I get what you're saying as I have a Mars/Saturn/Pluto conjunction. 'Angel or devil' is the standard remark In a synastry instance, my conjunctions fall in someone's 1st, and he, I think he sees me acting in that manner, of course I don't notice it, and he reacts in the same manner..slightly strange, we have an aggressive connection, not physical, but the air is ....easily ignited.
Another one, he places something like 5 or 6 in my 7th, he's somewhat romantically interested, but more than that is obsessed with my romantic situation, marital status, etc. whereas I'm not interested and find his attention intrusive.
Another one places 4 personal in my h5, and I get so excited and jazzed up around him it's almost embarrassing It's igniting but in a good way.