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peace | Since Nov.21,2005,my Mom(Cancerian)and one of my church members another Cancerian have been going through this rejcetion phase.Also Jessica Simpson yes,another crab is going through a painful seperation with Nick.Is there any other Cancerians who is going through this phase now?.Don't have to give too much details.Protecting your privacy is a must!. |
cancerrg | do u mean in personal relations ? |
Mystic Gemini | Well my cancer cousin is with a scorpio and is going through the same thing nick and jess went through. my cousins name is jessica also LOL except she ahsnt walked away. first love...shell leqrn. my other cancer cousin is happy in love.
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peace | Cancerrg, Yep.Personal relations.You can tell me a little more about it if you like.If not,that's okay.Don't mean to be nosy.Mystic Gemini, I think I know why your cousin Jessica and Jessics Simpson are going through a rejection phase.Venus is in Capricorn.I looked it up under the planetary forecast website,that's where Venus is now.As we both know,Capricorn is the opposite sign of Cancer.That may explain why Cancerians are going through a tough period in their love life now. |
CancerianMoon | Well ive just started dating another fellow cancer..he is wonderful and things seem to be going well both of us have been single for a while.. |
MoonPixie | I just got back together with my exBF. We sort of went through a "seperation". (Read: I was desperate for some emotional independence. Must be the inner Libra/Sag) I'm perfectly content right now. I feel like making a solid commitment to something now.. I think right now is a time that people are looking for a solid commitment beyond just "feelings"... Cancer should esp. be effected by this since we ARE Capricorn's polar opposite. We also tend to commit to a relationships on feelings alone, rather than on a practical level.. I dunno though.. I am only 17. :-) ------------------ "I can resist anything but temptation." - Oscar Wilde The Best Feelings Are Those That Have No Words to Describe Them... |
peace | MoonPixie, Tell me about me it!.I don't know if your a fan of George Michael as well as many of you other Crabs out there,but he is planning to marry his lover,and he's also a Cancer.In fact,George is planning to marry in December like Sir Elton John.However, Elton is an Aries so I'm not sure how Venus in Capricorn might effect his wedding plans. To read more about it go to Yahoo Entertainment news. |
cancerrg | my first ever love is getting married day after tomorrow ,thats friday. do u feel rejected - sure i do . but i think i have devloped a unemotional side of me , so i would be attending her marriage too .oh and there is other example too, but doesnt really matter . i feel i have learnt to handle them . depressive season .. hahaha. what to do , thats the way it is with us! ah, i am sure u weren't being nosy . feel free !
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Isolaede | I'd say I'm going through a FEAR of rejection phase. I'm also dating a fellow Cancer - he's wonderful. Truly wonderful. But I keep getting this irrational fear that he'll leave me, and that terrifies me because I'm so crazy about him. I'm pretty over sensitive though. I take every little thing as a sign he's growing disenchanted with me. Like he makes a silly joke or doesn't call when he normally would. Our relationship is still pretty new, and I’ve been burned in the past so I’d normally just attribute this to a natural part of my getting to know and trust someone. I think trust is harder to build up the older you get. But my feelings are a bit more irrational than normal so maybe there is something going on. Hmmm…. : ) |
celticfyre | {{hugs}}} Isolaede! Well, the moon is going new..and I agree that when a relationship is new it is harder to build up trust when you are older...especially when you have been burned. I mean look at all the posts we've exchanged about my insecurity about my crab. only thing I can suggest is hold onto yours as you've told me essentially. If he is truly that wonderful and I am sure he is you'll be able to hang onto him. You have similar issues as I do with mine...water water everywhere so to speak and you gave me wonderful advice I don't know where things are going with mine at this point as the more crisis part of him needing me and my immediate help is generally over. ( have spent the last 3 days as much as I could at his home taking care of him, his daughter and his dog) He has been very accepting and appreciative of me helping , but I can't help but feel that as he feels better he may not need me or want me around as much (there's that insecurity again)or If me being around helping him has done anything to reinforce his relationship with me or not, I would hope so..Isn't it funny how the closer and more solid we become with someone the larger the fear of losing them becomes...doesn't seems to make much sense does it?? Hang in there girl, the moon doesn't stay dark forever...and I try to take it one day at a time with my crab ------------------ ML ~~~~~~~~~~~ "In my end is my beginning" Mary,Queen of Scots |
astro junkie | peace - That's an interesting theory about Cancer's like Jessica Simpson. I just realized that Transiting Chiron is ALSO in Capricorn, 7 Degrees apart from Transiting Venus in Capricorn. It looks like Jessica's Chiron is in Taurus, which is Nick's Moon. Perhaps he ultimately was not able to fulfill her (or heal her) through his emotions. Interesting too, that Nick's Saturn is in Cancer, which is Jessica's Sun. Maybe she was ultimately not able to fulfill his Saturn needs through her Sun. ------------------ ... it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness |
Inner depths | Well I have Moon In Cancer and saturn sitting on my moon was no picknick. When Saturn first conj my moon I had a huge fight with the exbf and then I dumped him a month later. The 2nd time Saturn hit my moon, I had childcare issues up to my eyebrows....it was a lack of child care and back then I learned my daughter is developmentally delayed. My daughter was at home FT for 2 months and I rarely could work - no support from family or friends. I went into severe burn out and was sick for 8 to 9 months. Inner |
tbone | YEs..another fellow Crab ; been feeling very ...down , depressed, moody especially since NOV> of last year when the "person" i am/was in love with moved half way around the world. I havent really been involved with anyone since. Oh; actually 1 brief dating process(rebound) back in Dec/Jan. So, i hear ya all.. HUGS... FROM A FELLOW LONELY Crab |