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T O P I C R E V I E WkriosHi to all..I tried to do a search...but kept getting a blank screen. I am an Aries with Aquarius on my 5th house cusp. Oddly I have never attracted or been involved with an Aquarian male, but now....wow! I've reasearched and it seems they are hopelessly non-commital...though he's very into me now. I need to know if there is a "key" to their heart what is it...because he's taken mine!Thanks in advance for any input Aries/Libra rising galand.Inner depthsif it is meant to be, it will be! I'm an Aries and my first true love was a wonderful aquarian man who shattered my heart in to a zillion pieces and left me for another cause he found out that she had his daughter - who was 3 at the time. Sigh. The last Aquarian was not over his exwife and was still madly in love with her. He kept in touch with his other exes - hopeiung that if things didn't work out with his curent partner that he could go back to what he missed etc......I have Uranus in the 5th and Sun opposite Uranus.....maybe I'm aquarian like in love....attracting the freedom loving non commital types......As Lindsa Good man did say ...when all of the aquarian men's friends get married - he one day thinks about getting married and will make an interesting hubby.IDScarlettSoulI too am aries, my first love an aquarian who ended up shattering my heart into a million pieces. Our love affair began when we were barely 14 and continued into our early twenties.He was amazing to me for a long time, but definitely had a wandering eye and a fondness for the ladies - it broke us up many times.It has been hard to sever ties - it's true that aquarians usually stay friends with all their ex's and he's never wanted to let me go completely. Always wants to keep tabs on me in some way and so things never seem completely "over". The key to their heart? In my opinion, give him FREEDOM that you don't question for a second, don't compare yourself to other women as it will come off as jealousy to him, and maintain the friendship part of the relationship with fierce vigor. He'll never do a friend wrong. In hinsight, the latter thing is what I failed to do and what ultimately was the end of us.My aquarian is now married (unhappily, from what I gather) and still calls me from time to time... they are very hard to forget, because when things are good they are the BEST, but definitely be a tad cautious with these people because they can turn it off just as quickly as they turned it on...ScarlettjkxxMy mom's bf is an aqua and he has my moon conj neptune aspect. From what I've seen of him, it seems that even though Aquas are very freedom-loving, they're also equally likely to stick to their principles and things they consider to be valid and for a long time. If you represent one of these principles, you become a cheerful reminder of something he considers important and that'll help greatly. For example, my mom is a cancer with some pisces/neptune aspects and it really sits well with her bf's moon/neptune conj. Of course, I'd take a look at the composite or synastry chart and look for clues there first.-jkkrios(sigh) thanks to all so far. At least my instincts are right. He is who he is...but can I maintain the integrity of who I am to keep him, that is not sacrifice any part of my personality....and of course I wouldn't so...time will tell I guess. But I keep hoping problematiquea fixed sign will commit, that’s what they do. you just have to be the “worthy” one. RandallBump!sashavittoria quote:Originally posted by problematique:a fixed sign will commit, that’s what they do. you just have to be the “worthy” one. I agree. Both my LTRs were with Aqua/Sag guys (their sun/moon reversed). The Aqua moon needed much more freedom and I was very young, immature, and possessive. I had a hard time trusting him and ultimately me cheated on me. But he was and is still committed to me as a person and to our friendship. I’m still friends with both. They will always be there for youRandallBump!RandallBump!bbyamphet quote:Originally posted by krios:Hi to all..I tried to do a search...but kept getting a blank screen. I am an Aries with Aquarius on my 5th house cusp. Oddly I have never attracted or been involved with an Aquarian male, but now....wow! I've reasearched and it seems they are hopelessly non-commital...though he's very into me now. I need to know if there is a "key" to their heart what is it...because he's taken mine!Thanks in advance for any input Aries/Libra rising galim a libra and have been seeing my aquarius guy for over a year now, the key is giving them space and freedom to be who they are. we dont really text eachother unless its when were making plans to hang out, hes not much of a phone user and he rather talk in person about whats going on with him+his life. were not in a relationship because both of us dont want one and we told eachother this from day 1, alot of aquarius will ghost girls if they feel trapped but them if they feel their freedom is being threatened they will make a bolt for it. i remember feeling EXACTLY how you do back when i first met him i was so confused because online they say aquarius men are distant but we would hang out 5 days in a row at times (he was the one who would ask to) it wasnt until the first of his isolation periods that i understood what they meant, aquarius men are committing BUT you have to understand that they go through time periods where they just need to be alone its not personal its just how they cope with life, i remember i called him the first time he went through it and he told me that if he was going to ghost me that he would remove me everywhere and he'd make it known. aquarius men are really sweet, and they are worth sticking around for. just be patient with him, the key to his heart is FREEDOM allow him to be himself and he will love you. RandallBump!RandallBump!
The last Aquarian was not over his exwife and was still madly in love with her. He kept in touch with his other exes - hopeiung that if things didn't work out with his curent partner that he could go back to what he missed etc......
I have Uranus in the 5th and Sun opposite Uranus.....maybe I'm aquarian like in love....attracting the freedom loving non commital types......
As Lindsa Good man did say ...when all of the aquarian men's friends get married - he one day thinks about getting married and will make an interesting hubby.
ID
He was amazing to me for a long time, but definitely had a wandering eye and a fondness for the ladies - it broke us up many times.
It has been hard to sever ties - it's true that aquarians usually stay friends with all their ex's and he's never wanted to let me go completely. Always wants to keep tabs on me in some way and so things never seem completely "over".
The key to their heart? In my opinion, give him FREEDOM that you don't question for a second, don't compare yourself to other women as it will come off as jealousy to him, and maintain the friendship part of the relationship with fierce vigor. He'll never do a friend wrong. In hinsight, the latter thing is what I failed to do and what ultimately was the end of us.
My aquarian is now married (unhappily, from what I gather) and still calls me from time to time... they are very hard to forget, because when things are good they are the BEST, but definitely be a tad cautious with these people because they can turn it off just as quickly as they turned it on...
Scarlett
If you represent one of these principles, you become a cheerful reminder of something he considers important and that'll help greatly. For example, my mom is a cancer with some pisces/neptune aspects and it really sits well with her bf's moon/neptune conj. Of course, I'd take a look at the composite or synastry chart and look for clues there first.
-jk
quote:Originally posted by problematique:a fixed sign will commit, that’s what they do. you just have to be the “worthy” one.
I agree. Both my LTRs were with Aqua/Sag guys (their sun/moon reversed). The Aqua moon needed much more freedom and I was very young, immature, and possessive. I had a hard time trusting him and ultimately me cheated on me. But he was and is still committed to me as a person and to our friendship. I’m still friends with both. They will always be there for you
quote:Originally posted by krios:Hi to all..I tried to do a search...but kept getting a blank screen. I am an Aries with Aquarius on my 5th house cusp. Oddly I have never attracted or been involved with an Aquarian male, but now....wow! I've reasearched and it seems they are hopelessly non-commital...though he's very into me now. I need to know if there is a "key" to their heart what is it...because he's taken mine!Thanks in advance for any input Aries/Libra rising gal
im a libra and have been seeing my aquarius guy for over a year now, the key is giving them space and freedom to be who they are. we dont really text eachother unless its when were making plans to hang out, hes not much of a phone user and he rather talk in person about whats going on with him+his life. were not in a relationship because both of us dont want one and we told eachother this from day 1, alot of aquarius will ghost girls if they feel trapped but them if they feel their freedom is being threatened they will make a bolt for it. i remember feeling EXACTLY how you do back when i first met him i was so confused because online they say aquarius men are distant but we would hang out 5 days in a row at times (he was the one who would ask to) it wasnt until the first of his isolation periods that i understood what they meant, aquarius men are committing BUT you have to understand that they go through time periods where they just need to be alone its not personal its just how they cope with life, i remember i called him the first time he went through it and he told me that if he was going to ghost me that he would remove me everywhere and he'd make it known. aquarius men are really sweet, and they are worth sticking around for. just be patient with him, the key to his heart is FREEDOM allow him to be himself and he will love you.
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