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Primarose220 | Has anyone had this transit and how did it fare out? |
chargeomentum | i have this aspect |
Primarose220 | How has this affected you? |
chargeomentum | You should feel like playing with people's feelings. For example: ignoring someone for the sake of getting attention. That's atleast what I can tell from my own experiences. |
chargeomentum | For me it's a normal thing, don't know about others. |
ash20 | quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: You should feel like playing with people's feelings. For example: ignoring someone for the sake of getting attention. That's atleast what I can tell from my own experiences.
A guy i know with this aspect has been doing exactly that to me. Does this mean you dont care about the person? Would he start back contacting me if i stopped trying to talk to him?
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ash20 | I know a guy with this placement and he does the ignoring thing with me. Does that mean he doesn't like me? Will he contact me if i stop trying to talk to him? I feel like he tries to upset me.Sorry if this is a repost, my first response wasn't showing. |
next to neptune | I hate this aspect >_< |
ash20 | quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: I hate this aspect >_<
Lol. I'm starting to. Do you have it natally?
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Primarose220 | Pluto square Venus: Beginning of February 2014 until end of December 2016 This transit will start for me starting February 2014 to December 2016. Will I be doing this to a person I like, or love? Relationship conflicts Pluto square Venus: Beginning of February 2014 until end of December 2016 [..] Try to explore, carefully and deeply, just what is really motivating you. Your values in love are changing, and your perceptions of relationship are likely to be challenged by dimensions of life which you may have previously ignored or not wished to face. |
Lily | You can meet men who try to dominate and control you. Abusive relationships are possible if you're not careful. If already in a relationship, someone either can cheat or get cheated on when this transit hits. At the very least, control and jealousy will enter relationships. This one definitely shows up when in charts when someone is cheating. I see it a lot. A lot of other things can happen too but this question was about relationships. |
Primarose220 | THank you lily, So I should be careful who I choose as, I don't have anyone right now. |
next to neptune | quote: Originally posted by ash20: Lol. I'm starting to. Do you have it natally?
No, thank god!
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ash20 | quote: Originally posted by Primarose220: Pluto square Venus: Beginning of February 2014 until end of December 2016This transit will start for me starting February 2014 to December 2016. Will I be doing this to a person I like, or love? Relationship conflicts Pluto square Venus: Beginning of February 2014 until end of December 2016 [..] Try to explore, carefully and deeply, just what is really motivating you. Your values in love are changing, and your perceptions of relationship are likely to be challenged by dimensions of life which you may have previously ignored or not wished to face.
I am going through this transit right now and i think mine officially ends later next year. I actually ended up dating someone with this natally and he has been putting me through hell. Lol my venus is in my 6th and we met at work! It also doesn't help that we have the venus/pluto square in synastry also
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Primarose220 | I'm a pisces and it has been saying I could met someone at work. I am 28. My venus is in my 2nd house. How has he been putting you through hell. I felt I had this transit in 2005, were I really liked a friend and it was very emotional. He told a male friend of mines that I didn't like him when I did, really love him. I was in tears. I believe I was picking up on his feelings as well, it was very intense. He is a scorpio. I was emotionally confused by him, because I felt like he shut down on me. I wanted to tell him how I felt, and wanted him to open up to me too. |
ash20 | Constant silent treatments, which i can't stand. When things are going good they're great!... but one little slight (and i mean really little) can set him off and then everything feels like a disaster. He can be prince charming or the devil. He has a scorpio moon and venus sq. pluto natally so i guess both play a part. It seems like with this transit (plus some bad natal aspects lol) i can't have a decent relationship to save my life... no matter how much i try to compromise. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by chargeomentum: You should feel like playing with people's feelings. For example: ignoring someone for the sake of getting attention. That's atleast what I can tell from my own experiences.
This is true... I have venus square pluto natally and I have to fight the urge to do this when a girl ticks me off in some way. |
ash20 | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by chargeomentum: [b]You should feel like playing with people's feelings. For example: ignoring someone for the sake of getting attention. That's atleast what I can tell from my own experiences.
This is true... I have venus square pluto natally and I have to fight the urge to do this when a girl ticks me off in some way.[/B][/QUOTE]@aquaguy So the guy i like does the exact same thing. He has venus sq. pluto natally and a scorpio moon. Any advice how to get him to stop the silent treatment??? Last time i talked to him (and he actually responded lol) he was snappish, so im feeling like he doesn't care about me anymore, and im just being nuisance trying to get him to speak to me.
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aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by ash20: @aquaguy So the guy i like does the exact same thing. He has venus sq. pluto natally and a scorpio moon. Any advice how to get him to stop the silent treatment??? Last time i talked to him (and he actually responded lol) he was snappish, so im feeling like he doesn't care about me anymore, and im just being nuisance trying to get him to speak to me.
quit making him mad I guess. I can't speak for him but most girls I have done that to gave me good reason to do it. |