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T O P I C R E V I E Walanabelle86We've been together for a little over a year. I know he loves me to the ends of the earth and back. We used to talk about marriage and kids all the time and he'd happily join in and agree.NOW that we've made it past a year, he's the same yet he loves me even more now. However, with that love came this intense fear of commitment. He refuses to daydream with me about marriage and kids like he used to.Could this be because for him, it's all becoming a very real possibility, when before he didn't think much of it? His true Sag/Aqua side is starting to come out now. He hasn't really changed, but he's finally shown me what he wants.It makes me very sad :tear: I wonder if his progressions have anything to do with this...------------------Libra Rising, Scorpio Sun, Leo Moonwilsontcalanabelle,Please post your boyfriend's information in the form:Month day, YearCity County/Province State/CountryXX:XX AM/PMand I will take a look at your relationship charts.Trying to help,Timalanabelle86December 15, 1985Sharon, CT, USA12:29 am------------------Libra Rising, Scorpio Sun, Leo Moonamisha121877p.s. did you say it's only been a year?! hey - take it from me, at least he didn't hyperventilate or swallow really hard when you brought up marriage and kids. that alone is a positive sign when dealing with a sag. wait - 1985 - that's, he's only 19! besides that, do you know of his goals, has he told you any of them because those goals could also be the reason for not broaching the subject of marriage and childern, at the moment - some of us sags like to get a lot of those goals out of the way before settling down with someone. i would say, just don't pressure him about the big C anymore since you two already discussed it - and be supportive to one another's goals.wilsontcalanabelle,Your friend has ALL of his planets focused on the bottom of his chart, so he LIVES in his own "inner world". He has most of his planets on the bottom left of his chart so he uses what he knows about himself to go FURTHER into that "inner world" of his. And right now, that inner world is being STRONGLY transformed by transiting (planets in the sky) Pluto (transformation, also power) moving into conjunction with his Nadir (inner world). So his very sense of BEING is in the process of being COMPLETELY transformed. Naturally, this is taking his attention away from EVERYTHING else.This is a strange chart for someone to be in a relationship, because the owner of this chart is COMPLETELY self-absorbed and lives in their own awareness of their self. It is surprising that they could "let anybody in" at all. Be aware that when Pluto goes over the Nadir this is a time when a person keeps all those things/people which they want to take forward with them and leaves behind all those things/people which they decide they do not need any more. This person may decide that they need to explore themselves and their inner world more than they need other people around them.Of course, you know him better than I do, so you come to your OWN decisions in this matter!Relating,Timalanabelle86he has NO FOCUS in his life at all. hes floating through college, no idea what he wants. doesn't want to know either. perfectly content not knowing but distressed as well. hes put all of his drive and ambition into his looking after ME. and it drives me nuts cuz im so independent, i feel like the one whos like GET OFF ME, GET AWAY FROM ME, DONT TALK TO ME most of the time. he's not good at giving space at all. we pretty much lived together like a married couple for a year, thats why it surprised me that for the first time he was like marriage? what>?! he told me to "think in the today". that was like a smack in the face. now, that just pushes me further away.dorkus_malorkushey everything will work out and if he loves you don't worry about it, love always finds a way. i think it's interesting to note, he was born two days after my bf...and my bf is kind of the same way about marriage and kids and stuff, but he wants me to move in with him and i havent even been with him all that long. but im trusting things will work out you knowHexxiehey alana dearie~i've been dating my guy, a sagi sun / leo asc / taurus moon for over 5 years now! he says he'd like to get married one day and have kids and all that jazz. in the beginning of our relations we used to talk about it a lot too (it's our libra placements that makes us love this type of convo's). what i've come to realise is that relationships are a gift for us to learn more about ourselves & amend for some past karmas in a very speeded up way! we just need to enjoy who we're with RIGHT NOW and not worry about the past or future cuz there's no such thing (i'm a big believer in the eternal now...) it is freaking hard, but just say to yourself that whatever happens in this relationship is for the 'highest good' for all involved. yeah, i got all philosophical on you and stuff but with yer placements it looks like you'd 'catch my drift'! hope that helps a bit ------------------~Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon~Mama MiaSee that is why I stay away from Sag guys, and really do not like to deal with guys with sag moons. AND I might question them if they have Mars in Sag... alanabelle86That's interesting Hexxie, Both of our Ascendants are Libra and we're both very Venusian people. I think it's our moons. They clash so badly. And our Mars'I'm Leo Moon/ Scorpio Venus/ Mars in AquaHe's Aqua Moon/ Sag Venus/ Scorpio Marsidk how we deal but we do blah. He feels more like the Scorp and I find myself feeling more like the Sag. ------------------Libra Rising, Scorpio Sun, Leo MoonRede411Mama Mia,I HAVE MARS IN SAG...what are U saying???? (kidding)Are you saying we can be promiscious? Gee, I hope so!
NOW that we've made it past a year, he's the same yet he loves me even more now. However, with that love came this intense fear of commitment. He refuses to daydream with me about marriage and kids like he used to.
Could this be because for him, it's all becoming a very real possibility, when before he didn't think much of it? His true Sag/Aqua side is starting to come out now. He hasn't really changed, but he's finally shown me what he wants.
It makes me very sad :tear: I wonder if his progressions have anything to do with this...
------------------Libra Rising, Scorpio Sun, Leo Moon
Please post your boyfriend's information in the form:Month day, YearCity County/Province State/CountryXX:XX AM/PM
and I will take a look at your relationship charts.
Trying to help,
Tim
hey - take it from me, at least he didn't hyperventilate or swallow really hard when you brought up marriage and kids. that alone is a positive sign when dealing with a sag.
wait - 1985 - that's, he's only 19! besides that, do you know of his goals, has he told you any of them because those goals could also be the reason for not broaching the subject of marriage and childern, at the moment - some of us sags like to get a lot of those goals out of the way before settling down with someone. i would say, just don't pressure him about the big C anymore since you two already discussed it - and be supportive to one another's goals.
Your friend has ALL of his planets focused on the bottom of his chart, so he LIVES in his own "inner world". He has most of his planets on the bottom left of his chart so he uses what he knows about himself to go FURTHER into that "inner world" of his. And right now, that inner world is being STRONGLY transformed by transiting (planets in the sky) Pluto (transformation, also power) moving into conjunction with his Nadir (inner world). So his very sense of BEING is in the process of being COMPLETELY transformed. Naturally, this is taking his attention away from EVERYTHING else.
This is a strange chart for someone to be in a relationship, because the owner of this chart is COMPLETELY self-absorbed and lives in their own awareness of their self. It is surprising that they could "let anybody in" at all. Be aware that when Pluto goes over the Nadir this is a time when a person keeps all those things/people which they want to take forward with them and leaves behind all those things/people which they decide they do not need any more. This person may decide that they need to explore themselves and their inner world more than they need other people around them.
Of course, you know him better than I do, so you come to your OWN decisions in this matter!
Relating,
i've been dating my guy, a sagi sun / leo asc / taurus moon for over 5 years now! he says he'd like to get married one day and have kids and all that jazz. in the beginning of our relations we used to talk about it a lot too (it's our libra placements that makes us love this type of convo's).
what i've come to realise is that relationships are a gift for us to learn more about ourselves & amend for some past karmas in a very speeded up way! we just need to enjoy who we're with RIGHT NOW and not worry about the past or future cuz there's no such thing (i'm a big believer in the eternal now...) it is freaking hard, but just say to yourself that whatever happens in this relationship is for the 'highest good' for all involved. yeah, i got all philosophical on you and stuff but with yer placements it looks like you'd 'catch my drift'! hope that helps a bit
------------------~Libra Sun / 29* Gemini Rising / Aquarius Moon~
AND I might question them if they have Mars in Sag...
Both of our Ascendants are Libra and we're both very Venusian people. I think it's our moons. They clash so badly. And our Mars'
I'm Leo Moon/ Scorpio Venus/ Mars in AquaHe's Aqua Moon/ Sag Venus/ Scorpio Mars
idk how we deal but we do blah. He feels more like the Scorp and I find myself feeling more like the Sag.
I HAVE MARS IN SAG...what are U saying???? (kidding)
Are you saying we can be promiscious? Gee, I hope so!
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