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T O P I C R E V I E WXenaEarlier on this month I broke up with a Libran guy because he was still smarting from his breakup a year ago and wasn't over his ex yet...that was the main reason...in addition to my habitual paranoia that I experience the minute I become anything more than just friends, and the fact that I wanted a kind of earth-moving experience and he wanted something *light*. He is SUCH an archetypal Libran...does not like unpleasantness of any type and doesn't tend to discuss things (which I have to say, seemed to be the reason for his and his ex's breaking up). Now I honestly don't care who he has a relationship with in the future because I don't want a relationship with him, but I so want to be friends with him again...chances are, however, that he won't agree because he claimed to be fairly rattled at the time that we broke up. Aries and most other fire signs seem to have a more instant recovery mode, Air signs need a constant sweetness-and-light. I wrote and recorded a song in the aftermath of our breakup which is actually quite good and upbeat - I feel like sending it to him and saying "peace...let's bury the hatchet...let's just be friends" but I kind of know he won't because I've fallen out with a Libran before and when they have been really upset they rarely recover. I just want to phone him and I can't bring myself to do it just yet. Then there is a Pisces I hang out with as friends, ostensibly, and was doing some recording with yesterday - apparently he has met a total soulmate through the internet who is married etc. (hmmm)- but kept on ruffling and playing with MY hair!!! - Just to let you know, my hair is long, naturally blonde, straight, and rather like a soft cushion...and he kept on saying, "I love your hair!!?" Then this evening, my LANDLORD (who has to be an archetypal Leo) ruffled my hair as I walked past in the corridor. (He has a girlfriend.) What is it with these guys? I'm not even making an effort to be attractive after the breakup - just hanging around in jeans and sweaters!!! Um, the Libran guy did say I was *very sexy*, but even when I'm looking my worst...it's mad! ???------------------Was ariestiger, and no, I'm not renaming myself Eris!AphroditeThese don't sound like quality guys, Xena. Just being blunt.LaurenWhat is it with Libra, Pisces guys and Aries girls?Those are the main guys I've attracted/been attracted to/ been with/liked.. *Four* Librans, three Pisceans lol I need another Pisces to even the count.. anyone?But I've only seriously been with my bf and he's a Libra.. so Libra won out with me loltriplecancerXena,I canīt believe! I had the exact same story with a libra guy I recently dated!! We broke up because he wasnīt over his ex-girlfriend with whom he broke up a year ago!! Unbelievable! LeoLysI'd chalk it up to old souls being attracted to the new soul..you.Watch out for Pisces. They can read minds. Sriously. And they can take up space in you head when you never gave them permission. Seriously.Never meet lira or leo men...wonder why?enjoy, you little ball of fire!------------------Leo SunCappy MoonCancer Asc.XenaWell, Mr. Libra is up for being friends...I'm really looking forward to seeing him next weekend as I love him to bits (as a friend, for the time being) - really, it's true, I didn't think I loved him, but I do, I absolutely adore him (which is NOT the same as worshipping, you understand - I'm just enthusiastic about him!)...he's very good-natured and intelligent and thinks he's boring, but I just love him for being him!! Amazing, as Lbra was one of the signs I thought I didn't get on with. Never judge a book by its cover. (I will drop a few heavy hints to my landlord I'm going out on dates again; everyone needs to know where they stand, to avoid confusion!) Do you think Libras have a hard time letting go (especially if they are dumped) because they really NEED to be in a relationship and can't visualise things any differently, even if the situation is bad? Mr. Pisces, meanwhile, has flown off to America and I shan't see him for a few months. He really looked very, VERY affectionate when I gave him a goodbye hug...but I don't fancy him (nice guy, but not my type) and I am not in love with him. Great to hang out with, but the feeling isn't mutual (for better or worse). Funny, Pisces guys are fantastic as friends for me, they also are amazingly able to pull off the thoroughly masculine thing whilst being in touch with their artistic side, but I've never ever felt inclined to have a relationship with them, even though 3 of my planets are in Pisces. I like them, but don't fancy them. Strange!! hot_iceorr......maybe you just have real cool hair! I'm gonna think twice before I play with a girls hair!illusions_foolIt's nice to know that I'm not the only one baffled by guys. Do quality guys even exist anymore? And where do you find them? And is it worth looking? I'm so shy, I've never been involved with a guy before. I know I'm only 18, but the majority of girls my age have already been in a number of relationships. I'm totally out of my league and I have no idea what I'm doing.~Rebekkateaologist.candy_c123yup my ex was also pices sun and scorp rising...i'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo not over him, i'm like a puppet ona string. he has such prescence yet was a total *cvekjfhwejknvjwkuhhhhh, i h8 him cos i love him..i think :She has tooo many girls around him..he was also verbally abusive when HE did ME wrong and wanted to beat up my ex ex for some unknown reason..beware of the piscean men they are SCARY!------------------*Leo Girl* http://img444.imageshack.us/img444/7104/f1lacevm9.jpg ^Apparently she looks like me..i'm also a dancer :Dvillywow, horror Piscean stories AtlentaI loved your description about the Libra guy.*Light* is better than heavy, because this sign is represented by the scales.. and it will take so much more effort to revert back to balance when things get very heavy. Aries is Libra's polar opposite, so I guess you'll get irritated at his _oppositeness_ to you and your undertakings. But no, he's not weak, nor wimpy. It's just his way of doing things. That's what made him so likeable in the first place.He says you're sexy when you're looking your worst to make you feel better. Libra is pretty sensitive to these things and try to make those around them feel better when they can. quote:Do you think Libras have a hard time letting go (especially if they are dumped) because they really NEED to be in a relationship and can't visualise things any differently, even if the situation is bad?No, that's not nice. Librans can see two sides of situations, and to say they have inability to visualise is doing them injustice. I would say it is the attachment. If they can't let go of you, you're sure they do indeed *love* you in some way or another.It definitely beats someone who can get over a partner in lets say 6 months. Sentimentalism is the key.sweetlibrai think libra guys have a hard time letting go. my friend still mourns over his -wud b girlfriend- who happened to be engaged to someone else. she is married for years now and still he dreams of her husband dying a natural death.!
Then there is a Pisces I hang out with as friends, ostensibly, and was doing some recording with yesterday - apparently he has met a total soulmate through the internet who is married etc. (hmmm)- but kept on ruffling and playing with MY hair!!! - Just to let you know, my hair is long, naturally blonde, straight, and rather like a soft cushion...and he kept on saying, "I love your hair!!?"
Then this evening, my LANDLORD (who has to be an archetypal Leo) ruffled my hair as I walked past in the corridor. (He has a girlfriend.)
What is it with these guys? I'm not even making an effort to be attractive after the breakup - just hanging around in jeans and sweaters!!! Um, the Libran guy did say I was *very sexy*, but even when I'm looking my worst...it's mad!
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------------------Was ariestiger, and no, I'm not renaming myself Eris!
Those are the main guys I've attracted/been attracted to/ been with/liked.. *Four* Librans, three Pisceans lol I need another Pisces to even the count.. anyone?
But I've only seriously been with my bf and he's a Libra.. so Libra won out with me lol
Watch out for Pisces. They can read minds. Sriously. And they can take up space in you head when you never gave them permission. Seriously.
Never meet lira or leo men...wonder why?
enjoy, you little ball of fire!
------------------Leo SunCappy MoonCancer Asc.
Mr. Pisces, meanwhile, has flown off to America and I shan't see him for a few months. He really looked very, VERY affectionate when I gave him a goodbye hug...but I don't fancy him (nice guy, but not my type) and I am not in love with him. Great to hang out with, but the feeling isn't mutual (for better or worse). Funny, Pisces guys are fantastic as friends for me, they also are amazingly able to pull off the thoroughly masculine thing whilst being in touch with their artistic side, but I've never ever felt inclined to have a relationship with them, even though 3 of my planets are in Pisces. I like them, but don't fancy them. Strange!!
I'm gonna think twice before I play with a girls hair!
~Rebekka
i'm sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo not over him, i'm like a puppet ona string. he has such prescence yet was a total *cvekjfhwejknvjwk
uhhhhh, i h8 him cos i love him..i think :S
he has tooo many girls around him..he was also verbally abusive when HE did ME wrong and wanted to beat up my ex ex for some unknown reason..beware of the piscean men they are SCARY!
------------------*Leo Girl* http://img444.imageshack.us/img444/7104/f1lacevm9.jpg
^Apparently she looks like me..i'm also a dancer :D
Aries is Libra's polar opposite, so I guess you'll get irritated at his _oppositeness_ to you and your undertakings. But no, he's not weak, nor wimpy. It's just his way of doing things. That's what made him so likeable in the first place.
He says you're sexy when you're looking your worst to make you feel better. Libra is pretty sensitive to these things and try to make those around them feel better when they can.
quote:Do you think Libras have a hard time letting go (especially if they are dumped) because they really NEED to be in a relationship and can't visualise things any differently, even if the situation is bad?
It definitely beats someone who can get over a partner in lets say 6 months. Sentimentalism is the key.
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