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beckylee | Can you describe your Virgo boyfriends and tell me about how your relationship started and how or why it ended ? I have a boyfriend with Sun, Venus, and Mars in Virgo and moon in Gemini. I have sun in scorpio and mars in virgo. We started dating a week ago, I knew he fancied me before. But now he is so generous with compliments and he says I love you, be my wife, etc etc I like it even if he doesn't mean all of them but I feel like he is exaggerating. Is he doing this to be a 'good' boyfriend ?? |
beckylee | I got the flu on our second date, and he was so nice, he looked after me for 2 days, cooked and cleaned and made tea for me. I could just go to my mum's but he said he was happy to help. How do I even thank him ? Are Virgos so helpful ? |
Venusian Moon | Yes the virgo men i have seen are like that. My brother in law is a great example.
My boyfriend is gemini sun with virgo rising amd virgo moon and is also the same way!
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starmoon | quote: Originally posted by beckylee: Can you describe your Virgo boyfriends and tell me about how your relationship started and how or why it ended ?I have a boyfriend with Sun, Venus, and Mars in Virgo and moon in Gemini. I have sun in scorpio and mars in virgo. We started dating a week ago, I knew he fancied me before. But now he is so generous with compliments and he says I love you, be my wife, etc etc I like it even if he doesn't mean all of them but I feel like he is exaggerating. Is he doing this to be a 'good' boyfriend ??
i think it's probably more his moon that is repsonsible for the gushing than his virgo placements. venus/sun in virgo are quite reserved and especially venus virgos - they are not very forthcoming with compliments and expressions of affection. his easy affection/words are probably more gemini, which are prone to exaggeration/stories/talking on and on |
Haplesschild* | ^ Yeah Gemini placements makes a guy sweet talk and mean nothing by it. Virgos are not very emotionally expressive, and they usually mean the things they say. The fact he's throwing out 'I love yous' after a week suggests he's immature and probably very young? |
T | It is not unlike a Virgo to want to take care of people and make them "feel better", especially through words (Mercury). With his moon placed in a Mercurial sign as well, it makes sense. He will want to express his emotions (Moon) and self (Sun) and love (Venus) through words more than most. I think it's probably just natural for him, rather than him "trying to be a good boyfriend." |
Venusian Moon | quote: Originally posted by starmoon: i think it's probably more his moon that is repsonsible for the gushing than his virgo placements. venus/sun in virgo are quite reserved and especially venus virgos - they are not very forthcoming with compliments and expressions of affection. his easy affection/words are probably more gemini, which are prone to exaggeration/stories/talking on and on
Im a gemini and i dont blurt out i love yous fast or say stories. Id say you are exagerrating based on the bad apples you have dated.
------------------ Gemini sun 12th Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th |
LovelyKitty | quote: Originally posted by beckylee:
But now he is so generous with compliments and he says I love you, be my wife, etc etc I like it even if he doesn't mean all of them but I feel like he is exaggerating.
that's because his moon said so! Definitly not from his virgo planet. |
its_aqua | I'm dating a Virgoish Virgo guy right now! He has Sun,Mercury,Mars,Venus in Virgo and a Pisces Moon. He is very caring and affectionate,and takes very good care of me, and compliments me frequently but doesnt say extreme things like the ones you mentioned,maybe it's his Moon sign or he's too young |
Baizzatbari | I think others are right about the planets. But I think its more of a Virgo-Scorpio thing. I know this being a virgo and my favourite actresses have scorpio suns or asc. Ive felt crazy about two scorpio women in my life. Although it was far shorter than 2 other women who were prominent in my life. Scorpio women tend to bring out the best in a virgo man. I could not even express my feelings to the scorpio women because I have so much self control. But deep in my mind I would rehearse to say the most breathtaking things to the scorpions. Youre lucky this guy can express himself and be with you. Virgos may be this and that but theyre always sincere. Although being a virgo and seeing a lot of virgos in my life I have seen things are pretty grim with criticism and all. But even the most wretched virgo has purity in love like the virgin, fixity like earth signs and most certainly hidden passion. I read somewhere that virgos and scorpios reveal their true nature to each other with others they are reserved. So atleast give the guy a chance and I can guarantee a stable and loving virgo. |
Twirl | I have had 2 Virgo boyfriends & it's a no go for me. I don't have their charts (was years ago). What both had in common was that I found them rather manipulative and controlling. One was actually obsessed with tidiness (objects had to be lined up with the precise centimetres space in between in his living room or he would get really unsettled). On the other side they were both very 'correct' and a bit old fashioned in how to treat a lady. I'm sure some gals really like that. Later edit: they were both extremely jealous. Can't believe I forgot that... I'm not sure how representative this is for Virgo boyfriends though. I'm sure there were aspects in my charts and theirs that made it a non-match. Wish you luck with your Virgo |
hippichick | My Virgo (very, very Virgo, Mercury, Venus and moon in Virgo) started off this way...then the critisisms, manipulation and control issues set in. They are not ones to jump into relationships, it takes a while and when they become comfortable in the relationship that is when they show their true side. All of their critisisms and control issues are projections of their own (mis interpretated inadequicies), but it is sure painful to be on the recieving end. best of luck to you! |
hippichick | quote: Originally posted by Baizzatbari: I think others are right about the planets. But I think its more of a Virgo-Scorpio thing. I know this being a virgo and my favourite actresses have scorpio suns or asc. Ive felt crazy about two scorpio women in my life. Although it was far shorter than 2 other women who were prominent in my life. Scorpio women tend to bring out the best in a virgo man. I could not even express my feelings to the scorpio women because I have so much self control. But deep in my mind I would rehearse to say the most breathtaking things to the scorpions. Youre lucky this guy can express himself and be with you. Virgos may be this and that but theyre always sincere. Although being a virgo and seeing a lot of virgos in my life I have seen things are pretty grim with criticism and all. But even the most wretched virgo has purity in love like the virgin, fixity like earth signs and most certainly hidden passion. I read somewhere that virgos and scorpios reveal their true nature to each other with others they are reserved. So atleast give the guy a chance and I can guarantee a stable and loving virgo.
Textbook says Pisces can be the very best for Virgo, being opposite, teaching them to enter our dreams.... I am a Pisces sun, my Virgo (something or another not sure where we are now) has Mars conj Neptune in Scorpio, sitting right on my Scorpio asc. True enough he went 20 years without a lady in his life, till he met the likes of me. It has been heaven and hell... But I am too old to have time for that~ |
deepsea | quote: Originally posted by beckylee: Can you describe your Virgo boyfriends and tell me about how your relationship started and how or why it ended ?I have a boyfriend with Sun, Venus, and Mars in Virgo and moon in Gemini. I have sun in scorpio and mars in virgo. We started dating a week ago, I knew he fancied me before. But now he is so generous with compliments and he says I love you, be my wife, etc etc I like it even if he doesn't mean all of them but I feel like he is exaggerating. Is he doing this to be a 'good' boyfriend ??
My ex was a virgo and yes he said I love you after 2 weeks and he went disappear for a week and broke me up. 2 weeks later he’s in a relationship with anotehr girl. I found out that he’s been getting close with this girl while he’s with me, while he’s doing the withdrawing thing for 3 weeks before we broke up. I wonder if all Virgo man does this. Doing the withdrawing and chasing other girls while keeping me as a back up plan. The guy I am dating is a Virgo as well. He has Sun in Virgo, Moon in Libra. Mercury in virgo, Venus in Leo, and ASC in Sag. He made it exclusive after 3 months. We’ve been tgether for 6 months and up until now he never said I Love You. Although I did say that to him a week ago. I just wanna let him know what I feel.
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deepsea | quote: Originally posted by beckylee: I got the flu on our second date, and he was so nice, he looked after me for 2 days, cooked and cleaned and made tea for me. I could just go to my mum's but he said he was happy to help.How do I even thank him ? Are Virgos so helpful ?
My virgo is very helpful, very kind, very affectionate, takes good care of me, always wants to make me happy, sweeps me off totally and make me feel like a princess, from his actions not from his words though. |
Libreo | I have one with a Cancer Mercury. (He's not Virgo but has 3 planets in Virgo, including Mars, so I see him as a Virgo) he's sexy, I get stuff done for me, he treats my kids as his own, and I get told I'm loved all the time. Heaven. |
ruledbyplutoandmars | Virgos will treat you so well. It's like, not even funny. ------------------ Rising: Virgo Sun: Scorpio Moon: Virgo |
mcmlxix | Yes, Virgos like to be of service. Doing little things is a way of showing affection. I'm curious if he has any conjunctions Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars. If so his "Virgoness" could be attenuated. A Sun-Venus conjunction could make him Libran/Taurean. a Sun-Mars conjuction could make him Airian. |