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T O P I C R E V I E WLILYGIRLI have just had two very intense interactions with my Pisces friend/doc, one in person and one on the phone, and is it just me or is this guy communicating with me feverishly with few words. This has happened a few times before but not with this extreme magnitude. I felt like after he and I parted I could feel him spilling thoughts and words all over my transom.The first encounter involved my telling him a secret that I have kept for 15 years from everyone. I was very upset but quiet and not crying. During our conversation he didn't flinch, he was very calm, said a few words (questions with a little advice) and kept staring at me for what seemed like nine days. And when I finished telling him I asked him if he thought I was lame, and he merely said No I don't think you;re lame. I never think that about you. He rubbed my back briefly and left.When he called me on a business matter the two days later, neither of us brought the encounter up but I could not get him off the phone and while he was on he kept saying there was some important work/health stuff going on with us and we would have to get together alot more at the end of the year (more than usual). Then after I got off the phone, it happened again, I felt this sense of him coming over again urgently though he had not said anything directly to me on the phone. The empathy thing I dont really undertsand with Pisces. I mean if that had been another friend/person I probably would have been hurt or bristle that he was not more vocally emphathetic. Yet I felt completely protected and utterly taken over by him in the room.The other thing is I sometimes sense and almost for want of a better word, erotic, pleasure he takes in the rare occasion to save me, to hear my secret angst. Does anyone here understand what I am saying?? Is that Neptune Savior in action or what? I mean I am usually so very contained and private and yet things, all sorts of things (honest things) are coming out in his presence. And I sense that this is pleasurable for him not in any sadistic manner but in the way that he knows I won't talk to anyone else about such things, that I won't ask for help and now I have finally come to him.?Mama MiaHey Lil: I thought I would just try and help you out here a little me being a Pisces and all.. Sounds like you guys have made a connecetion, it is where you both are connected now. Only some ppl know how deep the Pisces can really be. We can do some amazing things with our minds, especially if we are evolved. Lily most of all I think he cares about you overall. He is concerned about your health and all that comes with that. When we find friends that we care about we can be loyal to the end. My only sugesstion to you is try and not analyze it so much just go with the flow and feel the warmness of it. be content with his way of communication, from what I am reading it is not a bad thing. I sometimes communicate the same way..LILYGIRLThanks Mama Mia. I definitely will not overanalyze it. Though as a Gem Mer Sun I can get into that, I am so relieved that I can hide in a cave somewhere somehow with a person and finally speak. I have that chiron 3rd house mercury and started crawling under my bunk bed when I was 7 to hide. And in an odd way I felt as though he had slipped down peered in and put his hand out. The stare is the stare I might have gotten if anyone had ever peered under the bed for me, not laughing at me or scolding but wantingly and gently. Anyway. I hope i didn't make him sound odd with the erotic comment. It simply something that I feel from him and it may well be the sensation a person gets when they release something pent up, and the other person pulls it in, absorbs and smiles swimming in the secret.kindjaliHi,I am Cappy, but Piscies Moon in me is strong. He has some charateristics I have, and definetly, there is some deep inside.I sometimes feel, that other get me somehow "strange" and "mystic". At the end, are the words sometimes "meaningless"? There is that feeling, that can say more than words...receptive ppl can feel it.K.villy**The other thing is I sometimes sense and almost for want of a better word, erotic, pleasure he takes in the rare occasion to save me, to hear my secret angst. Does anyone here understand what I am saying??Yeah I understand, maybe its like a person attaining the eternal truth of life .. like, now he knows everything (what he wanted to) in the world . I think it is more of trust that you put in him, that makes him feel good (pleasure). It feels good when someone puts trusts in you (not materially or mechanical manner). When we like someone, and that person tells us something which others don’t know, it makes us feel good …like we are worthy to someone or its like a proof that the other person also likes you, which means a lot to him (that might be our pleasure). Also it (the feeling of goodiness) might be due to our own thoughts about certain situation coming out to be true – like he might have internally thought various combination of things about you and your situation (something troubling you etc) and finally you share with him, and he gets to know what exactly it is (and if it comes out to be true what he had thought, it might make us feel even better)…. .Its like he knows what’s in you but not sure, and you sharing or being close with him. (hope I have not put my own over-analyzed thoughts )Regarding unspoken words, I had tried to get some responses some time ago - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/010210.html (I feel lost for words or right things to say verbally, so I guess we just feel the situation. I guess we are more adept with feelings and emotions)Mama MiaI just love ppl that make you feel that what ever the problem is its not that bad, they are not shocked at anything and can make you feel safe..Those are my favorite type folks, and I definetly try and be that person. But sometimes I am shocked, I cannot lie.. WednesdayI often communicate without words. What surprises me is my boyfriend gets it (he's a Cancer).I'm not easily shocked either. I enjoy listening to people talking about themselves.I'm a Pisces Rising.LILYGIRLThanks everyone especially Villy & MM.Villy I had not seen that post until NOW! I have not been around much but I do notice that my dad has an Aqua Moon and Doc a Libra moon so both will verbalize more but are quiet and gentle in their approach. Neither ever seems startled by news. My dad used to say ice water ran through his veins and essentially shockproof.The thing about Doc is those lipid eyes--that staring and those lipid liquid sad eyes. Sometimes he surprises me at the things he remembers because in the main he can be a bit absent minded. He did say he knew something was bothering me because of my emails. I am not sure if he meant because I had not emailed him (!?!) in almost three weeks which is unuheard of for me or the the breathless hyperflirty tone of the emails. When I get frantic or scared or down I realize that's when my emails take that tone most.I do think he was happy to figure out what was troubling me. He suspected something and was in the vicinity of figuring out. He also is very open and firendly when I talk to him about his chart which is so unusual for a physician but he actually asks lots of questions!villyWell sometimes I too say “I am cold blooded animal” Yeah we do remember things which one may not think of remembering… lately I have stopped remembering things like birthdays of all the friends n all, and sometimes forget some things by being absent minded. Probably with age we realize what is important to remember and what is not.Another reason of we feeling happy might be that, we feel that we have been some help to the other person and could be of additional help if required (as we know that we would be always there for the other person’s support).And as MM mentioned about connection, once we are connected and like someone we surely would be open and friendly. BlueTopaz124I agree, a connection has definitely been made. Remember, thoughts are things and if you feel a dialogue going on, it is. We all do it. One good reason to watch your thoughts (not with this, but in general). In this case, I wouldn't worry at all - there is a strong empathic connection between the two of you. A very good book I recommend on this is Personal Power through Awareness by Sanaya Roman. It talks about thoughts and the way we broadcast them (Ch 8). Everyone does it sometimes without realizing it.
The first encounter involved my telling him a secret that I have kept for 15 years from everyone. I was very upset but quiet and not crying. During our conversation he didn't flinch, he was very calm, said a few words (questions with a little advice) and kept staring at me for what seemed like nine days. And when I finished telling him I asked him if he thought I was lame, and he merely said No I don't think you;re lame. I never think that about you. He rubbed my back briefly and left.
When he called me on a business matter the two days later, neither of us brought the encounter up but I could not get him off the phone and while he was on he kept saying there was some important work/health stuff going on with us and we would have to get together alot more at the end of the year (more than usual). Then after I got off the phone, it happened again, I felt this sense of him coming over again urgently though he had not said anything directly to me on the phone.
The empathy thing I dont really undertsand with Pisces. I mean if that had been another friend/person I probably would have been hurt or bristle that he was not more vocally emphathetic. Yet I felt completely protected and utterly taken over by him in the room.
The other thing is I sometimes sense and almost for want of a better word, erotic, pleasure he takes in the rare occasion to save me, to hear my secret angst. Does anyone here understand what I am saying?? Is that Neptune Savior in action or what? I mean I am usually so very contained and private and yet things, all sorts of things (honest things) are coming out in his presence. And I sense that this is pleasurable for him not in any sadistic manner but in the way that he knows I won't talk to anyone else about such things, that I won't ask for help and now I have finally come to him.
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Sounds like you guys have made a connecetion, it is where you both are connected now. Only some ppl know how deep the Pisces can really be. We can do some amazing things with our minds, especially if we are evolved.
Lily most of all I think he cares about you overall. He is concerned about your health and all that comes with that. When we find friends that we care about we can be loyal to the end.
My only sugesstion to you is try and not analyze it so much just go with the flow and feel the warmness of it. be content with his way of communication, from what I am reading it is not a bad thing.
I sometimes communicate the same way..
Anyway. I hope i didn't make him sound odd with the erotic comment. It simply something that I feel from him and it may well be the sensation a person gets when they release something pent up, and the other person pulls it in, absorbs and smiles swimming in the secret.
I am Cappy, but Piscies Moon in me is strong. He has some charateristics I have, and definetly, there is some deep inside.I sometimes feel, that other get me somehow "strange" and "mystic". At the end, are the words sometimes "meaningless"? There is that feeling, that can say more than words...receptive ppl can feel it.
K.
Yeah I understand, maybe its like a person attaining the eternal truth of life .. like, now he knows everything (what he wanted to) in the world .
I think it is more of trust that you put in him, that makes him feel good (pleasure). It feels good when someone puts trusts in you (not materially or mechanical manner). When we like someone, and that person tells us something which others don’t know, it makes us feel good …like we are worthy to someone or its like a proof that the other person also likes you, which means a lot to him (that might be our pleasure). Also it (the feeling of goodiness) might be due to our own thoughts about certain situation coming out to be true – like he might have internally thought various combination of things about you and your situation (something troubling you etc) and finally you share with him, and he gets to know what exactly it is (and if it comes out to be true what he had thought, it might make us feel even better)…. .Its like he knows what’s in you but not sure, and you sharing or being close with him.
(hope I have not put my own over-analyzed thoughts )
Regarding unspoken words, I had tried to get some responses some time ago - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/010210.html (I feel lost for words or right things to say verbally, so I guess we just feel the situation. I guess we are more adept with feelings and emotions)
Those are my favorite type folks, and I definetly try and be that person.
But sometimes I am shocked, I cannot lie..
I'm not easily shocked either. I enjoy listening to people talking about themselves.
I'm a Pisces Rising.
Villy I had not seen that post until NOW! I have not been around much but I do notice that my dad has an Aqua Moon and Doc a Libra moon so both will verbalize more but are quiet and gentle in their approach. Neither ever seems startled by news. My dad used to say ice water ran through his veins and essentially shockproof.
The thing about Doc is those lipid eyes--that staring and those lipid liquid sad eyes. Sometimes he surprises me at the things he remembers because in the main he can be a bit absent minded. He did say he knew something was bothering me because of my emails. I am not sure if he meant because I had not emailed him (!?!) in almost three weeks which is unuheard of for me or the the breathless hyperflirty tone of the emails. When I get frantic or scared or down I realize that's when my emails take that tone most.
I do think he was happy to figure out what was troubling me. He suspected something and was in the vicinity of figuring out. He also is very open and firendly when I talk to him about his chart which is so unusual for a physician but he actually asks lots of questions!
Yeah we do remember things which one may not think of remembering… lately I have stopped remembering things like birthdays of all the friends n all, and sometimes forget some things by being absent minded. Probably with age we realize what is important to remember and what is not.
Another reason of we feeling happy might be that, we feel that we have been some help to the other person and could be of additional help if required (as we know that we would be always there for the other person’s support).
And as MM mentioned about connection, once we are connected and like someone we surely would be open and friendly.
A very good book I recommend on this is Personal Power through Awareness by Sanaya Roman. It talks about thoughts and the way we broadcast them (Ch 8). Everyone does it sometimes without realizing it.
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