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augentier | I met with my Cancer friend Tuesday night. He walked into the room, did not even look at me..he looked at our other friend first, said hi to him, sat down, and THEN looked at me. He didn't say anything, he just looked at me and I asked him, "Did you get everything?" I had sent him some information & a letter in the mail on the 7th. "I didn't get nothin'" he said. Evidently the mail never arrived, but he thought I didn't send him anything. I explained myself, and thought, ok everything's fine now. Nope. He was really distant, not talkative for the rest of the time we were hanging out. I was in a very detached and uncomfortable state of mind..he was making me really nervous. When we left, he walked ahead of me and didn't talk to me. I asked someone ELSE a question and I guess he thought I was talking to him because I saw him shrug his shoulders (still walking in front of me). He looked our other friend in the eye and shook his hand and said, "see ya later!" ..he shook my hand quickly and I said "I'll try to get that stuff sent again" and he said "Yeah ok" What the hell? How immature of him. Is this a typical response from a Cancer who thinks he has been slighted? OH YEAH - He also cut off his goatee which I told him I liked when we first met. But he cut it off, left the mustache part. My first thought was that he was ****** at me and decided to cut it off. Make sense? I think it does. Argh, I don't know if I can handle a person who acts like this when I didn't even do anything wrong. ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces |
blue moon | Sounds to me like a typical response from someone with a Y chromosone. Mine has worse toddler tantrums than the kids. Once he and one of the kids had a little stroppy fit over the same thing in a row, I said: can you tell me what was the difference between you and the four-year-old? He said: I was the one who walked off in a huff and started sulking. He's |
BLKFox | Augentier, He sounds like someone who wants you to read his mind & to simply KNOW why he seems to be ****** off...at you! He doesn't have the communication skills to tell you directly... -That's my guess...people like that usually hold you to impossibly high standards. I think that's a Cancerian trait. I know someone with Mars in Cancers who handles herself the same way....she was angry with me and acted as though I was supposed to know why----VERY FRUSTRATING, to say the least... |
augentier | bluemoon - LOL..i think you're right, men are big babies BLKFox - YES, he does expect me to read his mind..my best friend pointed this out to me as well (she's a Cancer and says she is that way, too). And I feel like I know why he's upset..I just don't understand why he can't just get over it after I explained the situation. ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces |
augentier | HAHAH..right when I start b!tching, problem solved...I received a letter from him today and he explained why he was "aggitated" and whatnot..turns out, it wasn't me. oh thank jeebus <3 ------------------ Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius Venus::Scorpio Mars::Pisces |
mblover | It seems to me that only a Scorpio or Pisces woman will be able to read him mind the way he expects. This is the thing about all water signs. They would want you to know things without asking :-) |
Sarai | I'm a Cancer and I DO NOT act like this guy/little toddler. I make it a rule to never befriend or waste my time with passive aggressive people because it's immature and pathetic. Even if some might think I come off in an abrasive fashion I am proud to be forthright and direct. |
Seeing Stars 7.21 | I might act like him a little.. but usually not with friends.. I dont expect so much of friends.. but if I felt I had been slighted then I would just let them now in non verbal ways. I would still talk to them, but it would be different, I wouldnt act the same... I wouldnt play silent treatment. if you got me ****** enough to not talk to you then you should def. know what it is. cause i dont get ****** over nothing.. unless Im dating you. that whole thing about high standards i only apply to relationships. it all depends on my mood. sometimes Ill confront and go balls to the wall or sometimes ill just be like F it and just leave it alone, figuring it a waste of my time. |
Seeing Stars 7.21 | I ment to say that impossible high standard might be typical of a virgo or leo AC |
Hermes28 | I have Virgo Rising and I don't hold people to an impossible high standard. And I don't believe we place such demands on people, since we tend to idealize our mates. |
Seeing Stars 7.21 | ok well yes.. its like the same thing but in a different connotation. if we idealize them we have this very good picture of them and then when they mess up and show us they are unperfect just like any other human we get bummed. |
starrym | >>>>Is this a typical response from a Cancer who thinks he has been slighted? i love Cancers, but yes >>>.I received a letter from him today and he explained why he was "aggitated" and whatnot this is also a regular response they def like playing the ignore you for a bit game. |