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Sagariescap | hello, ive read many interpretations that neptune square mars in composite means a player or unfaithfulness is it always like this?? what if neptune/mars midpoint is square to venus in the composite? also what aspects or midpoints in composite would show faithfulness from the man??what if venus/sun and venus/juno midpoints in composite are square to saturn? what would that imply? thank u so much in advance im trying to learn <3 |
Sagariescap | anyone? 😁
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softissues | Hi! I can’t comment on the others except Neptune square Mars. I would say deception. One may be sacrificing while the other isn’t as much or at all even, it may just appear that way. Very draining like it’s sucking the life out of your livelihood. I would stay away from many Neptune harsh aspects in composite. Speaking from experience. Once that Neptune bubble pops, there’s actually not a lot there. This could also translate into the bedroom, you may expect more from one another sexually but it may just be one sided, one may be on cloud nine while the other isn’t at all but I guess that depends on other factors too. |
Stoika7 | It may show there won't be a committment or there's infidelty, with the square to venus they may just have fun together, meeting in parties and night life, but the relationship may stay open and not exclusive or not just getting too serious. as for the other placements it would be better to check the whole chart. |
Sagariescap | helloo @softissues and @stoika7 Thank you both so much❤️❤️❤️ do you think there would be aspects to mitigate neptune’s harsh aspects especially to mars? sorry asking too much, thank u again ❤️ |
softissues | Ah no problem! I would say positive Saturn aspects but then I wouldn't know that much <3 |
Stoika7 | quote: Originally posted by Sagariescap: helloo @softissues and @stoika7 Thank you both so much❤️❤️❤️ do you think there would be aspects to mitigate neptune’s harsh aspects especially to mars? sorry asking too much, thank u again ❤️
You're welcome! My answer is, unfortunately, no. You can have other positive aspects for compatibility and enjoyable relationship, but the neptune/mars influence would still play out with difficult committment or infidelty. |
Sagariescap | Unfortunately thank u both again so much, wish you both a happy new year ❤️❤️
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sis | so fatalistic interprations... Mars square Neptune does not have to be infidelity... It could be addictions, fluctuating energy levels, sexual highs and lows... and creativity... role plays... tantric sex... there could be confusion on the actions taken by mostly the male partner... I have friends married for 26 years... They have Sun, Venus square Neptune and Pluto, mars inconjunct Neptune in their synastry... I am so close to them and I know how these aspects play out in their relationship. But never infidelity... |
softissues | Hi sis (love your name lol), that’s great that your friends have been married a long time however I would say Mars inconjunct Neptune is different than Mars square Neptune. I’ve had Venus Square Neptune and Mars Square Neptune, these manifest differently in every relationship and idk if there was infidelity in mine. There wasn’t from my end but there was a lot of miscommunication, broken ideals and expectations both through love and action in the relationship. @ OP. I personally would be cautious of it and ensure there’s always honesty that’s the best thing I can say with Neptune.
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Sagariescap | Hello @sis, thank u so much! It’s wonderful to know your friends dont experience infidelity are they of different cultures/nationalities? i read somewhere that with diff cultures/nationalities, hard neptune aspects in composite do not imply bad interpretations for example like cheating. not sure though if that’s true or not but ive read that a long time ago. thank you though again and happy new year! Helloo @softissues, of course honesty is the best way out and I always demand it. ❤️❤️ |
Hikaru29 | My brother has comp Neptune square Mars with his wife of 14yrs. Of course I don’t know what goes on in the bedroom but they just had a baby girl so that shows they are still having sex (lol), and no my brother has never cheated on her. In fact, they’re very close...always together. I also know long-term couples who have the quincunx and semi-square but no knowledge of infidelity. So my simple answer to whether Neptune square (or harsh aspect) Mars in composite means the man won’t commit and will cheat is...No, I don’t think this aspect 100% plays out this way. It could be just one person’s behaviour draining the other person. Further information may shed some light. Their Neptune square Mars is wide at 8deg with its midpoint conjunct Venus opposite Saturn square Chiron. My aunt and her husband has the semi-square at 1deg with midpoint squaring Jupiter. Also very close, no cheating, and my aunt told me they still have an active sex life. My guy and I have the quincunx with midpoint conjunct Juno. He has assured me time and again he’s exclusive with me. We’ve an active sex life and there’re no signs he’s sleeping with someone else so I have to believe him. Now let’s take a look at relationships I know where the men are cheating or have cheated: Couple 1 has Neptune semi-sextile Mars. Couple 2 has Neptune sesqui Mars. Couple 3 also has Neptune sesqui Mars with midpoint conjunct NN. Couple 4 has Neptune trine Mars 8deg. Couple 5 has no Neptune-Mars aspect. So clearly this isn’t an aspect that makes people cheat or not cheat. I hope people don’t just judge this one aspect and write off an otherwise healthy, functioning relationship. I’m curious what aspects show that the women will cheat? This is rarely talked about. |
softissues | quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I’m curious what aspects show that the women will cheat? This is rarely talked about.
Me too, hmmm |
Sagariescap | Thank you so much Hikaru29!❤️ quote: i’m curious what aspects show that the women will cheat? This is rarely talked about. [/B]
samee would like to know what would show that too |
mee_chryssa | Venus in Gemini, I think. I have a friend that was cheating on her bf and she has a Gemini Venus. She even told him why she did it because she was feeling lonely. And now that I think about it, I have a friend that met his gf while she was with another guy and she dated this friend of mine until she dumped the other guy. Now he was left like he started it. She cheated on him with one of his class mates at university. |
mee_chryssa | Also, both of them have venus/mars in gemini. |
mee_chryssa | I think the faithfulness on the part of the guy is mostly seen in the natal chart if it shows a sensitive person. Like placements in Cancer, Pisces. I don't there is a sign of cheating, but placements next to other aspects that will show this. A sensitive guy will not cheat. A normal guy could cheat anytime, along with aspects in synastry that shows that he will deceive her or will not commit to her, and I say a normal guy because there is still this stereotype among us. The only guy I know that he didn't cheat, but was cheated on, has a Moon and ASC in Cancer. Maybe a Capricorn will not do it since I picture him like a serious guy (but Mars is exalted in Capricorn, so again, more questions), not playing games, and I think another earth sign, but it depends on other aspects and placement, so I can't say just one of them all that will guarantee that he will NOT cheat. I think Neptune helps with this. Since it has to be the guy that idealizes and think about his partner that he found the one and he doensn't need anything else. But I haven't met many guy that didn't do it. I grew up with the as their friend, so I know plenty of stories of how they do it and what they do. |
Orange | Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have a tight Mars-Neptune square in their composite. Their romance is off the chart and lasted for a long time without any infidetlities...but it seems that Brad had drinking problems by the end of their marriage , who knows..or their mars/Neptune square may show the sneaky way their relationship started (Jennifer was totally blind sighted) |
Hikaru29 | quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: Venus in Gemini, I think.
That’s my Venus sign, lol ! 😩 I’m actually referring to composite aspects. A lot has been said about aspects that show men as being non-commital, then what about aspects that show the woman won’t commit to the guy? |
sis | quote: Originally posted by Sagariescap: Hello @sis, thank u so much! It’s wonderful to know your friends dont experience infidelity are they of different cultures/nationalities? i read somewhere that with diff cultures/nationalities, hard neptune aspects in composite do not imply bad interpretations for example like cheating. not sure though if that’s true or not but ive read that a long time ago. thank you though again and happy new year! Helloo @softissues, of course honesty is the best way out and I always demand it. ❤️❤️
Sorry for my late answer.. no there is no difference at all. Plus, they were high school mates... Both of them are very honest people and try to act with integrity in every situation... Maybe this helps to fight of the Neptunian fog. |
sis | quote: Originally posted by softissues: Hi sis (love your name lol), that’s great that your friends have been married a long time however I would say Mars inconjunct Neptune is different than Mars square Neptune. I’ve had Venus Square Neptune and Mars Square Neptune, these manifest differently in every relationship and idk if there was infidelity in mine. There wasn’t from my end but there was a lot of miscommunication, broken ideals and expectations both through love and action in the relationship. @ OP. I personally would be cautious of it and ensure there’s always honesty that’s the best thing I can say with Neptune.
My nickname means fog, mist, haze... in the land of moon and star... so very neptunian 'there was a lot of miscommunication, broken ideals and expectations both through love and action in the relationship. ' I have not seen these manifesting in my friends relationship but in my neptunian relationships your experience is very close to what I had... But I am neptunian myself ( neptune in the 12th conjunct Mars and NN oppose moon ) so I blame myself rather than synastry...
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