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StelliumH6 | September 1, 2010 iQ: "Pisces gets the love feelings from your heart chakra, they do not need to verbalize. They (Pisces) will confuse you and themselves when they verbalize love. They won't confuse feelings though."Him: Don't my actions speak louder than words? Me: Do you love me? Him: Love? Sorry. I'm not like that. What the heck? |
Debby4 | what are you asking about? Pisces sun people or what? I'm confused. Pisces Sun/Mars/Mercury/Saturn here |
mir | Me: If you act like that I can't believe you love or even care for me. He: If my brother doesn't answer the phone I'm not going to doubt his love for me as I simply know he cares. (my translated thought: why would I put you on a pedestal as love is bigger than feeding the insatiable ego)(Cap-Sun/Pisces-Moon) Making the ego such a piece of nothing can be called a true miracle for a Leo (me) lol. So yea that was def. touching the right spot here. Prob. a profit from both our moons & mercury in trine. |
hippichick | Nope~ A Pisces in love has not problems saying so.. Pisces does not have problems with communication of the emotions...my gosh if we did we would drown. We, do certainly though, shut down on the verbalizations and proclamiations of love IF we are hurt by the proclaimee, cause we dont want to hurt again. IF the reciever, the proclaimee is receptive to us and we trust and believe he/she we can be quite effusive with verbal laments from the heart~ BUT we dont need to be... t~ |
StelliumH6 | He is Pisces Sun and Pisces Venus. According to astro.com Neptune is his most dominant planet. I know in my heart he loves me, but my mind (ego perhaps) wants to hear it. hippichick~ I have never hurt him. Please explain your last sentence a little more. Thank you. |
StelliumH6 | hippichick - Sorry, I mean your 2nd to last sentence. |
hippichick | We have to trust and I know this Pisces trusts from the get go, but once somebody has done something to dishoner my trust, there is always something in me that keeps me pulled back. That person may still be in my life, but I am not quite so verbal in how I feel, when in love (cept when the Fish swims in too much Fish food and or drink ) When hurt we can become quite the meannie. t~ |
hippichick | Where is his Mercury? |
StelliumH6 | Aquarius Mercury I am Aquarius Sun. |
hippichick | Ah...Me too Aqua Merc in the 3rd and for me I dont shut up! LOL Unless the above mentioned take place. But he is a guy, I think he is acting more like a guy than a Pisces, perse' Some men are just not comfotable saying it. I think that is pretty common for a guy to show it and not say it. What IQ said is correct, we love from the heart and we figure we dont "have" to say it, but like I said, when a Fish is really in love she does, but we are dealing with a man Fish. Dated one...he had not problem saying it either, but he was hugely Arian and didnt shut up for anything! t~ |
StelliumH6 | Thanks hippichick. You always try to help when I have any questions about him. His Mercury is in his 9th H. I am very receptive to him and he trusts me completely. He has told me all of this with his words. But saying he loves me? I do not know. |
Debby4 | With that Pisces Venus he should be all over you "professing" his love. xD It might be that Aqua Mercury though. They aren't always so emotional you know. Maybe a clash of how he feels and what he says? I am a pretty dominate Pisces sign person and when I like someone I'm not about to go running through the streets telling everybody because you never know if they feel the same. Have you ever told him how you felt? If you did how did he react? |
StelliumH6 | I have told him I love him and other verbal expressions of love many times. He was/is okay with it. He has not run for the hills. |
hippichick | Ok, Mars, Moon and ASC? Since they confuse love with sex, they can show love through their moon and act like their asc~ |
hippichick | For instance; This Virgo I keep going back and forth with, he has his Sun, Venus and Moon in Virgo. Now IF a man's moon 1st and Venus 2nd are supposed to show what he honors and respects about a woman and lastly the woman he is "attracted" to, I am not a Virgo-type, not at all! However he has Mars conj Neptune in Scorpio in his 5th that nearly exactly conjuncts my Scopio ASC. So I think he confuses emotional love with the Scorpio Mars lust. And made obscure by Neptune and my Neptune qualities. Again, I hesitate to post on Pisces men threads, but I went there, here Yes, Pisces does emote from the heart, we are lost in feeling.... But when you take the gender first, then apply other planetary energies you come up with all kinds of Pisces emotional expression of "love." I still say it is a man thing and not so much a Pisces thing. blessins!!! t~~~ |
Londongirl8 | I know 3 pisces men (my bf, my sister's bf and my friend's bf) and none of them are good at communicating their emotions verbally. When it comes to my bf actions speak louder than words - he cooked me a romantic dinner on our 3rd date but sometimes I still question his feelings for me. I'm an Aquarius and slowly learning to just let it go and enjoy the time we spend together |
StelliumH6 | Londongirl8 - I am an Aquarius Sun as well. I have had to learn so much from this connection with my Pisces friend the last 4 years. It does take lots of time and patience to see and understand him for who he really is in this relationship. He is an enigma and intriques me endlessly! |
Londongirl8 | quote: Originally posted by StelliumH6: Londongirl8 - I am an Aquarius Sun as well. I have had to learn so much from this connection with my Pisces friend the last 4 years. It does take lots of time and patience to see and understand him for who he really is in this relationship. He is an enigma and intriques me endlessly!
Yeah, I've never dated a guy who messed with my sensible Aqua head so much. At the end of the day I have to go with what my gut tells me and my gut tells me to get out now before he reallys screws me up |
StelliumH6 | Oh no, Londongirl. Please do not say you are giving up on him and you! What signs are his planets? |
Londongirl8 | quote: Originally posted by StelliumH6: Oh no, Londongirl. Please do not say you are giving up on him and you! What signs are his planets?
Yes I'm afraid so! My impatience go the better of me and I told him yesterday that I'm breaking up with him. As a result he FINALLY opened up and told me that he was sorry for his behaviour and he never meant to hurt me in any way - he said it's just the way he is. I didn't break up with him just to get a reaction but I'm glad he was willing to show his true feelings at last. Having said that, I know nothing will change so I have to say goodbye to him. Really sorry but I don't know what signs his planets are. His birthday is March 8th 1967. |