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Juliet41894 | anyone else have this aspect? i have venus in taurus opp. pluto in scorpio (both planets in intercepted houses) and pluto is retrograde. also this is my nodal axis so i'm sensing that i'll have much karma in matters of love...not to mention my neptune in capricorn in the seventh opposing my cancer moon. UGH haha |
RunAroundScreaming | yeah i have venus square pluto. i keep meeting guys that i like, but since im not crazy about them, i cant force myself to go out with them. i've been crazy about a couple of guys though. I just wish i met more i was crazy about. Maybe its a venus conjunct mars thing too since i've read it means since your masculine (mars) and feminine (venus) energies are equally strong inside of you, then you dont feel the need to look for a complement of the opposite sex, and jump into a relationship just because ------------------ $3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? |
Juliet41894 | that's really interesting! what's your venus placement? if you don't mind me asking. with me the problem is the opposite...i can be crazy about almost anyone! but i won't necessarily let them know (never a good thing haha) i've missed out on some great guys just because i was too scared to show my feelings. i probably seemed cold and distant when in reality, i'm the opposite. ah someday i'll learn |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: yeah i have venus square pluto. i keep meeting guys that i like, but since im not crazy about them, i cant force myself to go out with them. i've been crazy about a couple of guys though. I just wish i met more i was crazy about.Maybe its a venus conjunct mars thing too since i've read it means since your masculine (mars) and feminine (venus) energies are equally strong inside of you, then you dont feel the need to look for a complement of the opposite sex, and jump into a relationship just because
hmm that doesn't seem like venus pluto. my experience is that I'm crazy about a girl or she doesn't exist, its all or nothing.
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Juliet41894 | oh yeah i'm the same way. i either adore or ignore lol |
aquaguy91 | yea lol. I think the worst nightmare for a guy with venus pluto is to hear a girl he is crazy about say "I only see you as a friend." haha I know I've heard it a few times, and that's when I bounce. like I said its all or nothing for me. |
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sand | I have this. I thought it makes guys manipulative. |
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aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by sand: I have this. I thought it makes guys manipulative.
hmm never heard that b4 lol. I think it attracts ppl who play mindgames |
sand | I do it. Men with the aspect (Woody Allen, Harrison Ford, Rock Hudson, Sean Connery) identify more with the power and control issues of the aspect: they switch emotions on and off at will in order to maintain control of the object of their affections and then begin to complain that their partners are unstable and psychologically damaged. What they fail to see is that it is almost certainly their fault that the woman in their life who wants to be loved and cared for is bewildered and confused by the emotional amputation they are subjected to and eventually it takes its toll on their mental health and wellbeing. http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/venus-pluto-love-and-trans/ |
Juliet41894 | from what i understand this aspect gives you a much more scorpionic attitude towards relationships (especially if pluto is in scorp) so yeah i can definitely see manipulation and mind games taking place on both ends. i know i have a tendency to act..aggressively passive i suppose lol |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by sand: I do it.Men with the aspect (Woody Allen, Harrison Ford, Rock Hudson, Sean Connery) identify more with the power and control issues of the aspect: they switch emotions on and off at will in order to maintain control of the object of their affections and then begin to complain that their partners are unstable and psychologically damaged. What they fail to see is that it is almost certainly their fault that the woman in their life who wants to be loved and cared for is bewildered and confused by the emotional amputation they are subjected to and eventually it takes its toll on their mental health and wellbeing. http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2009/04/08/venus-pluto-love-and-trans/
I'm somewhat guilty of this I guess. I do turn off my emotions sometimes, but not to control the girl. I just do it if they **** me off. |
sand | For me it's my default nature. I have to fight not to do it. I have to remind myself that I like the person not want to make them miserable lol! Venus is my strongest planet followed by Pluto. Scorpio is my strongest sign followed by Taurus. They''re also conj my rising/ dsc. |
sand | P.s. I'm so eagle right now as in the evolved scorp so I play it straight. I like who I like, love who I love. But maybe just a lil teasing. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by sand: For me it's my default nature. I have to fight not to do it. I have to remind myself that I like the person not want to make them miserable lol! Venus is my strongest planet followed by Pluto. Scorpio is my strongest sign followed by Taurus. They''re also conj my rising/ dsc.
don't you have aries mercury? are you verbally abusive to your partners? |
sand | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: don't you have aries mercury? are you verbally abusive to your partners?
Lmfao! I don't think so! It's conjunct Venus! But if unchecked I can steamroll but it's not so much the verbal aspect rather imposing one's will and forgetting the other person. I definitely need a strong one that won't get lost in the relationship. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by sand: Lmfao! I don't think so! It's conjunct Venus! But if unchecked I can steamroll but it's not so much the verbal aspect rather imposing one's will and forgetting the other person. I definitely need a strong one that won't get lost in the relationship.
haha I have capricorn mercury, so I can be very condescending and make them feel really immature, and mercury is conjunct neptune so it usually happens when I'm drunk. |
Juliet41894 | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: don't you have aries mercury? are you verbally abusive to your partners?
lol i have aries mercury..i don't wanna say verbally abusive but i can definitely say some hurtful **** out of impulse |
Gabby | I have libra pluto, libra venus conjunct in 1st and it seems im not attracted to guys or crazy about them unless theres a certain level of pain with it....its like pain is what opens my heart to love, or losing something all the sudden makes me appreciate it, thats why like long distance relationships because i get to miss them and it makes my feelings more tender for them. |
sand | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: haha I have capricorn mercury, so I can be very condescending and make them feel really immature, and mercury is conjunct neptune so it usually happens when I'm drunk.
Libra merc is one of the worst with me. |
CAY_512 | I have Venus Square Pluto. I have always liked and ended up marrying a Pluto type. I am going to have transiting Pluto opposing my Venus soon and am curious to see what that will mean for me. |