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T O P I C R E V I E WDaniPepper87My grandma passed away in the last January. Since the beggining of the last week, I never dreamt about her.In this last week, I dreamt about her for at least 3 times... she always comes to the place I'm in, sits and then I start to say: "You don't belong here, go away", or "What are you doing here?" "You are dead, stop coming to our place!".I'm a little confused, I loved her, and after all those long suffering, I just wanted her to be dead. I'm not selfish in seeing someone in an old age screaming of physical and emotional pain and wanting this person by me... I prayed to God to take her to a better place, to remove all the pain... I just cried in the day of the funeral services and once while I was bathing. I miss her, sure, but I'm a little worried with this kind of dream...I just wanted an opinion. Maybe my mind doesn't want to remember and when I see her, I want to "return her to her grave". Yesterday I talked to her in dream "But, how did you come here? How did you managed to escape from your grave??". She answered that someone pushed her from it...Anyway, thanks for just seeing this RandallSorry for your loss. GeminiKaratPeople that passed away does not mean that there is no contact anymore. Depending on your religion or any other thing there can remain a contact to the loved ones. You did ask the correct questions and from my point of few there I something unsolved. quote:Originally posted by DaniPepper87:She answered that someone pushed her from it...^^^^An answer like that can come from a black sheep, that has never belonged to the family or was not accepted in the family. It can also come from your side that you wanted to say good bye. There was the full moon and the Jupiter/Venus conjunction in the last weeks. Maybe those things can help you a little bit on this research.RaHello DaniPepper While contact with departed loved ones certainly does occur in dreams, I do not believe that is what is happening in these dreams. In this case, I believe your grandmother is a representation, projected by yourself, and reflects your own residual emotional pain concerning her and her end days and passing. Your psyche has "pushed" this experience from your sub/unconscious (pushed her from grave) into semi-awareness (the dream) in order for healing to take place. It is part of the grieving/healing process.It would not surprise me if you have more dreams about her as the healing process unfolds. DaniPepper87Hi Ra!!!When I woke up in that morning, I felt guilty, because of the questions I made for her.But I agree that it can be the healing process, I'm under a lot of stress with my mom and daddy...Thanks a lot! You and GeminiKarat rock!! lolGeminiKaratYou are welcome!I wish you a lot of light! DaniPepper87It's funny this kind of dreams, I remember the day she passed away, I was making the breakfast for me and daddy, suddently I stared at the clock and it was 07:10AM, and I did this for a long time (that minute that lasts forever), the time she was gone... I really got surprised, someone came to tell me this.Ra
In this last week, I dreamt about her for at least 3 times... she always comes to the place I'm in, sits and then I start to say: "You don't belong here, go away", or "What are you doing here?" "You are dead, stop coming to our place!".
I'm a little confused, I loved her, and after all those long suffering, I just wanted her to be dead. I'm not selfish in seeing someone in an old age screaming of physical and emotional pain and wanting this person by me... I prayed to God to take her to a better place, to remove all the pain... I just cried in the day of the funeral services and once while I was bathing. I miss her, sure, but I'm a little worried with this kind of dream...
I just wanted an opinion. Maybe my mind doesn't want to remember and when I see her, I want to "return her to her grave". Yesterday I talked to her in dream "But, how did you come here? How did you managed to escape from your grave??". She answered that someone pushed her from it...
Anyway, thanks for just seeing this
quote:Originally posted by DaniPepper87:She answered that someone pushed her from it...
While contact with departed loved ones certainly does occur in dreams, I do not believe that is what is happening in these dreams. In this case, I believe your grandmother is a representation, projected by yourself, and reflects your own residual emotional pain concerning her and her end days and passing. Your psyche has "pushed" this experience from your sub/unconscious (pushed her from grave) into semi-awareness (the dream) in order for healing to take place. It is part of the grieving/healing process.
It would not surprise me if you have more dreams about her as the healing process unfolds.
When I woke up in that morning, I felt guilty, because of the questions I made for her.
But I agree that it can be the healing process, I'm under a lot of stress with my mom and daddy...
Thanks a lot! You and GeminiKarat rock!! lol
I wish you a lot of light!
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