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T O P I C R E V I E WPlutonic CapricornDo you like... relationship wise or marriage.if you had to choose lets say between..A. is the mother type. a childbearing woman, who has very deep love and attachment for her children. her scope is limited to her immediate family. she would not be able to do social work . she would not want to give away what she has to other people, cos what she has would go to her children first. and there is never much left over for other people. most type A women have great sex appeal.B. is the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, poetic, has a nice singing voice. she knows how to please her husband with all sorts of pleasantries. she has a kind and tender nature, always loving, giving and forgiving. people like her. and she is the perfect hostess and an excellent social worker.C. is the career type of woman, and could become the partner of her husband in his work.D. is a woman who is born wealthy and rich, she is able to assist her husband in financing his work.Either way, for whatever reason might be... which type of woman would you prefer? or maybe you could add some other aspects.and what sign could fit these various type of woman?I think type A is a cancerian woman, or a water sign.Im not sure what B is.C could be a capricorn woman.Thanks.goatcatB sounds like a Piscean woman.Jessica2407I would have chosen A but you said ''she will not be able to do social work'' so it will have to be B minus the perfect hostess, am not ALWAYS, but I can put on a good show for a limited time period :P I like C too minus the career woman, I like to work alongside my hubby...like may be something part time, but my family would have priority over everything else.Cap rising, Leo sun, Cancer moon.goatcatWhen I marry and have children I would like to be woman A, B, and C.I have a Cancer Mars, Venus Pisces and Capricorn Sun. I want to work along side my husband and bring the kids with me to work.starfairyB sounds like a Taurus, too..sharpeii think im mostly a) but it would be nice to do a little bit of helping out in the community- volunteer work etc once i am married, i am not social though and really dont care about having lots of friends- i just want a husbandlike jessica- i can put on a good show for a limited amount of time but im def not that interested in other people- once i marry and have children id like to work part time and or do volunteer work but im not overly interested in havinga career and i would always make my husband my first priority- i would see my husband as my career.goatcat quote:Originally posted by starfairy:B sounds like a Taurus, too..That's what I was thinking. KeroseneABCDYoursTrulyAlwaysAll of the above. My wife is a Leo. Great nurturing provider, a great lover, much career success and financially prudent and achieving. ChryseisI would say you are a woman Plutonic Capricorn, and I would guess that Kerosene is a guy, and YTA has echoed the sentiment.If you are asking which type of woman a guy would choose based on those characteristics, many men would not rule any of them out....to begin with that is, though some may be in the process of honing their preferences.Your multiple choice would appeal to women. If you are looking for guys to choose a partner you need to either add stuff or totally change the selection criteria. Relationship or marriage potential is almost by the by. The thing your missing is sex appeal and potential to fuel the guy's fantasies, and triggers that make them turned on passionately/emotionally/psychologically.So I suggest the criteria might be one of two multiple choice groups, just as an example:First type of modification:A. the mother type, a child bearing woman etc, etc,.....though doesn't put her children before her husband, and loves to cuddle, give and receive massages and wind down at the end of the day under a cosy blanket with lots of fondling, and some great unexpected oral or fantastic hand work..and their breasts sort of bounce and are obviously full and sort of waiting to be caressed etcB. the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, has a beautiful soft speaking voice, lovely hands, the epitome of feminine style, manner and beauty...and has a hot flip side in the bedroom - really does lacy feminine lingerie justice, and just has to toss their hair a little and you want to rub your hands over their curves and start undressing them.C. the career type of woman, could be also a business partner...likes a little bit of the dominator role but can reverse the role as required, is open to having another partner involved in the sex rendezvous, and though they generally are happy to manage all the annoying business details, they feverishly await any chance to slot in some spontaneous sex, be it on the office desk if enough privacy allows it, or they are open to arranging a room to willingly join you after a business lunch to wind down for the afternoon with some great sex and followed by a confident discussion about business over a glass of wine...and they rock a skirt suit, blouse and heels, and have a good sense of humour and great laugh.or D. a woman who is born wealthy and rich, and is open to lashing out plenty of funds for her man's disposal and for their mutual enjoyment. She is a bit of a hopeless case emotionally, is quite dependent and fragile, can have addictions, is a bit messed up psychologically to do with Mummy or Daddy's love/time for her. Has some awesome breakdowns, crises, and heart wrenching needy moments. Is thin-ish, doesn't realize how pathetically hot she is in her brand name garb just sort of slung together on her in a way that speaks lots of family money and not enough love. Is immature, rebellious, but also within cool culture circles. Loyal to a tee because she is so underlyingly dependent and so crushingly beautiful in her cathartic moments as she is brought through one crisis after another by you in sex that begins with hours of holding and stroking hair, reassuring deep and meaningfuls, then moves on bit by bit as you slowly walk her in to an all encompassing sexual crescendo like a headstrong flighty foal.Or the shorter alternative multiple choice to try to get to the bottom of what a guy will eventually tie the knot with as opposed to short relationships or even long dangling relationships with no real security:Would they choose to marry,A. a family girl that can get a little overweight but is a stable and gratifying sex partner.B. a classy social girl that keeps her feminine form, has good taste, and is ready to raunch it up with some classic feminine whiles.C. a go getter career girl, that is very capable in the bedroom, and can even jazz things up with unexpected additions and titillations.D. a hot naive mess with plenty of money, and so emotionally vulnerable that you can't help but totally dominate everything about her...but in a nice way.These choices will probably narrow the guy's picks down to two....though each option does include willing sex, so it is still pretty hard to choose.aquaguy91 quote:Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:Do you like... relationship wise or marriage.if you had to choose lets say between..A. is the mother type. a childbearing woman, who has very deep love and attachment for her children. her scope is limited to her immediate family. she would not be able to do social work . she would not want to give away what she has to other people, cos what she has would go to her children first. and there is never much left over for other people. most type A women have great sex appeal.B. is the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, poetic, has a nice singing voice. she knows how to please her husband with all sorts of pleasantries. she has a kind and tender nature, always loving, giving and forgiving. people like her. and she is the perfect hostess and an excellent social worker.C. is the career type of woman, and could become the partner of her husband in his work.D. is a woman who is born wealthy and rich, she is able to assist her husband in financing his work.Either way, for whatever reason might be... which type of woman would you prefer? or maybe you could add some other aspects.and what sign could fit these various type of woman?I think type A is a cancerian woman, or a water sign.Im not sure what B is.C could be a capricorn woman.Thanks.i would like a mixture of a and b.. b sounds like a libra woman.ChryseisI stand corrected, aquaguy can go to the one of two choice stage without any additional info.Well I guess he is an aquarian, so he can fill in all the additional likely tendencies on his own. Aquaguy, I am an aquarian ascendant with Sun conjunct Uranus.Got Gemini??I like the A and B types and even C. I dont really care about a woman's financial status as long as her personality is right.I think A's are Cancers, Pisces, Libras, and Virgos. Type Bs are your Libras, Leos, Saggis, Scorpios, and Geminis.Type Cs are your Cappys, Taureans, Aries, and Aquarians.------------------Gemini SunLibra MoonGemini MercuryCancer VenusVirgo MarsVirgo AscAnd yes, I'm a guy!YoursTrulyAlways.peregrine quote:Originally posted by Chryseis:I would say you are a woman Plutonic Capricorn, and I would guess that Kerosene is a guy, and YTA has echoed the sentiment.If you are asking which type of woman a guy would choose based on those characteristics, many men would not rule any of them out....to begin with that is, though some may be in the process of honing their preferences.Your multiple choice would appeal to women. If you are looking for guys to choose a partner you need to either add stuff or totally change the selection criteria. Relationship or marriage potential is almost by the by. The thing your missing is sex appeal and potential to fuel the guy's fantasies, and triggers that make them turned on passionately/emotionally/psychologically.So I suggest the criteria might be one of two multiple choice groups, just as an example:First type of modification:A. the mother type, a child bearing woman etc, etc,.....though doesn't put her children before her husband, and loves to cuddle, give and receive massages and wind down at the end of the day under a cosy blanket with lots of fondling, and some great unexpected oral or fantastic hand work..and their breasts sort of bounce and are obviously full and sort of waiting to be caressed etcB. the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, has a beautiful soft speaking voice, lovely hands, the epitome of feminine style, manner and beauty...and has a hot flip side in the bedroom - really does lacy feminine lingerie justice, and just has to toss their hair a little and you want to rub your hands over their curves and start undressing them.C. the career type of woman, could be also a business partner...likes a little bit of the dominator role but can reverse the role as required, is open to having another partner involved in the sex rendezvous, and though they generally are happy to manage all the annoying business details, they feverishly await any chance to slot in some spontaneous sex, be it on the office desk if enough privacy allows it, or they are open to arranging a room to willingly join you after a business lunch to wind down for the afternoon with some great sex and followed by a confident discussion about business over a glass of wine...and they rock a skirt suit, blouse and heels, and have a good sense of humour and great laugh.or D. a woman who is born wealthy and rich, and is open to lashing out plenty of funds for her man's disposal and for their mutual enjoyment. She is a bit of a hopeless case emotionally, is quite dependent and fragile, can have addictions, is a bit messed up psychologically to do with Mummy or Daddy's love/time for her. Has some awesome breakdowns, crises, and heart wrenching needy moments. Is thin-ish, doesn't realize how pathetically hot she is in her brand name garb just sort of slung together on her in a way that speaks lots of family money and not enough love. Is immature, rebellious, but also within cool culture circles. Loyal to a tee because she is so underlyingly dependent and so crushingly beautiful in her cathartic moments as she is brought through one crisis after another by you in sex that begins with hours of holding and stroking hair, reassuring deep and meaningfuls, then moves on bit by bit as you slowly walk her in to an all encompassing sexual crescendo like a headstrong flighty foal.Or the shorter alternative multiple choice to try to get to the bottom of what a guy will eventually tie the knot with as opposed to short relationships or even long dangling relationships with no real security:Would they choose to marry,A. a family girl that can get a little overweight but is a stable and gratifying sex partner.B. a classy social girl that keeps her feminine form, has good taste, and is ready to raunch it up with some classic feminine whiles.C. a go getter career girl, that is very capable in the bedroom, and can even jazz things up with unexpected additions and titillations.D. a hot naive mess with plenty of money, and so emotionally vulnerable that you can't help but totally dominate everything about her...but in a nice way.These choices will probably narrow the guy's picks down to two....though each option does include willing sex, so it is still pretty hard to choose. true i'm down to B and D. YoursTrulyAlwaysI find it impossible to eliminate one of the four, but I'm able to prioritize. A. Would be most important to me. I wanted a mother for my children. First and foremost, any woman who couldn't handle children or wouldn't look forward to motherhood was eliminated from my dating list. C. Would be my second most important factor. I wanted a successful woman with a history of accomplishment. My wife has a Masters degree. In fact, there isn't a single one of my ex-girlfriends who doesn't have a graduate degree and a highly successful career: judge, surgeon, CFO, banker. My wife was a fashion industry executive. D. I assume we are not talking about trust fund kids. I wanted a highly responsible woman who is able to prudently manage finances and run a household. Yes, one of my ex-girlfriends was indeed a trust fund kid. I'm not going to be a hypocrite. Money is important to me. B. it took some soul searching but I would now say that sexiness and desirability as a lover would have to take a backseat here. Even then, I married an ex-petite catalog model. She is pretty, and quite a lover, and it is unfortunate that people who don't know us well say that I went for her primarily for arm candy. There you go. That's my thinking as a man. Plutonic CapricornEverything stands or fall with a woman.Everything a man does in his life, he does it for a woman. what makes a man most happy? It is a woman. The rest seems only apparent.The fall of a man is often caused by a woman but the nobility of a man is also due to the woman.The man is like a vertical line and the woman a horizontal line. Sometimes we gotta be able to take a minus and turn it into a plus.Man leads, woman inspires. There is no leadership without inspiration nor can one inspire without being led.Haplesschild*B sounds like a Taurus, or a heavily Venusian earth sign.C sounds like a Cap or someone with strong Aries. A sounds like Cancer or Virgo.Haplesschild*Total slu ts haha. And Virgos have aura of innocence but we really aren't. Jessica2407I think Capricorn women are career oriented at a young ager,when they have to ensure their financial security. Once they've achieved financial independence, they want to have a stable loving husband so that they can be perfect wives sharpeigosh i am so far from a career woman it is untrue- i just have NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER in that side of life- im capricorn btwi would say im more A - i am very feminine and man pleasing but the reason i would not say b is because it seems to include being some kind of society hostess which is of no interest to me whatsoever- i HATE those shallow awful women who go round airkissing and love everyone- my love is precious! i will not waste it on silly airheaded women or pretending to care about where they got their nails done.one thing that will never ever happen to me is weight gain or ''letting myself go'' i work out alot and love working out and love cooking healthy wholesome food- screw that sitting in from of sex and the city eating haagen dazs with your girlfriends.and i doubt career women are good in bed- they never have time to work out and are too tense to do anything other then whine.im grateful not to be a career woman- i will leave that to a man- my accomplishments are more like cooking, yoga, being feminine and graceful not having a PHD in English literature and a 6 figure salary or being the hostess with the mostest who everyone loves- there is nothing hot about that. im old school european and old school european women do not hav a ton of female friends to gossip with and air kiss.btw b) is libra straight upJessica2407 quote:Originally posted by sharpei:gosh i am so far from a career woman it is untrue- i just have NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER in that side of life- im capricorn btwi would say im more A - i am very feminine and man pleasing but the reason i would not say b is because it seems to include being some kind of society hostess which is of no interest to me whatsoever- i HATE those shallow awful women who go round airkissing and love everyone- my love is precious! i will not waste it on silly airheaded women or pretending to care about where they got their nails done.one thing that will never ever happen to me is weight gain or ''letting myself go'' i work out alot and love working out and love cooking healthy wholesome food- screw that sitting in from of sex and the city eating haagen dazs with your girlfriends.and i doubt career women are good in bed- they never have time to work out and are too tense to do anything other then whine.im grateful not to be a career woman- i will leave that to a man- my accomplishments are more like cooking, yoga, being feminine and graceful not having a PHD in English literature and a 6 figure salary or being the hostess with the mostest who everyone loves- there is nothing hot about that. im old school european and old school european women do not hav a ton of female friends to gossip with and air kiss.btw b) is libra straight upWell you sure break the rule that Capricorn women are career oriented! Your post is so genuine and made me smile You sure are from an old school,nothing wrong with that. Just be who you want to be.However, there is no hard and fast rule that makes career women bad in bed. LOLBeing feminine, doesn't mean you can't have a Phd, and being of a social type doesn't mean you have to be shallow and fake In life, you have to wear different 'masks'- (I called them 'masks' because that's what they are, not really hiding the true you but 'masking' the true you) at different occasions. Being social is one of them. I hate air kissing types too BTW, but have learned to blend. Am a Leo, so it comes naturally but i can't do it for long.A woman earning a 6 figure salary is a great achievement in my books, but as a WOMAN in her own right, she needs to be more than a career woman.She needs to be a good mother, a good wife. It's all about how one prioritize their wants and needs so as to be happy and in peace with yourself.One woman may sacrifice a 6 figure salary for the sake of her family who require more of her attention and caring. BUT a woman should NOT be dependent financially on a guy either. I wouldn't want to ask money from a guy to buy stuff for myself.The life of a woman should not revolve around her man, she needs to have a world of her own.sharpeiyes you are right jessica i can be a bit of a hothead and right now im pretty stressed about a number of things- it does noone any good to judge others unless they are doing something truly wrong.i think that is one lesson i need to learn- like you mention to just blend (which i can do) and to somehow give off nicer vibes- some people do get genuine pleasure from air kissing and i should be more generous spirited towards them.btw i could have sworn you were capricorn jessica not leo?Jessica2407 quote:Originally posted by sharpei:yes you are right jessica i can be a bit of a hothead and right now im pretty stressed about a number of things- it does noone any good to judge others unless they are doing something truly wrong.i think that is one lesson i need to learn- like you mention to just blend (which i can do) and to somehow give off nicer vibes- some people do get genuine pleasure from air kissing and i should be more generous spirited towards them.btw i could have sworn you were capricorn jessica not leo?Cap rising sweetie. leo sun. cancer moon
if you had to choose lets say between..
A. is the mother type. a childbearing woman, who has very deep love and attachment for her children. her scope is limited to her immediate family. she would not be able to do social work . she would not want to give away what she has to other people, cos what she has would go to her children first. and there is never much left over for other people. most type A women have great sex appeal.
B. is the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, poetic, has a nice singing voice. she knows how to please her husband with all sorts of pleasantries. she has a kind and tender nature, always loving, giving and forgiving. people like her. and she is the perfect hostess and an excellent social worker.
C. is the career type of woman, and could become the partner of her husband in his work.
D. is a woman who is born wealthy and rich, she is able to assist her husband in financing his work.
Either way, for whatever reason might be... which type of woman would you prefer? or maybe you could add some other aspects.
and what sign could fit these various type of woman?
I think type A is a cancerian woman, or a water sign.
Im not sure what B is.
C could be a capricorn woman.
Thanks.
Cap rising, Leo sun, Cancer moon.
I have a Cancer Mars, Venus Pisces and Capricorn Sun.
I want to work along side my husband and bring the kids with me to work.
like jessica- i can put on a good show for a limited amount of time but im def not that interested in other people- once i marry and have children id like to work part time and or do volunteer work but im not overly interested in havinga career and i would always make my husband my first priority- i would see my husband as my career.
quote:Originally posted by starfairy:B sounds like a Taurus, too..
That's what I was thinking.
If you are asking which type of woman a guy would choose based on those characteristics, many men would not rule any of them out....to begin with that is, though some may be in the process of honing their preferences.
Your multiple choice would appeal to women. If you are looking for guys to choose a partner you need to either add stuff or totally change the selection criteria.
Relationship or marriage potential is almost by the by. The thing your missing is sex appeal and potential to fuel the guy's fantasies, and triggers that make them turned on passionately/emotionally/psychologically.
So I suggest the criteria might be one of two multiple choice groups, just as an example:
First type of modification:
A. the mother type, a child bearing woman etc, etc,.....though doesn't put her children before her husband, and loves to cuddle, give and receive massages and wind down at the end of the day under a cosy blanket with lots of fondling, and some great unexpected oral or fantastic hand work..and their breasts sort of bounce and are obviously full and sort of waiting to be caressed etc
B. the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, has a beautiful soft speaking voice, lovely hands, the epitome of feminine style, manner and beauty...and has a hot flip side in the bedroom - really does lacy feminine lingerie justice, and just has to toss their hair a little and you want to rub your hands over their curves and start undressing them.
C. the career type of woman, could be also a business partner...likes a little bit of the dominator role but can reverse the role as required, is open to having another partner involved in the sex rendezvous, and though they generally are happy to manage all the annoying business details, they feverishly await any chance to slot in some spontaneous sex, be it on the office desk if enough privacy allows it, or they are open to arranging a room to willingly join you after a business lunch to wind down for the afternoon with some great sex and followed by a confident discussion about business over a glass of wine...and they rock a skirt suit, blouse and heels, and have a good sense of humour and great laugh.
or D. a woman who is born wealthy and rich, and is open to lashing out plenty of funds for her man's disposal and for their mutual enjoyment. She is a bit of a hopeless case emotionally, is quite dependent and fragile, can have addictions, is a bit messed up psychologically to do with Mummy or Daddy's love/time for her. Has some awesome breakdowns, crises, and heart wrenching needy moments. Is thin-ish, doesn't realize how pathetically hot she is in her brand name garb just sort of slung together on her in a way that speaks lots of family money and not enough love. Is immature, rebellious, but also within cool culture circles. Loyal to a tee because she is so underlyingly dependent and so crushingly beautiful in her cathartic moments as she is brought through one crisis after another by you in sex that begins with hours of holding and stroking hair, reassuring deep and meaningfuls, then moves on bit by bit as you slowly walk her in to an all encompassing sexual crescendo like a headstrong flighty foal.
Or the shorter alternative multiple choice to try to get to the bottom of what a guy will eventually tie the knot with as opposed to short relationships or even long dangling relationships with no real security:
Would they choose to marry,
A. a family girl that can get a little overweight but is a stable and gratifying sex partner.
B. a classy social girl that keeps her feminine form, has good taste, and is ready to raunch it up with some classic feminine whiles.
C. a go getter career girl, that is very capable in the bedroom, and can even jazz things up with unexpected additions and titillations.
D. a hot naive mess with plenty of money, and so emotionally vulnerable that you can't help but totally dominate everything about her...but in a nice way.
These choices will probably narrow the guy's picks down to two....though each option does include willing sex, so it is still pretty hard to choose.
quote:Originally posted by Plutonic Capricorn:Do you like... relationship wise or marriage.if you had to choose lets say between..A. is the mother type. a childbearing woman, who has very deep love and attachment for her children. her scope is limited to her immediate family. she would not be able to do social work . she would not want to give away what she has to other people, cos what she has would go to her children first. and there is never much left over for other people. most type A women have great sex appeal.B. is the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, poetic, has a nice singing voice. she knows how to please her husband with all sorts of pleasantries. she has a kind and tender nature, always loving, giving and forgiving. people like her. and she is the perfect hostess and an excellent social worker.C. is the career type of woman, and could become the partner of her husband in his work.D. is a woman who is born wealthy and rich, she is able to assist her husband in financing his work.Either way, for whatever reason might be... which type of woman would you prefer? or maybe you could add some other aspects.and what sign could fit these various type of woman?I think type A is a cancerian woman, or a water sign.Im not sure what B is.C could be a capricorn woman.Thanks.
i would like a mixture of a and b.. b sounds like a libra woman.
Well I guess he is an aquarian, so he can fill in all the additional likely tendencies on his own.
Aquaguy, I am an aquarian ascendant with Sun conjunct Uranus.
I think A's are Cancers, Pisces, Libras, and Virgos. Type Bs are your Libras, Leos, Saggis, Scorpios, and Geminis.
Type Cs are your Cappys, Taureans, Aries, and Aquarians.
------------------Gemini SunLibra MoonGemini MercuryCancer VenusVirgo MarsVirgo Asc
And yes, I'm a guy!
quote:Originally posted by Chryseis:I would say you are a woman Plutonic Capricorn, and I would guess that Kerosene is a guy, and YTA has echoed the sentiment.If you are asking which type of woman a guy would choose based on those characteristics, many men would not rule any of them out....to begin with that is, though some may be in the process of honing their preferences.Your multiple choice would appeal to women. If you are looking for guys to choose a partner you need to either add stuff or totally change the selection criteria. Relationship or marriage potential is almost by the by. The thing your missing is sex appeal and potential to fuel the guy's fantasies, and triggers that make them turned on passionately/emotionally/psychologically.So I suggest the criteria might be one of two multiple choice groups, just as an example:First type of modification:A. the mother type, a child bearing woman etc, etc,.....though doesn't put her children before her husband, and loves to cuddle, give and receive massages and wind down at the end of the day under a cosy blanket with lots of fondling, and some great unexpected oral or fantastic hand work..and their breasts sort of bounce and are obviously full and sort of waiting to be caressed etcB. the social type, pleasant to be with - very romantic, has a beautiful soft speaking voice, lovely hands, the epitome of feminine style, manner and beauty...and has a hot flip side in the bedroom - really does lacy feminine lingerie justice, and just has to toss their hair a little and you want to rub your hands over their curves and start undressing them.C. the career type of woman, could be also a business partner...likes a little bit of the dominator role but can reverse the role as required, is open to having another partner involved in the sex rendezvous, and though they generally are happy to manage all the annoying business details, they feverishly await any chance to slot in some spontaneous sex, be it on the office desk if enough privacy allows it, or they are open to arranging a room to willingly join you after a business lunch to wind down for the afternoon with some great sex and followed by a confident discussion about business over a glass of wine...and they rock a skirt suit, blouse and heels, and have a good sense of humour and great laugh.or D. a woman who is born wealthy and rich, and is open to lashing out plenty of funds for her man's disposal and for their mutual enjoyment. She is a bit of a hopeless case emotionally, is quite dependent and fragile, can have addictions, is a bit messed up psychologically to do with Mummy or Daddy's love/time for her. Has some awesome breakdowns, crises, and heart wrenching needy moments. Is thin-ish, doesn't realize how pathetically hot she is in her brand name garb just sort of slung together on her in a way that speaks lots of family money and not enough love. Is immature, rebellious, but also within cool culture circles. Loyal to a tee because she is so underlyingly dependent and so crushingly beautiful in her cathartic moments as she is brought through one crisis after another by you in sex that begins with hours of holding and stroking hair, reassuring deep and meaningfuls, then moves on bit by bit as you slowly walk her in to an all encompassing sexual crescendo like a headstrong flighty foal.Or the shorter alternative multiple choice to try to get to the bottom of what a guy will eventually tie the knot with as opposed to short relationships or even long dangling relationships with no real security:Would they choose to marry,A. a family girl that can get a little overweight but is a stable and gratifying sex partner.B. a classy social girl that keeps her feminine form, has good taste, and is ready to raunch it up with some classic feminine whiles.C. a go getter career girl, that is very capable in the bedroom, and can even jazz things up with unexpected additions and titillations.D. a hot naive mess with plenty of money, and so emotionally vulnerable that you can't help but totally dominate everything about her...but in a nice way.These choices will probably narrow the guy's picks down to two....though each option does include willing sex, so it is still pretty hard to choose.
true i'm down to B and D.
A. Would be most important to me. I wanted a mother for my children. First and foremost, any woman who couldn't handle children or wouldn't look forward to motherhood was eliminated from my dating list.
C. Would be my second most important factor. I wanted a successful woman with a history of accomplishment. My wife has a Masters degree. In fact, there isn't a single one of my ex-girlfriends who doesn't have a graduate degree and a highly successful career: judge, surgeon, CFO, banker. My wife was a fashion industry executive.
D. I assume we are not talking about trust fund kids. I wanted a highly responsible woman who is able to prudently manage finances and run a household. Yes, one of my ex-girlfriends was indeed a trust fund kid. I'm not going to be a hypocrite. Money is important to me.
B. it took some soul searching but I would now say that sexiness and desirability as a lover would have to take a backseat here. Even then, I married an ex-petite catalog model. She is pretty, and quite a lover, and it is unfortunate that people who don't know us well say that I went for her primarily for arm candy.
There you go. That's my thinking as a man.
Everything a man does in his life, he does it for a woman. what makes a man most happy? It is a woman. The rest seems only apparent.
The fall of a man is often caused by a woman but the nobility of a man is also due to the woman.
The man is like a vertical line and the woman a horizontal line. Sometimes we gotta be able to take a minus and turn it into a plus.
Man leads, woman inspires. There is no leadership without inspiration nor can one inspire without being led.
C sounds like a Cap or someone with strong Aries.
A sounds like Cancer or Virgo.
i would say im more A - i am very feminine and man pleasing but the reason i would not say b is because it seems to include being some kind of society hostess which is of no interest to me whatsoever- i HATE those shallow awful women who go round airkissing and love everyone- my love is precious! i will not waste it on silly airheaded women or pretending to care about where they got their nails done.
one thing that will never ever happen to me is weight gain or ''letting myself go'' i work out alot and love working out and love cooking healthy wholesome food- screw that sitting in from of sex and the city eating haagen dazs with your girlfriends.
and i doubt career women are good in bed- they never have time to work out and are too tense to do anything other then whine.
im grateful not to be a career woman- i will leave that to a man- my accomplishments are more like cooking, yoga, being feminine and graceful not having a PHD in English literature and a 6 figure salary or being the hostess with the mostest who everyone loves- there is nothing hot about that. im old school european and old school european women do not hav a ton of female friends to gossip with and air kiss.
btw b) is libra straight up
quote:Originally posted by sharpei:gosh i am so far from a career woman it is untrue- i just have NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER in that side of life- im capricorn btwi would say im more A - i am very feminine and man pleasing but the reason i would not say b is because it seems to include being some kind of society hostess which is of no interest to me whatsoever- i HATE those shallow awful women who go round airkissing and love everyone- my love is precious! i will not waste it on silly airheaded women or pretending to care about where they got their nails done.one thing that will never ever happen to me is weight gain or ''letting myself go'' i work out alot and love working out and love cooking healthy wholesome food- screw that sitting in from of sex and the city eating haagen dazs with your girlfriends.and i doubt career women are good in bed- they never have time to work out and are too tense to do anything other then whine.im grateful not to be a career woman- i will leave that to a man- my accomplishments are more like cooking, yoga, being feminine and graceful not having a PHD in English literature and a 6 figure salary or being the hostess with the mostest who everyone loves- there is nothing hot about that. im old school european and old school european women do not hav a ton of female friends to gossip with and air kiss.btw b) is libra straight up
Well you sure break the rule that Capricorn women are career oriented! Your post is so genuine and made me smile You sure are from an old school,nothing wrong with that. Just be who you want to be.
However, there is no hard and fast rule that makes career women bad in bed. LOL
Being feminine, doesn't mean you can't have a Phd, and being of a social type doesn't mean you have to be shallow and fake
In life, you have to wear different 'masks'- (I called them 'masks' because that's what they are, not really hiding the true you but 'masking' the true you) at different occasions. Being social is one of them. I hate air kissing types too BTW, but have learned to blend. Am a Leo, so it comes naturally but i can't do it for long.
A woman earning a 6 figure salary is a great achievement in my books, but as a WOMAN in her own right, she needs to be more than a career woman.She needs to be a good mother, a good wife. It's all about how one prioritize their wants and needs so as to be happy and in peace with yourself.One woman may sacrifice a 6 figure salary for the sake of her family who require more of her attention and caring.
BUT a woman should NOT be dependent financially on a guy either. I wouldn't want to ask money from a guy to buy stuff for myself.The life of a woman should not revolve around her man, she needs to have a world of her own.
i think that is one lesson i need to learn- like you mention to just blend (which i can do) and to somehow give off nicer vibes- some people do get genuine pleasure from air kissing and i should be more generous spirited towards them.
btw i could have sworn you were capricorn jessica not leo?
quote:Originally posted by sharpei:yes you are right jessica i can be a bit of a hothead and right now im pretty stressed about a number of things- it does noone any good to judge others unless they are doing something truly wrong.i think that is one lesson i need to learn- like you mention to just blend (which i can do) and to somehow give off nicer vibes- some people do get genuine pleasure from air kissing and i should be more generous spirited towards them.btw i could have sworn you were capricorn jessica not leo?
Cap rising sweetie. leo sun. cancer moon
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