hopefully someone else helps you out with this one. too complicated for me. lolyou : Saturn
he: Moon + (Sun)
you guys have a nice applying sextile between Moon + Saturn.
so since both the Sun+Moon represent him and it's an applying conjunction i'd say he is the obstacle himself, not you. since the conjunction is in the 8th maybe he is going through some kind of emotional struggle? maybe he is manipulating you somehow, playing games? Moon is in its fall in the 8th.