How funny, I was just thinking about this very thing this morning. I think I would describe my taste in men as somewhat mutable (Mars in Pisces and Venus in Gemini), I do NOT in any way go for the bodybuilder type and I only like a little bit of muscle definition. But overall I range from liking quite feminine men to ones who are quite masculine but somehow with a 'feminine' touch, usually the hair is an attraction for me, so if they're quite masculine then I like them to have a bit of length in the hair to soften them a bit. I'm not into particularly tall men, I seem to have a liking for men who can be described as 'elfin' in some way, whether they are less than average height, slight frame, or something about their features that is elfin. A bit of androgyny can attract me just as long as it isn't overdone. I've been thinking in a way that Brian Molko from Placebo would be my perfect man, lol. He's elfin, HOT, slightly androgynous (sometimes very much so), and has this deep sexy thing about him. He describes his own sexuality as 'fluid' (he's bisexual and has a long-term partner whom he's had a child with)... this sooo matches my Mars in Pisces. lol.
To go along with this very theme, here he is!
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=8yKPuy3CDoc
I think he's fascinating. I looked up his chart. His Saturn in Gemini conjuncts my Venus, and he's a Sag sun with Mercury in Scorp and Mars and Venus conjunct in Scorpio - so he's all over my ascendant and moon, as well as activating my Mars (via trines) and Venus.
I think this video of him demonstrates an example of the perfect 'Mars in Pisces' man (at least for me). He's just so... perfectly and fluidly bi-gender...
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=jQQmAP9Poo4
He's been known to sexually confuse everyone from straight women and men to lesbians alike...
Oh! One more. Typically I've always thought of my sexuality as being more Scorpio-influenced, with there being an *aspect* of Pisces. But I've been watching this video of Brian Molko and although it's hardly what I'd consider to be 'erotic material', he REALLY turns me on here. Unusually for me, it's just so... Mars in Pisces, without much hint of Scorpio at all. Normally I'd find something like this very boring. But, I think I like this just because it's him.
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=ix3asuKo3RM
Other than that, celebs I like include Marc Bolan, Nuno Bettencourt, and Axl Rose up to a point.
As for attracting meek partners... no I wouldn't describe my bf as meek at all. He's an Aries rising and moon, so meek doesn't enter his vocabulary. I think my frustration with him is that he isn't 'soft' (ie Piscean) enough sometimes.
And in regards to stress... I used to exercise (Sag rising and Jupiter in Aries). Nowadays I just go for walks, listen to music or go shopping. Very Taurean. lol.