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T O P I C R E V I E WmarciaHmmmm, I kinda don't wanna like one, but I do Are there any Cancer men here?What is up with you guys? Flaunting your sexiness and making this big roaring catchase you, and then turning aroung and ouching me with your lil claws? marciaNOONE HAS ANSWERED IN 4 MINUTES!CAN SOMEBODY HELP ME PLEASE??!?!?!?!? I'm sorry, I had to do that LovelyLibraLadyThey're not so bad, they're laid back, easy going guys. And they won't change on you at the drop of a hat.BluemoonHi Marcia! I am cancer, but not a man. Sorry. I just did want you to be with out a reply. At least this will bump it to the top! Good luck!pixelpixieI betcha that crab's got lots of Leo in him to meow deeply and resonate with the purring kitten you are.......marciaYeah, this guy is really sweet, a lil moody, but nice.He's a self admitted clinger though, but I like clingy guys, just not too clingy . . .marciaLoL Awww BlueMoon, I was only messing around but thanks Pixie, I'm reading his chart now, he has a good amount of Leo and Virgo.marciaIn an effort to repair a double post The weird thing is all this time he thought he was a Gemini, but I was thinking NO WAY LoL because he's so much more quiet than talkative (which is so hot because men that babble are so not sexy and men that listen are).DannyHey Marcia, Yea, I'm seeing a Cancer man too right now. 'Seeing' being the operative word, cos I can never get in touch with this guy.He can reach me ...but I can never reach him.I like it a lot. Unavailability turns me on Though, the thing with men of the Cancerian type is at first they act like this, and once your hooked they flip reverse on ya.Proceed with that in mind Marcia.sthenriCancer men can be demanding and they can train you. Remember what you wanted in the first place, since it's about the relationship not the ego. Hard to keep in mind I know. Lots of Cancer men also seem to be involved in situations where they are not alone, or not living alone, that can make them feel clingier because when you have less control over your own life, you tend to go out and find other people to manage.If a Cancer is like that he needs sometime alone, without family ties for a while. I would suggest some time alone, just you and him, really alone. NatashamarciaUh oh . . .sweetlibraRight said natasha, about cancer men and training my Sag's brother is a cancer and now a days he's training me how to control impulsive actions and be practical [to be precise : 'How to make a Sag say YES' ]btw he's cancer/aries(moon)/sag rising. terrific combination i'll say.we hv a gr8 relationship. i share with him those things i wont even share with my girl friends.cancerrgARE U SURE U HAVE A RELATION?did he tell u so , i mean in words ?if yes , i cant understand that "ouching with your claws " clear this up it wud helpful for us !fayte.mMy Beloved is a Cancer! I have found that the more love a Cancer receives, the more they are able to give! The hardest part is getting them to love themselves! They can be their own worst critic. As far as mood swings, well I'd rather deal with those and help him explore the reasons behind them rather than other men I've known who will not show deep ranges of emotion and sensitivity and don't communicate or even try. When the cancer man feels safe, he WILL come out of that shell and amaze you with his insight etc. fayte.mOh my yes! The cancer has claws that can do much damage to a person who is not sure of themselves. They can also bite and sting when they feel they have been mistreated, be it a friend, a waiter/waitress, family member, anyone! The key here is know that it is not necessarily the "victim's'" fault,{well sometimes it is!}but the Cancer expressing out loud, so to speak, his frustration. If you did nothing to provoke his wrath or defense mechanisms, then chill out and let him work it out for himself. Then if you are strong enough, help him come back out of his shell and talk about it. Or be there when he is ready to talk. Also sometimes it helps to remind a Cancer that he{or she} is not the only one with feelings,and a need to talk about themIt is worth it! A Cancer's love is true!marciaI'm not sure what we are right now. I mean, no, we don't have a relationship, but we're getting very close and when I said he keeps ouching me, I meant that on a couple of occasions he would all of a sudden just like tell me off! Not in a nasty way, but kind of in a "I know more than you"way, but it hurt me none the less But all in all he's a very sweet guy, it's just this whole Cancer thing scares me a bit. Cancers sort of have a bad rep, my moon is in Cancer and sometimes I just don't want the damned thing there. It's a gift and a curse.Anyway, I appreciate everyone's comments.cancerrgso u are not sure wethere he is all for u.if this has been going for too long , that simply means he doesn't like u bbut if for a short peroid , u never know - they fall very slowly , just keeping guard .i totally disagree that they have a bad rep.i bet he wont ever ask u to **** off even if he doesnt like u and he wont even take undue advantage ( sex in short)marciaHe tells me that he wants to be with me, and it kinda scares me because he's an intense person and that's all new to me.This year has been very hard for me and I'm just taking things slow. I don't wanna make my life anymore complicated right now.cancerrgi think if he is saying he wants to be with u , there are strong chances he likes u,likes u - no doubt about it but the problem is they see everything with future in mind so the questions comes - is he ready to share his life with u? the biggest problem is , if he will be fothright about it becuase they will say "no problem " even when they have problem just not to hurt ur feelings but my guess is he will say staright forward though politly ofcourse. seee, they fall in love very slowly , imean the commitment part ,he wont commit if cant keep it .tell u a secret ,actually i am going through the same problem ,fact is i dont really like the gal , u know the feel though no doubt see beautiful smartand responsible -i know very closely, and i know i can bring her to bed in a month because she has been giving hints for almost a year , but i feel if i use her (though ofcourse it would be with her consent for sure ) i will feelthe guilt . i know these are extreme emotions , my librans friend make fun of me for this but then this the way we are - stupid at times .just be with him and remember they are not afraid of extreme emotions , they actually like it but let him feel that u are trying to blackmail him emotionally in anywhich , that would be the end .try to impress him with ur intelligence or something that makes him a secure future with u - emotional as well as financial
Are there any Cancer men here?
What is up with you guys? Flaunting your sexiness and making this big roaring catchase you, and then turning aroung and ouching me with your lil claws?
I'm sorry, I had to do that
Pixie, I'm reading his chart now, he has a good amount of Leo and Virgo.
The weird thing is all this time he thought he was a Gemini, but I was thinking NO WAY LoL because he's so much more quiet than talkative (which is so hot because men that babble are so not sexy and men that listen are).
Though, the thing with men of the Cancerian type is at first they act like this, and once your hooked they flip reverse on ya.
Proceed with that in mind Marcia.
If a Cancer is like that he needs sometime alone, without family ties for a while. I would suggest some time alone, just you and him, really alone.
Natasha
Anyway, I appreciate everyone's comments.
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