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Originally posted by Stawr:
So sorry about the confusion I'm actually the retro Pluto. Vindictiveness in me is the injustice of being put down feeling not desired enough. Like I'll show you...and then enjoying the attention I receive from other males, and just wondering if they are more sexually adventurous than my husband.
I also have Electra conjunction all my Scorpio.
That's interesting about Pluto rx being passive aggressive. I am. My husband will tell me I am. And being a woman/girl being aggressive is highly discouraged in society, more than it is for males. But I am so Pluto/Mars/Uranus Scorpio dominant too...though no one could really tell by looking at me. So it's manifested in a more passive, petty, and occult way.
And thank you so much for the hug!
My Pluto is in the 6th house. And his is in the 2nd house.
Ahh yes, sometimes it’s hard to keep my mental image straight. I am also experiencing Neptune over my sun/Mc in Pisces and my mercury is there too. It helps with my ability to visualize but it gets blurry and I have to work hard when revisiting posts to remember things.
I haven’t explored Electra yet.
I’ve only lately herd her mentioned.
What is she about?
I’m really only familiar with the comic character.
I’m curious how those would tie in.
Comics are great because there is so much hidden imagery from myths,religions and metaphysical theory and how it comes together in fiction.
With your Pluto/bml/moon in the 6th (daily life tasks).
Your Pluto rx
You’d definitely feel a need to express your sexuality regularly in order to feel emotionally healthy..
With priapus conjunct transiting Uranus in the 12th
Hmm I wonder how close to the 11th it is??
Because you are seeking validation socially.
Might I add you are seeking it spiritually (12th) by being here
And psychologically (12th) by receiving counseling.
With your plutos conjunct.
Your Pluto/bml/moon sits in his 2nd house(values/self worth)
And it is unsatisfied in your day to day life (your 6th).
Your priapus is sitting in his 8th house and it’s wanting to merge.
It needs this to feel spiritually (12th house) connected (priapus).
But what’s in his 8th house to ground this energy?
Priapus is only a shadow. It’s not enough to ground itself in his 8th if he’s not connecting anything solid to it. Same with the 12th.. both houses are pretty mysterious in their own ways.
The 8th is going to want some anonymity.
The 12th wants a complex spiritual experience or it will settle for an illusion.
Priapus is the perigee of the moon. It’s a projected point on its elipital orbit of the earth. Led by the gravitational force of the sun.
Funny when you break it down it sounds a bit like this…
We relate our emotional standing (moon) through our ability to connect intimately (priapus). Our emotional connection (priapus perigee of moon) that we need to ground us with our humanity (earth). Is influenced by our sun (ego).
Transiting Uranus comes bye and transits his 8t (your 12th). But how can he relate ..when it’s only bouncing off his 2nd.(self worth/values).
He’s going to feel Uranus (instability) in his 2nd (values and self worth).
You feel the resolution is his 8th because your priapus is there and it’s ready to spiritually (12th) connect (priapus)
But he’s only feeling it in his 2nd.
Pluto (change) being in the second (self worth/values)
Being oppositioned by transiting Uranus (sudden events) in his 8th (sex/death/rejuvion) but not being able to release it in the 8th due to it setting in his 2nd.
I feel if he had something in his 8th you may have mentioned it..maybe I forgot or lost a piece.
But yeah I’d be conscious of the way all that energy is making him feel about himself.
Seeing how it’s a lot of pressure on someone’s self worth being in his 2nd.
Being Pluto and very sexual…sitting in the house opposite it’s rulership.
Pluto being in its natural rulership.
Him having Pluto Scorpio in his second..he probably already puts a lot of his self worth into sexual matters.
Having this brought up probably doesn’t sit well with the anonymity all this Pluto requires to feel safe and secure.
Both your plutos in Scorpio are competing
He wants to feel like a man
And you want to feel like a woman
But I think…
They actually want to reconcile
But your emotions (moon), bml ( female prowess) are standing on this conjunction putting pressure on his self worth (2nd) .
Your Pluto/bml/moon square your sun.
And it opposite priapus and transiting Uranus.
And you are finding ways socially (11th),spiritually and psychologically (12th) to try find a way to makes changes (conjunct plutos) to release this energy.
Without seeing a bigger picture I cannot tell for sure but…
Your bml square sun isn’t going to like this but…
I want you to keep in mind this…
Just as much as women being discouraged in their aggression sexually in society
Men are expected to play this role
There is a lot of projected toxic sexual male masculinity in our society
And it effects Mens sense of self worth.
This is evidently clear in your husband’s chart.
Perherps it’s not that he doesn’t find you sexy of desirable enough .
But possibly that he doesn’t feel masculine enough to ever be able to satisfy you.
And trying makes him feel like a failure.
Perhaps may I suggest that instead of trying to entice him into action that you try and build up his masculinity.
I know this may not be super appealing to your bml.
But let us remember that priapus is sitting in his 8th and priapus is a submission point in relation to Lilith.
So instead of focusing your Lilith in his 2nd
Try focusing your priapus in the 8th
And maybe while Uranus is transition …
It might cause a sudden (Uranus) change (Pluto).