I dated a Leo with Venus in Gemini / Pluto in Virgo. Natally I also have Venus Square Pluto. So, even though his Pluto squared my Venus and vice versa, we were already familiar to the energies. Now, I am with someone that also has a natal Venus square Pluto aspect, BUT his Pluto sextiles my Venus (Libra /Sag) and my Pluto sextiles his Venus (Virgo / Cancer). I seem to have strong Pluto contacts with mates because of my own plutonian aspects and energy (I have Pluto conjuncting my Ascendant in the 1st house - squaring my Sun / Venus- while trining Mercury and sextiling Jupiter / Neptune). As it stands, my Pluto conjuncts my mates Moon while his Pluto opposes my moon. Strong Pluto aspects between mates will cause MAJOR feelings, for good or for bad. If they are coupled with strong Saturn aspects, well - you have some major Karmic issues to work out- good and bad. |
GemStar | Hello Pidaua! Quick question...sorta off topic...Your Moon opposed his Pluto...do you yourself feel obsessive about him at times? How do you feel he influences you? Does he get under your skin 'deeply'? Venus/Pluto aspects are wonderful usually and do bring karmic ties...lessons as well. I have Venus trine Pluto, my Other has Venus square Pluto. My Venus squares his Pluto (which conjucts my Eros!)...and I often feel soooo compelled to be with him...thinking of him so often. We have a great many karmic aspects and strong saturn links as well. Venus conjunct Pluto would be beautiful....and I would look at the other synastry aspects to validate longevity...Saturn in particular. GemStar |
goldielox512 | my husband an i have been married 16 years and together 17 years in all. my sun his taurus 21 deg 11th house virgo 8deg. 7th my pluto virgo 5 deg his venus 04deg00'38 my saturn cap 29 deg 7 house exact trine his asc cap 29 deg my asc cancer oppose his ascend cappy 7house my no. node virgo 3deg. conj.his venus virgo 4 deg. my mars leo 3 deg conj his moon leo 4 deg. it seems no matter what we go through its all linked like we were mean't to be and we stay together in spite of alot of crap we've been through like we are bound together
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pidaua | I am not obsessed with him, but that could be because my own Pluto conjuncts his Moon and I have an extremely strong Pluto placement myself. With my ex-bf, yes, we both had Venus squaring the other's Pluto and yes we were both obsessed with each other - couldn't keep our hands off each other - but it was a fire that also could burn out of control leaving us feeling scorched. I was almost relieved when it finally ended. With my Ex-husband, my Pluto conjuncted his Sun / Mercury and squared his Gemini moon. We didn't have any aspects between his Venus and my Pluto. His Pluto in Leo trined my Sun / Moon / Venus -but our tension seemed to be too much for the softer aspect. |
shop22much | does anyone know what Linda thought about this aspect? any other experiences? |
Mama Mia | My lil one's is dad is Virgo and he and I both have Pluto in virgo,it was like a rip to the the 10th power. I thought I would never get over him. 10 yrs of loving him hard. And him too would never leave even though things were not right. Finally I got enough strentgh in me and let him go. We have been split now like 1 1/2 yrs and he is still trying to be with me swears things will be different if I just give him a small chance.. Nope not gone happen.. I remember the first date we went on he told me that it seemed like he had met me b4. So I can see where the past life thing comes in. We also had other aspects to that kept us together like My sun opposes his sun and we both had our moons in the 12th house. |
shop22much | do you think its possible to ever get over someone you have this connection with? if so, are you completely over it, or are these carved in your heart forever? |
WaterNymph | There’s something I don’t like about this aspect…it’s too easy. My Pluto almost exactly conj my friends Venus…he had this with everyone born in our school year and the year before and after!!! interesting...so he has an intense relationship with everyone? |
Mama Mia | That is interesting and funny..But everyone one that he meets will not be in that age group I do not think...That is why I metnioned other major aspects to cause I think that plays a major part too. Like sun opposes moon or sun moon conjunction something along those lines.. |
WaterNymph | Hey MM, I agree that now he works, he wont be around people of the same age - but school must have been interesting for him Personally I never saw anything special in him…but hey, we didn’t have many aspects so that might be why. |
Mama Mia | Hey WaterN. You have been a lil quiet around here. Considering the drama that is a good thing...Hope you are doing ok.. |
WaterNymph | Yeah, I hate bad vibes…you know we fish soak it all up. It's summer for goodness sake - we should be happy. Hope you're well |
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nove731 | Haha, I'll never meet someone whose Pluto Conjuncts my Venus, so I guess I'll never know. When does Pluto go into Pisces again? |
Mama Mia | Piduau: I do know what you mean about loving your ex but not being inlove with him. That is how I feel about my lil ones dad. I guess that is due to the Virgo conjunct thingy..Both our moons was ion the 12th house. Ooooohhh is all I can say, I am glad that I don't have those intense feelings anymore. However I have met a new Virgo guy and he also has Pluto in Virgo,but somehow I feel a difference with him not quite the same as b4.. |
gemini girl | thats one aspect i get all the time its like i attract it maybe the moon conj pluto and venus oppo rising which like moon and pluto is scorpio wouldnt know and i attract the uranus venus connection hate that one anyway |
WaterNymph | Pidaua, it makes perfect sense the relationship you mentioned seemed real intense…but I guess that reflects the other aspects. I don’t remember having many aspects with my friend - but from the love hate thing you mentioned…perhaps I should keep my distance lmao Nove - I know what you mean…my Venus is in Aries UGH! I have to wait how long? jk |
cat lover | Ok so what if someones VENUS AND SOUTH NODE CONJUNCT THE OTHER PERSONS PLUTO? Does that change or reinforce anything here?!
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