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T O P I C R E V I E WscorpioprideHello all! I was wondering something. Im a scorpio and find myself with a lack of interest in going out and doing things. I don't completely avoid going out, it's just I would rather stay home most the time. Like for instance going out with friends and hanging out, stuff like that. I would rather not go. I don't mind doing things like going to the store or working, stuff like that. It's just the whole going out with people and doing stuff. It makes me sound lazy but I'm not lazy I do plenty of stuff at home.I like all my friends, it's not anything about them. I'm not overly shy, or anything. I always have fun when I go out. It's just how i am. This isn't anything new either. I've always been this way. It's to the point where my friends don't even invite me out anymore and am I sad about this? not at all, I'm kinda relieved actually. I get alot of crap about this from friends and family. Some have even gotten mad at me about it.I don't know what it is that makes me this way but I'm stubborn about it. So I was wondering if this might be something that effects other scorpios. I knew one other scorpio that was like this and he was just as bad. It's not that I'm not socialable I'll talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime when I'm out, that is, if i'm out somewhere. If this isn't something that can be associated with my sun sign where else in my chart may I find why I'm like this? Any ideas?marsconjunctmercuryHave you got Moon in Cancer? what's the rest of your chart like?------------------IQhunk - quote:Well, for every one point that all of you like about me, I can list three. 4th December 1974 18:00GMT Southampton UKAlways out-numbered. Never out-gunned.scorpioprideLOL ya guess that might help huh?Sun is 19 deg. 05 min of scorpioMoon is 23 deg. 28 min of leomercury is 5 deg. 19 min of sagvenus is 9 deg. 27 min of sagmars is 26 deg. 21 min of leojupiter is 7 deg. 15 min of virgosaturn 24 deg. 21 min of virgouranus 21 deg. 10 min of scorpioneptune is 19 deg. 05 min of sagpluto is 20 deg. 18 min of libraASC is 11 deg. 00 min of geminiMC is 21 deg. 18 min of aquarius2nd cusp is 4 deg. 28 min of cancer3rd cusp is 26 deg. 34 min of cancer5th cusp is 22 deg. 23 min. of virgo6th cusp is 1 deg. 13 min of scorpio Is there anymore info you need?GeminiLover75I used to be like that to some extent... I have a Scorpio moon, although I always thought it was more to do with me being a Taurus. I'm a lot more social now than I used to be. But funnily enough I visited a very nice relaxing area of town today where I'll be staying for a couple of weeks, and I thought to myself "I'd love to become a recluse here!" lol astroleoladyScorpiopride,Pisces, Neptune and the 12th house are other areas of the chart that you can look at for wanting to be alone. The 4th house (home, private, security) is a good place to look at for wanting to be at home since the 4th house rules the home. Looking at your birth info that you have provided, your Moon (emotions), Mars (energy), and Jupiter (expansion) are all in your 4th house. Your Moon in the 4th house is in accidental diginity and the keyword for Moon in the 4th is "homeloving". Your secretive Scorpio Sun (inner self) in your 6th house (daily routine, habits, health, work) is also the ruler of your 4th house because you have Leo on it's cusp. So the ruler of your 4th is in your 6th indicating that you love to work around your home.No wonder you like to be at home! Anita41Hey scorpioride!!I have scorpio rising, conjunct mars in 12th and uranus in 12, and I am just like you.What is weird in your case though, is that you have so many planets in leo and sag and gemini rising. You'd think you be dying to get out and doing things all the time I actually feel just like you...in the way that, I love being out with people when I am out with people, and am not shy, and do get along with everyone, but at the same time, ever since I was a child, I always wanted to retire in to my own place and avoid being with others. I dont know WHY I do this..Although thats when I feel I can relax the most and have a big need to relax on my own.I guess I lack the strong urge to get out there and do things for myself, accomplish things, maybe its the mars in the 12th house?It is annoying, like a handicap.But the thing about hermit life and scorpios, well, maybe its a karmic thing.Maybe we need to work on getting out there and care more about getting WORK done for all mankind, and be more passionate about our surroundings and the people.GeminiLover75Interesting you mention the 12th house, because that's where Scorpio is for me. I remember years ago having a long-running email joke with a friend, WHO I HARDLY EVER SAW FACE TO FACE (I think that's quite telling!) that it was my ambition to one day become a hermit... and it was today I remembered that joke and thought, yeah that's the life for me. But then again my Sag ascendant makes me soo talkative and I love that kind of contact with people. Otherwise I could be happy in the hermit life for a long period of time. Strangely enough though, I almost feel like I would enjoy the hermit life even more if I had a (male) "partner-in-hermitness". I wonder what's in my chart to cause that?13ansheemy moons in cancer what does that have to do with being a bit of a lone star ? ^_^Lady DeeScorpio with moon in capricorn here. Yes, and I am getting worse. I am becoming so anti-social. It doesn't help that I move around a lot and live on Internet. I think I just get bored with trying to find interesting friends. I seem to have less and less in common with most people.taurean_scorpiona scorpio influenced person being a hermit...not surprising...marsconjunctmercuryI think there is something of the loner-leader in someone who has Moon in Leo, which i also have. You also have Venus in Sag' which i also have - a placing that is very happy with it's own company.------------------IQhunk - quote:Well, for every one point that all of you like about me, I can list three. 4th December 1974 18:00GMT Southampton UKAlways out-numbered. Never out-gunned.IsisI'm a Scorp w/ a 4th house stellium - although I am by nature a social person and extroverted, there are periods of time where I just want to hide at home and do so, sometimes for months at a time. It's usually when I'm depressed or unhappy with certain aspects of my life. sue gI am becoming hermitlike, especially since my mother died. I dont seem to be able to motivate myself and people are just not doing it for me at the moment.....Maybe its a normal part of grief to withdraw. I am rather enjoying my own company at the moment.I feel pensive and inward.Five planets in Scorpio....Sun conjunct Neptune...not surprisng hey? Lady MacbethCancerian Moon in the 4th here...(Scorp Sun)I completely relate to this thread....homeloving is absolutely right.carlfloydfanHello TWIN??? I am EXACTLY the same way!!! That is me to a T when I was single.though when my gf is here I tend to want to go out and do things (even just walking around town) with her or at least stay in with her..either way.. whatever shes up for I am, just 1 on 1 though. otherwise we still don't see many people often. though that leo in asc does get her to get ppl together..kind of a gather the troops kind of personality.so who knows, are you single now? when is your birthday? maybe we were born on the same dates .
I was wondering something. Im a scorpio and find myself with a lack of interest in going out and doing things. I don't completely avoid going out, it's just I would rather stay home most the time. Like for instance going out with friends and hanging out, stuff like that. I would rather not go. I don't mind doing things like going to the store or working, stuff like that. It's just the whole going out with people and doing stuff. It makes me sound lazy but I'm not lazy I do plenty of stuff at home.I like all my friends, it's not anything about them. I'm not overly shy, or anything. I always have fun when I go out. It's just how i am. This isn't anything new either. I've always been this way. It's to the point where my friends don't even invite me out anymore and am I sad about this? not at all, I'm kinda relieved actually. I get alot of crap about this from friends and family. Some have even gotten mad at me about it.I don't know what it is that makes me this way but I'm stubborn about it. So I was wondering if this might be something that effects other scorpios. I knew one other scorpio that was like this and he was just as bad. It's not that I'm not socialable I'll talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime when I'm out, that is, if i'm out somewhere. If this isn't something that can be associated with my sun sign where else in my chart may I find why I'm like this? Any ideas?
------------------IQhunk -
quote:Well, for every one point that all of you like about me, I can list three.
Always out-numbered. Never out-gunned.
Sun is 19 deg. 05 min of scorpioMoon is 23 deg. 28 min of leomercury is 5 deg. 19 min of sagvenus is 9 deg. 27 min of sagmars is 26 deg. 21 min of leojupiter is 7 deg. 15 min of virgosaturn 24 deg. 21 min of virgouranus 21 deg. 10 min of scorpioneptune is 19 deg. 05 min of sagpluto is 20 deg. 18 min of libraASC is 11 deg. 00 min of geminiMC is 21 deg. 18 min of aquarius2nd cusp is 4 deg. 28 min of cancer3rd cusp is 26 deg. 34 min of cancer5th cusp is 22 deg. 23 min. of virgo6th cusp is 1 deg. 13 min of scorpio Is there anymore info you need?
Pisces, Neptune and the 12th house are other areas of the chart that you can look at for wanting to be alone.
The 4th house (home, private, security) is a good place to look at for wanting to be at home since the 4th house rules the home. Looking at your birth info that you have provided, your Moon (emotions), Mars (energy), and Jupiter (expansion) are all in your 4th house. Your Moon in the 4th house is in accidental diginity and the keyword for Moon in the 4th is "homeloving".
Your secretive Scorpio Sun (inner self) in your 6th house (daily routine, habits, health, work) is also the ruler of your 4th house because you have Leo on it's cusp. So the ruler of your 4th is in your 6th indicating that you love to work around your home.
No wonder you like to be at home!
I have scorpio rising, conjunct mars in 12th and uranus in 12, and I am just like you.What is weird in your case though, is that you have so many planets in leo and sag and gemini rising. You'd think you be dying to get out and doing things all the time I actually feel just like you...in the way that, I love being out with people when I am out with people, and am not shy, and do get along with everyone, but at the same time, ever since I was a child, I always wanted to retire in to my own place and avoid being with others. I dont know WHY I do this..Although thats when I feel I can relax the most and have a big need to relax on my own.I guess I lack the strong urge to get out there and do things for myself, accomplish things, maybe its the mars in the 12th house?It is annoying, like a handicap.But the thing about hermit life and scorpios, well, maybe its a karmic thing.Maybe we need to work on getting out there and care more about getting WORK done for all mankind, and be more passionate about our surroundings and the people.
Maybe its a normal part of grief to withdraw. I am rather enjoying my own company at the moment.
I feel pensive and inward.
Five planets in Scorpio....Sun conjunct Neptune...not surprisng hey?
I completely relate to this thread....homeloving is absolutely right.
though when my gf is here I tend to want to go out and do things (even just walking around town) with her or at least stay in with her..either way.. whatever shes up for I am, just 1 on 1 though. otherwise we still don't see many people often. though that leo in asc does get her to get ppl together..kind of a gather the troops kind of personality.
so who knows, are you single now? when is your birthday? maybe we were born on the same dates .
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