I find it interesting that you asked for advice. With Gemini Ascending and moon in Libra, the philosophy is always”two heads are better than one”. Lol.But seriously, just looking at your positions;
In compatibility , I look at the 1st house(what you strongly identify with), the 2nd house(what you do to attract someone), the 4th house(your emotional security), 5th house(lover),the 7th (who you are attracted to) and the 8th house(who is attracted to you).
1st house ruler is in 4th
You strongly identify with your home and emotional security is of paramount importance to you. It affects your outlook on life tremendously and colors much in the way you see your world.
With Mercury and Venus conjunct there in the 4th, these planets together emphasize and ease of expression of these emotional needs. Indeed you feel strongly identified with someone whom is able to speak openly and expressively about their emotions. Mars there also makes one passionate about their security needs.
2nd house ruler is in 5th
You attract mates through your fun-loving attitude towards life. Your style of flirting is to engage your partner in fun and games. With moon in the 5th, you most probably attract others through your affectionate/playful and nurturing nature-which can be most attractive. You have a gentle , feminine nature which can draw people to you easily.
4th house ruler is in 4th
Your emotional needs are strongly emphasized by the ruler being in its own house.
You feel safer in a secure, familiar environment. Constant affection, reassurance and emotional connection are of absolute importance. You put a great deal into your feelings and may have distinctly emotional needs that overlap greatly with your security needs.
5th house ruler in 4th
Your lover needs to be someone with whom you have an emotional connection with. You may have a connection that lingers on for a long time, be connected in some way from the past or share similar cultures. Indeed, you lover has to be someone you feel emotionally secure with.
7th house ruler is in 3rd
You feel most supported and understood when you are in agreement with your partner. It is important that you be able to bounce off ideas with the person you are in partnership with and have agreements in the way of mutual ideas.
With Sun and Jupiter there (in 3rd house), it is important that they be confident (SUN) and open-minded (Jupiter). They must expand your capacity (Sun) and enlighten you to broader views (Jupiter). It would help, tremendously, with Sun and Jupiter in 3rd, if they have the gift of gab.lol
8h house ruler in 9th
You attract strongly idealistic/fanatically religious types. There may be a strongly conservative political/religious belief system (Saturn in 9th).
There is also likely to be an adventurous streak that is confined or difficult to express. Responsibilities regarding politics/religion/philosophy o are taken quite seriously. They may have ideas that try and blend existing structures of politics/religion with ideals.
With so much emphasis on 4th and 3rd house, its no wonder that you often look towards emotional connection. Your 3rd house influences make expression also paramount. It is important that whom you are involved with have both emotional depth and intellectual curiosity.
You'll have to decide whether you current beau has these qualities. Good luck!