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T O P I C R E V I E WRunAroundScreamingCRUSHES only, not guys I went out with, except for the last one, which I did actually date.1) first there was A. and he was lifechanging, but cold and flirty. (air) 2) then there was J, and he was super sweet, but rough. (capricorn)3) then there was E, and he was incredibly alluring, but arrogant, and annoying (aries)4) then there was C. and he was lifechanging and inspired me to believe in myself in so many ways. but too rough, calm, and detached (aries)5) then there were G, M, and J. and they stirred my soul in seriously deep ways (DW venus-pluto)—-but too cold and flirty (air)6) then there was G, and he was so sweet and cuddly (three planets in pisces), and again encouraged and inspired me, but still too arrogant and domineering (aries)7) and there were T, M, and E, too. But they were too plain and boring. (virgo)8) then there was N. and he was deliciousness in every single way, and putty in my hands, and just the right amount of sweetness. (pisces)I need pisces.(I'm a cancer)------------------True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoidsomethingexcellentMy Cancer friend said the Sun sign is like the blank canvas and everything else is like little buttons you decorate it with.RunAroundScreaming quote:Originally posted by somethingexcellent:My Cancer friend said the Sun sign is like the blank canvas and everything else is like little buttons you decorate it with. I agree.------------------True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoidcharlieSuns have never mattered much to me but the moons have. aquaguy91I like the way Linda put it. she basically said sun signs are somewhat like nationality and if you know where someone is coming from you know considerably more about them than people who don't have that knowledge. however she said you can't stereotype groups of people, for example you can't assume all aries or all italians are the same.RunAroundScreaming^I disagree. You certainly can say things about all aries. Not about their personality traits, so much as their essential essence. Why do you think we're able to guess people's signs by their appearance?StarlightSmileSupremeFor one thing, you can say all sun/rising Aries are ruled by Mars, might be ruled by Pluto and have their symbol as the Ram aquaguy91 quote:Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:^I disagree. You certainly can say things about all aries. Not about their personality traits, so much as their essential essence. Why do you think we're able to guess people's signs by their appearance?Well you just proved my point even though you disagreed with me lol. For example, when people from other places meet me they hear my voice and know that I am from somewhere in the south (tennessee specifically) and see the manner in which I dress and probably make alot of assumptions about me, some of which are probably true. However they probably make assumptions about me that aren't true as well. Its the same with sun signs, Knowing someones sun sign doesn't mean you know everything about a person or even alot about the person, it just means you have an idea of what the person will be like. StarlightSmileSupremeWhat's really annoying is when people make assumptions about the sign Virgo. That's the worst one imo because there's a lot of negativity associated with it. They think all Virgos want to nag, never have any fun, are emotionless, void, robotic, information oriented types who analyse to death. That's what makes being a twelfth house Virgo a unique gift. I can analyze and be empathetic/emotional at the same time, so I can tell others what that's all about and have insight into my own drives/emotions/subconscious. I constantly try to find what is unknown. So, a lot of it has to do with house placement, too. When you take Virgo/Pisces together you can find out a lot about stuff that's hidden. Virgo can analyse what Pisces has access to so it becomes clearer. Virgo on twelve is like having the two signs as one, plus I have the sn/nn Virgo/Pisces to help as well. RunAroundScreaming quote:Originally posted by aquaguy91: Well you just proved my point even though you disagreed with me lol. For example, when people from other places meet me they hear my voice and know that I am from somewhere in the south (tennessee specifically) and see the manner in which I dress and probably make alot of assumptions about me, some of which are probably true. However they probably make assumptions about me that aren't true as well. Its the same with sun signs, Knowing someones sun sign doesn't mean you know everything about a person or even alot about the person, it just means you have an idea of what the person will be like. oh certainly agree with all that But what I meant by my original post was that this "essential essence" the sun sign gives away about a person...like you said their tone of voice or their mannerisms (which u compared to someone noticing about ur nationality..the south) is something that will determine how comfortable you will feel in your connection with them. These mannerisms and etc are what i described after each "but...." in my original post. These are all qualities that i got about their mannerisms, rather than things that i actually got to know about them after getting to know them better. Virgos just gave of a plain and boring air, and aries gave off and arrogant somewhat detached domineering air. And air was cold and flirty. These aren't even things i saw after knowing them for a while, they were things that were apparent right away. I am not saying aries are actually arrogant, or domineering. I never observed any of my aries crushes bossing someone around, or actually saying something arrogant. I'm not stating facts about their actual personality, i'm just describing the vibes that they gave off every single time I saw them, which was why i could never be totally comfortable around those signs, and why they weren't right for me as a sun in cancer.StarlightSmileSupremeI notice sun Cancers tend to crave security, especially emotional.somethingexcellent^That's like the basic Cancer trait: seek security and preservation. A little known Cancer trait though is that they're often a little chaotic. StarlightSmileSupreme quote:Originally posted by somethingexcellent:^That's like the basic Cancer trait: seek security and preservation. A little known Cancer trait though is that they're often a little chaotic. And they can also be very tough and good at self defense. When I think of sun Cancers, I think of people you never want to get in a row with, that's for sure. People might underestimate them but they are really good at defending so don't pick on them.AquacheekaFor me, with friends, it's sun and moon that matter.With love interests, it's sun+moon combo, ascendant, Venus, Mars and Jupiter (yes, Jupiter isn't a personal planet but honestly a person's values matter a lot in the long run), and also Saturn to personal planets (excluding Mercury) to see if the romantic connection will last.Sun is always very important but the way the sun interacts with the moon is way more important than just looking at the sun alone. For instance, someone with Sag sun and Pices moon is going to have WAY different priorities than someone with Sag sun conjunct moon. And for some reason most of my best friends have air sun+Virgo moon, and all of the men who are attracted to me right away and make their interest known have either a Sag moon or a Pisces moon.LiesLilithsaidtouranusIs it weird that I can't connect with people that have compatible moons to my own, or to my sun? But rather with my venus?
1) first there was A. and he was lifechanging, but cold and flirty. (air)
2) then there was J, and he was super sweet, but rough. (capricorn)
3) then there was E, and he was incredibly alluring, but arrogant, and annoying (aries)
4) then there was C. and he was lifechanging and inspired me to believe in myself in so many ways. but too rough, calm, and detached (aries)
5) then there were G, M, and J. and they stirred my soul in seriously deep ways (DW venus-pluto)—-but too cold and flirty (air)
6) then there was G, and he was so sweet and cuddly (three planets in pisces), and again encouraged and inspired me, but still too arrogant and domineering (aries)
7) and there were T, M, and E, too. But they were too plain and boring. (virgo)
8) then there was N. and he was deliciousness in every single way, and putty in my hands, and just the right amount of sweetness. (pisces)
I need pisces.
(I'm a cancer)
------------------True to my aqua north node, I'll always pick the choice nobody expected me to pick. ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid
quote:Originally posted by somethingexcellent:My Cancer friend said the Sun sign is like the blank canvas and everything else is like little buttons you decorate it with.
I agree.
quote:Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:^I disagree. You certainly can say things about all aries. Not about their personality traits, so much as their essential essence. Why do you think we're able to guess people's signs by their appearance?
Well you just proved my point even though you disagreed with me lol. For example, when people from other places meet me they hear my voice and know that I am from somewhere in the south (tennessee specifically) and see the manner in which I dress and probably make alot of assumptions about me, some of which are probably true. However they probably make assumptions about me that aren't true as well. Its the same with sun signs, Knowing someones sun sign doesn't mean you know everything about a person or even alot about the person, it just means you have an idea of what the person will be like.
When you take Virgo/Pisces together you can find out a lot about stuff that's hidden. Virgo can analyse what Pisces has access to so it becomes clearer. Virgo on twelve is like having the two signs as one, plus I have the sn/nn Virgo/Pisces to help as well.
quote:Originally posted by aquaguy91: Well you just proved my point even though you disagreed with me lol. For example, when people from other places meet me they hear my voice and know that I am from somewhere in the south (tennessee specifically) and see the manner in which I dress and probably make alot of assumptions about me, some of which are probably true. However they probably make assumptions about me that aren't true as well. Its the same with sun signs, Knowing someones sun sign doesn't mean you know everything about a person or even alot about the person, it just means you have an idea of what the person will be like.
oh certainly agree with all that
But what I meant by my original post was that this "essential essence" the sun sign gives away about a person...like you said their tone of voice or their mannerisms (which u compared to someone noticing about ur nationality..the south) is something that will determine how comfortable you will feel in your connection with them. These mannerisms and etc are what i described after each "but...." in my original post. These are all qualities that i got about their mannerisms, rather than things that i actually got to know about them after getting to know them better. Virgos just gave of a plain and boring air, and aries gave off and arrogant somewhat detached domineering air. And air was cold and flirty. These aren't even things i saw after knowing them for a while, they were things that were apparent right away. I am not saying aries are actually arrogant, or domineering. I never observed any of my aries crushes bossing someone around, or actually saying something arrogant. I'm not stating facts about their actual personality, i'm just describing the vibes that they gave off every single time I saw them, which was why i could never be totally comfortable around those signs, and why they weren't right for me as a sun in cancer.
quote:Originally posted by somethingexcellent:^That's like the basic Cancer trait: seek security and preservation. A little known Cancer trait though is that they're often a little chaotic.
And they can also be very tough and good at self defense. When I think of sun Cancers, I think of people you never want to get in a row with, that's for sure. People might underestimate them but they are really good at defending so don't pick on them.
With love interests, it's sun+moon combo, ascendant, Venus, Mars and Jupiter (yes, Jupiter isn't a personal planet but honestly a person's values matter a lot in the long run), and also Saturn to personal planets (excluding Mercury) to see if the romantic connection will last.
Sun is always very important but the way the sun interacts with the moon is way more important than just looking at the sun alone. For instance, someone with Sag sun and Pices moon is going to have WAY different priorities than someone with Sag sun conjunct moon. And for some reason most of my best friends have air sun+Virgo moon, and all of the men who are attracted to me right away and make their interest known have either a Sag moon or a Pisces moon.
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