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T O P I C R E V I E Wmaya-vI posted this elsewhere, but since Im desperate and AJ's column is so popular, I thought Id try my luck here!!!____________________________________________I have a problem and would really appreciate some insightThe guy I last dated was a professional hypnotist and magician. We were on and off, him being a true Sag could not commit and me being a sensitive Taurean-Piscean mix could not take it anymore. He left me, then just when I had picked up the pieces and moved on, he came back. It went on like this for a while, soon becoming a compulsion that I had to end. So I got firm and moved on and I thought all was ok till he came back and started claiming true love - in between disappearnces.What is really disturbing me is that whenever we are on a split or he is not feeling close to me, strange things happen. I am not able to focus and often get a fever or get sick for absolutely no reason. And when we were together, when we used to have a fight, I would wake up, forcibly, at 3:30 am every morning. I would feel uncomfortable and restless and would not be able to go back to sleep. And the rest of the days, I could not keep my eyes open!I know it can all be explained but I just know its him messing with me. Now, after falsely claiming to wanting to be my friend, he has revealed that he wanted to be with me all along and was jealous of my relationship with the amazing Scorpio in my life. We finally said goodbye when he figured I was not going to be with him but ever since, I have been restless again and waking at the same time - 3:30 again!I know it could all be in my head but I have a feeling he has a really dark, mysterious side and he is truly messing with my head. I am posting our composite data. I would be soooo grateful if anyone could show me some light and clear up the fog in my head!Himborn on 27 Nov 1982 local time 09:15 pmin Denver, CO (US) U.T. 04+15104w59, 39n44 sid. time 01:42:02PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree houseSun Sagittarius 05°35'56 05Moon Aries 27°31'04 10Mercury Sagittarius 10°18'55 05Venus Sagittarius 11°34'24 05Mars Capricorn 20°38'42 06Jupiter Scorpio 24°05'11 04Saturn Libra 29°52'00 04Uranus Sagittarius 04°55'51 05Neptune Sagittarius 25°59'00 05Pluto Libra 28°19'50 04True Node Cancer 04°33'06 11HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 08°48'142nd House Leo 29°54'283rd House Virgo 25°37'47Imum Coeli Libra 27°28'385th House Sagittarius 03°41'066th House Capricorn 08°37'49Descendant Aquarius 08°48'148th House Aquarius 29°54'289th House Pisces 25°37'47Medium Coeli Aries 27°28'3811th House Gemini 03°41'0612th House Cancer 08°37'49Meborn on 11 May 1977 local time 01:1075e51, 30n54 sid. time 03:59:19planet sign degree houseSun Taurus 20°29'45 09Moon Pisces 04°25'01 07Mercury Taurus 04°57'33 09Venus Aries 11°40'06 08Mars Aries 10°30'11 08Jupiter Gemini 08°04'44 10Saturn Leo 10°45'16 12Uranus Scorpio 09°18'01 03Neptune Sagittarius 15°25'42 04Pluto Libra 11°50'31 02True Node Libra 24°06'32 02HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Virgo 04°01'082nd House Virgo 29°50'333rd House Libra 29°36'21Imum Coeli Sagittarius 01°55'395th House Capricorn 04°25'446th House Aquarius 05°21'58Descendant Pisces 04°01'088th House Pisces 29°50'339th House Aries 29°36'21Medium Coeli Gemini 01°55'3911th House Cancer 04°25'4412th House Leo 05°21'58Composite Horoscope midpoint methodPLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree houseSun Aquarius 28°02'51 07Moon Aries 00°58'03 08Mercury Aquarius 22°38'14 07Venus Aquarius 11°37'15 06Mars Pisces 00°34'26 07Jupiter Virgo 01°04'58 01Saturn Virgo 20°18'38 02Uranus Scorpio 22°06'56 04Neptune Sagittarius 20°42'21 05Pluto Libra 20°05'11 03True Node Leo 29°19'49 01HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 21°24'412nd House Virgo 14°52'303rd House Libra 12°37'04Imum Coeli Scorpio 14°42'095th House Sagittarius 19°03'256th House Capricorn 21°59'54Descendant Aquarius 21°24'418th House Pisces 14°52'309th House Aries 12°37'04Medium Coeli Taurus 14°42'0911th House Gemini 19°03'2512th House Cancer 21°59'54pixelpixieMysterious or not, it is up to yuo to let this connection in....Block his energy.If he is indeed, 'playing with you', then you shouldn't enable him to do it.Whether you are with him or not, no one can mess with you if you don't let them.Maybe post over in Universal Codes, or that other one...Surround yourself with a protective cloak, pray... let him out and release this compulsion.This will be twohold ( manifold) If he is indeed using his energy to affect you, it will take the illusion away so that you may approach this clearer....By empowering yourself, and shutting off, it will release his hold over you and you can see yourself with or without anyone you desire.....Tranquil Poet maya-vThanks pix. You gave me such a dose of strong Plutonian strength that I feel really empowered. You're really good at this!OK lets see ...1. I already deleted all his mails and blocked him from my messenger. Since he lives away, thats one of the ways for him to contact me. He does not have long distance currently, so that takes care of itself2. I already posted in UC and Ra's board, so lets see what people say abt that.3. Working on blocking his energy. Also working on hypnotizing myself to not let him in or let any anchors take me back there4. Working on letting him out and letting him go ...I think this will take some work, but I guess its time.AphroditeWorking on yourself is number one, and it sounds you've written down good excercises.My only suggestion is think about going to the doctor to get prescription strength sleeping pills. It's hard to function day to day without a good night's sleep with REM.BlueRoamerTheres's absolutely no way he's effecting you.You are completely autonomous.Anything that you think is affecting you if because you are letting it.Basically what I'm saying, is this is all in your head, and you're demonstrating the power of the placebo effect. You think something's wrong so something is wrong. If you don't believe it, it won't affect you.pixelpixie"If you believe you are cursed, you are cursed"pidauaLooks like you have a ton of great advice here Maya It boils down to two things1. Protect yourself2. Do not let him inYou seem to be doing both - meaning, getting rid of all that reminds you of him and working on your own self-protection. Personally, I would cast a protection spell or cloak (like what pixie was saying).You have the power to block him, but with everything that has been going on you may have subconsciously let him in. Ask yourself this "Am I feeling ANY guilt for letting him go?" Feeling guilt does not mean you long for him or want him, but you may be feeling that cutting the cord went against your basic nature and isn't something you would ever really want to do. Does that make sense? If you are feeling guilt, forgive yourself for having to resot to that decision and give yourself permission to grieve the loss of the friendship. I have a dream journey book at home that has a protective meditation that is said before you sleep. I will find it for you and e-mail it to you. Stay Sweet maya-vThanks everyone for the love and concernOh Pidaua, send it to me on the double!Yeah, Im working on the blocking. No I guess its just like I let him in, as a friend and he sneaks and boom, before I know it, he assumes that we are back together! I have to stop that - I already have!But this time, Ill make it FINAL!!!!Any more suggestions? I can use all the advice I can get!BlueRoamerI agree with the above, cast a protection spell. http://www.spellsandmagic.com/protection.html http://www.fortunecity.com/roswell/chaney/191/id92.htm http://www.angelfire.com/realm2/amethystbt/spellsprotection.html Happy DragonMV ..for him the degs are there ( long./ lat.)for u they r not ..care to post them..??can't see post as i type but seems his moon be opposite his Pluto in libra .. is he on a 'control' trip ?? .. does he get off on controling/having power over women (moon) ??.. Pluto / libra .. control over relationships ?? .. ie in context ..would like to check out .. but 4 me .. the list don't workhdHappy DragonMV .. i just noticed .. like me your sun taurus and merc taurus ..you can beat this one !!!Happy Dragonlooks like for him the it be ..MC conj Moon opp. Pluto ??brew up a spell .. but use that Taurean strength !!.. although i guess when taurus 'falls' for someone.. they be as weak as a kittentake the blinkers offmaya-vThank you so much BlueRoamer. That was some powerful stuff!HD, I agree - we are strong people, us bulls. Thanks guys, you are amazingly strong and genrous and compassionate souls. BlueRoamerwhich spell did you cast?maya-vTerra, Ignis, Aqua ...It gave me a terrible rush of power when I said it out aloud and it seems to be working! I slept like a baby - through the night! Thanks BR, you are a great help. All of you are. And HD, rock on! You're right abt that bull strength, and no he does not make me feel like a kitten, he's more like a gnat in my ear. A burr in the pants I need to get rid of! Its another, a steaming hot Scorpio, who makes me weak in the knees and you know how it is when a bull and an eagle are playing house ... volcanic!I feel such peace and happiness, like a weight off my shoulder since yesterday. Thanks guys, you are great!A Perfect CircleWithout sounding too insensitive, this sounds like a self imposed problem brought on by the paranoia you feel about this magician/hypnotist guy. It's reasonable to be like that, that's what happens when you come in contact with things that you can't explain. If you don't 100% know how he does his magic/hypnotism, how are you supposed to know that he's not using it on you? Just follow whatever advice you've been given, but have you ever thought that maybe the sleep problems are due to your own stress because of the relationship with him? Hopefully it'll work itself out in time. I think if you were being hypnotised you'd know.Edit: Just noticed my post was like a hybrid of two other previous replies, but still.maya-vThanks APC, I guess I should have let it in that he specfically, at various points told me that he was using hypnotism on me to get me to be "more aware". I asked him abt the restlessness and he said it was natural, he smiled and said he went through that too when we had a fight etc. He said I was a good "somnambulist" or really open to suggestion (Pisces moon conjunct Descendant) and was also a natural hypnotist, a fact I have explored and found true on many occasions since then!The thing that has me worried is that even though he is really powerful and a fabulous hypnotist, he is not formally trained in the medical side-effects of hypnotism and its like a dangerous weapon in the hands of a really powerful child somewhat volatile in emotion and lacking sound judgement.But the spell worked and now I am so free, happy and sleeping really well(thanks BR). But thanks anyway, for caring enough to post.BlueRoamerSpells work. I'm glad this one did. If the sleeplessness comes back, which it won't, cast another one....btw:salt is a very powerful protective agent, put a bag of it under your pillow, or put a line of it across your doorway... for the most extreme cases rings of it are made around the casterFire is a very powerful agent for getting what you want...burning anything of him or representations of him/his name written on paper will help rid him from your lifeWater is good for healing, esp salt water..try bathing in salt water with candles after casting a spellAir of course is an element present in every spell unless you're in outerspace...air carries the energy outward into the worldThe basic elements are, in my opinion, the most powerful spell casting tools. Earth or dirt can be substituted for salt, although I woudln't because it has impurities. Any spell is further strengthened by a wand, made from wood preferably, about the size of the casters forearm+hand. Wood is associated with spirit, and therefore is the conduit for magic. Remember that wood was or is infused with water, so it retains those healing properties. The natural qualities of wood make sure that there is a purity to any spell cast with it present. Charms made out of wood are also excellent for warding off bad or attrcting good spirits. Metal on the other hand is more about power, and has properties of earth and fire. A metal wand is good but more dangerous, and I would advise against its use. Using metal in charms can be a good idea, but the use of metal always invokes the use of ego, as metal enhances the power of the user. Generally speaking, metal can attract negativity because it enhances the ego/power of the user.All manner of precious gems can be used for charms/spells....each one has its own specific properties.Heres a few:jade can enhance prophetic dreams and increase fertitily, (maya you don't want jade)Quartz is extremely powerful as it is a magic amlifier....it increases the clairvoyance and focus of the caster, thus empowering the spellTurqouise brings prosperity in general and is known for luck and sometimes protectionHeres a good gem site====find your birthstone http://www.bidz.com/pk_guide/pk_birth.html maya-vWhoa! Those things are powerful! Thanks sooo much BlueRoamer. I am discovering I have a knack for this thing and its the most amazing feeling! You are truly knowledgeable and gifted and I will definitely try all those suggestions - they are so empowering! And thanks for the wonderful links, now I have something else to get fascinated by!And thanks for the heartfelt concern too, you are a good person to do this for me BlueRoamer I have trouble sleeping sometimes too, so I can empathize with what you're going through =)calliopeMaya-v,have you tried homeopathy? Since it works with the mind as well as the body, it may help. I had bad insomnia for two months because of stress - couldn't even get to sleep - but I was given Lycopodium and that got rid of a lot of nervousness and palpitations and made me focus.Just a thought. Calliopemaya-vThanks calliope, for the concern and the suggestion. I will keep it in mind.Right on, BR - its nice to meet a kindred soul, although I hope its not a magician who's haunting your dreams!Hey, I know mostly everyone's stars (or some of them ), except yours. Am I mistaken, or are you a heartbreakingly handsome Sag too?A Perfect Circle quote:Thanks APC, I guess I should have let it in that he specfically, at various points told me that he was using hypnotism on me to get me to be "more aware".Yeah I'd say that's a bluff. Pretty despicable thing to do, but I think that'd be his way of making you think he could do it. Either way, the guy sounds like a jerk.astro junkieHe's convinced you that he is right more of the time than you. Watch your Mutable Pisces Moon when you're "in the moment". One lesson you may learn here is how your stubborness may work against you. He loves that you come back for more because he DOES know something you don't know.You're afraid to let go too, and he's egging you on. Save the good stuff (letting go) for someone else.------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness
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I have a problem and would really appreciate some insight
The guy I last dated was a professional hypnotist and magician. We were on and off, him being a true Sag could not commit and me being a sensitive Taurean-Piscean mix could not take it anymore. He left me, then just when I had picked up the pieces and moved on, he came back. It went on like this for a while, soon becoming a compulsion that I had to end. So I got firm and moved on and I thought all was ok till he came back and started claiming true love - in between disappearnces.
What is really disturbing me is that whenever we are on a split or he is not feeling close to me, strange things happen. I am not able to focus and often get a fever or get sick for absolutely no reason. And when we were together, when we used to have a fight, I would wake up, forcibly, at 3:30 am every morning. I would feel uncomfortable and restless and would not be able to go back to sleep. And the rest of the days, I could not keep my eyes open!
I know it can all be explained but I just know its him messing with me. Now, after falsely claiming to wanting to be my friend, he has revealed that he wanted to be with me all along and was jealous of my relationship with the amazing Scorpio in my life. We finally said goodbye when he figured I was not going to be with him but ever since, I have been restless again and waking at the same time - 3:30 again!
I know it could all be in my head but I have a feeling he has a really dark, mysterious side and he is truly messing with my head. I am posting our composite data. I would be soooo grateful if anyone could show me some light and clear up the fog in my head!
Himborn on 27 Nov 1982 local time 09:15 pmin Denver, CO (US) U.T. 04+15104w59, 39n44 sid. time 01:42:02PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree houseSun Sagittarius 05°35'56 05Moon Aries 27°31'04 10Mercury Sagittarius 10°18'55 05Venus Sagittarius 11°34'24 05Mars Capricorn 20°38'42 06Jupiter Scorpio 24°05'11 04Saturn Libra 29°52'00 04Uranus Sagittarius 04°55'51 05Neptune Sagittarius 25°59'00 05Pluto Libra 28°19'50 04True Node Cancer 04°33'06 11
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 08°48'142nd House Leo 29°54'283rd House Virgo 25°37'47Imum Coeli Libra 27°28'385th House Sagittarius 03°41'066th House Capricorn 08°37'49Descendant Aquarius 08°48'148th House Aquarius 29°54'289th House Pisces 25°37'47Medium Coeli Aries 27°28'3811th House Gemini 03°41'0612th House Cancer 08°37'49
Meborn on 11 May 1977 local time 01:1075e51, 30n54 sid. time 03:59:19planet sign degree houseSun Taurus 20°29'45 09Moon Pisces 04°25'01 07Mercury Taurus 04°57'33 09Venus Aries 11°40'06 08Mars Aries 10°30'11 08Jupiter Gemini 08°04'44 10Saturn Leo 10°45'16 12Uranus Scorpio 09°18'01 03Neptune Sagittarius 15°25'42 04Pluto Libra 11°50'31 02True Node Libra 24°06'32 02
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Virgo 04°01'082nd House Virgo 29°50'333rd House Libra 29°36'21Imum Coeli Sagittarius 01°55'395th House Capricorn 04°25'446th House Aquarius 05°21'58Descendant Pisces 04°01'088th House Pisces 29°50'339th House Aries 29°36'21Medium Coeli Gemini 01°55'3911th House Cancer 04°25'4412th House Leo 05°21'58
Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree houseSun Aquarius 28°02'51 07Moon Aries 00°58'03 08Mercury Aquarius 22°38'14 07Venus Aquarius 11°37'15 06Mars Pisces 00°34'26 07Jupiter Virgo 01°04'58 01Saturn Virgo 20°18'38 02Uranus Scorpio 22°06'56 04Neptune Sagittarius 20°42'21 05Pluto Libra 20°05'11 03True Node Leo 29°19'49 01
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 21°24'412nd House Virgo 14°52'303rd House Libra 12°37'04Imum Coeli Scorpio 14°42'095th House Sagittarius 19°03'256th House Capricorn 21°59'54Descendant Aquarius 21°24'418th House Pisces 14°52'309th House Aries 12°37'04Medium Coeli Taurus 14°42'0911th House Gemini 19°03'2512th House Cancer 21°59'54
OK lets see ...
1. I already deleted all his mails and blocked him from my messenger. Since he lives away, thats one of the ways for him to contact me. He does not have long distance currently, so that takes care of itself
2. I already posted in UC and Ra's board, so lets see what people say abt that.
3. Working on blocking his energy. Also working on hypnotizing myself to not let him in or let any anchors take me back there
4. Working on letting him out and letting him go ...
I think this will take some work, but I guess its time.
My only suggestion is think about going to the doctor to get prescription strength sleeping pills. It's hard to function day to day without a good night's sleep with REM.
Basically what I'm saying, is this is all in your head, and you're demonstrating the power of the placebo effect. You think something's wrong so something is wrong. If you don't believe it, it won't affect you.
It boils down to two things
1. Protect yourself2. Do not let him in
You seem to be doing both - meaning, getting rid of all that reminds you of him and working on your own self-protection.
Personally, I would cast a protection spell or cloak (like what pixie was saying).
You have the power to block him, but with everything that has been going on you may have subconsciously let him in. Ask yourself this "Am I feeling ANY guilt for letting him go?" Feeling guilt does not mean you long for him or want him, but you may be feeling that cutting the cord went against your basic nature and isn't something you would ever really want to do.
Does that make sense? If you are feeling guilt, forgive yourself for having to resot to that decision and give yourself permission to grieve the loss of the friendship.
I have a dream journey book at home that has a protective meditation that is said before you sleep. I will find it for you and e-mail it to you.
Stay Sweet
Oh Pidaua, send it to me on the double!
Yeah, Im working on the blocking. No I guess its just like I let him in, as a friend and he sneaks and boom, before I know it, he assumes that we are back together! I have to stop that - I already have!
But this time, Ill make it FINAL!!!!
Any more suggestions? I can use all the advice I can get!
for him the degs are there ( long./ lat.)for u they r not ..care to post them..??can't see post as i type but seems his moon be opposite his Pluto in libra .. is he on a 'control' trip ?? .. does he get off on controling/having power over women (moon) ??.. Pluto / libra .. control over relationships ?? .. ie in context ..
would like to check out .. but 4 me .. the list don't work
hd
brew up a spell .. but use that Taurean strength !!.. although i guess when taurus 'falls' for someone.. they be as weak as a kitten
take the blinkers off
HD, I agree - we are strong people, us bulls. Thanks guys, you are amazingly strong and genrous and compassionate souls.
It gave me a terrible rush of power when I said it out aloud and it seems to be working! I slept like a baby - through the night!
Thanks BR, you are a great help. All of you are.
And HD, rock on! You're right abt that bull strength, and no he does not make me feel like a kitten, he's more like a gnat in my ear. A burr in the pants I need to get rid of! Its another, a steaming hot Scorpio, who makes me weak in the knees and you know how it is when a bull and an eagle are playing house ... volcanic!
I feel such peace and happiness, like a weight off my shoulder since yesterday. Thanks guys, you are great!
Edit: Just noticed my post was like a hybrid of two other previous replies, but still.
The thing that has me worried is that even though he is really powerful and a fabulous hypnotist, he is not formally trained in the medical side-effects of hypnotism and its like a dangerous weapon in the hands of a really powerful child somewhat volatile in emotion and lacking sound judgement.
But the spell worked and now I am so free, happy and sleeping really well(thanks BR). But thanks anyway, for caring enough to post.
btw:salt is a very powerful protective agent, put a bag of it under your pillow, or put a line of it across your doorway... for the most extreme cases rings of it are made around the caster
Fire is a very powerful agent for getting what you want...burning anything of him or representations of him/his name written on paper will help rid him from your life
Water is good for healing, esp salt water..try bathing in salt water with candles after casting a spell
Air of course is an element present in every spell unless you're in outerspace...air carries the energy outward into the world
The basic elements are, in my opinion, the most powerful spell casting tools. Earth or dirt can be substituted for salt, although I woudln't because it has impurities. Any spell is further strengthened by a wand, made from wood preferably, about the size of the casters forearm+hand. Wood is associated with spirit, and therefore is the conduit for magic. Remember that wood was or is infused with water, so it retains those healing properties. The natural qualities of wood make sure that there is a purity to any spell cast with it present. Charms made out of wood are also excellent for warding off bad or attrcting good spirits.
Metal on the other hand is more about power, and has properties of earth and fire. A metal wand is good but more dangerous, and I would advise against its use. Using metal in charms can be a good idea, but the use of metal always invokes the use of ego, as metal enhances the power of the user. Generally speaking, metal can attract negativity because it enhances the ego/power of the user.
All manner of precious gems can be used for charms/spells....each one has its own specific properties.
Heres a few:
jade can enhance prophetic dreams and increase fertitily, (maya you don't want jade)
Quartz is extremely powerful as it is a magic amlifier....it increases the clairvoyance and focus of the caster, thus empowering the spell
Turqouise brings prosperity in general and is known for luck and sometimes protection
Heres a good gem site====find your birthstone http://www.bidz.com/pk_guide/pk_birth.html
Thanks sooo much BlueRoamer. I am discovering I have a knack for this thing and its the most amazing feeling! You are truly knowledgeable and gifted and I will definitely try all those suggestions - they are so empowering! And thanks for the wonderful links, now I have something else to get fascinated by!
And thanks for the heartfelt concern too, you are a good person to do this for me
have you tried homeopathy? Since it works with the mind as well as the body, it may help. I had bad insomnia for two months because of stress - couldn't even get to sleep - but I was given Lycopodium and that got rid of a lot of nervousness and palpitations and made me focus.
Just a thought.
Calliope
Right on, BR - its nice to meet a kindred soul, although I hope its not a magician who's haunting your dreams!
Hey, I know mostly everyone's stars (or some of them ), except yours. Am I mistaken, or are you a heartbreakingly handsome Sag too?
quote:Thanks APC, I guess I should have let it in that he specfically, at various points told me that he was using hypnotism on me to get me to be "more aware".
Yeah I'd say that's a bluff. Pretty despicable thing to do, but I think that'd be his way of making you think he could do it. Either way, the guy sounds like a jerk.
You're afraid to let go too, and he's egging you on. Save the good stuff (letting go) for someone else.
------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness
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