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T O P I C R E V I E WOdetteSame questions as per the Taurus Venus thread...I'm curious about the differences between these two placements! quote:Lets pretend you have met a guy who you find absolutely attractive and amazing on so many different levels. You have never spoken to him yet. How do you seduce him?What is YOUR style?Go step by step... and describe the way you would normally behave. OdettePS. I would really like to hear from Aries Venus women *themselves*, not so much people who have been in relationships with them or studied them. YellowGerberaAries Venus... that would be me!Deep deep deep.. Scanning...Identifying target.. LOCKED on target.. ATTACK!!!! I go VERY direct. I will start up a conversation. I want to get their attention first! I will wait till the perfect moment to strike though. I joke in conversation, joke lots! Witty jokes, dirty jokes, anything to make him LAUGH, and laugh together! I ask a lot of questions too.. I wanna know about him right away to see if we have common interest. If I find one, BOOM!! Perfect opportunity to ask for their Facebook, their number.. I don't care!! I must obtain his contact so I can bug him later on My venus conjuncts mars also... I'm not sure how much of what I said is influenced by my mars... lolol IV XXIVI have Aries in Venus in my 12th house, which I feel "waters" it down a little.. But I also have it trine my Cancer mars and my Scorpio Pluto, creating a grand trine between Venus, Mars and Pluto, which I feel gives me some passion that the 12th house may have taken away. How I chase all depends on the other person and my comfort with the other person/how much confidence I have regarding having an actual chance with you.. But what I've noticed is this:Some people make me shy and I'm incredibly quiet, some people make me very comfortable and confident, allowing me to be the life of the party. I enjoy making anyone laugh but if I'm interested in you, that's my main goal. I'll joke around a lot, showing different sides of me that aren't so attractive under the safety blanket of a "joke".. but just to see how you react. I'm sure (hopefully!) that'll change as I grow older and mature more. I can get a little obsessive and I will want to know as much about you as I possibly can. I'll ask you questions, some will probably be too personal but I know no boundaries once my heart is set on you. The chase is on and I won't rest until you're mine or until I'm no longer attracted to you; whichever comes first. I'm also very hot and cold but I think that's due to my Mars in Cancer lol.. VioletsOkay, I think that was up long enough. hannaramaaEdit. ☺Violets MoonBunny^ we are very similar! I have Venus in Aries in the 12th as well. I personally like the way it waters it down. I believe it waters it down in a psychic type of way. Usually once I am interested in someone I just know what I need to say to get their attention. And of course I usually always initiate. The few boys that have initiated me have all had Aries placements themselves lol, I guess they beat me to it. I am not always successful but in short If I like you, I will just go straight up to you and start talking. If I get the feeling its not gonna happen I get bored, and move on to the next target. Sometimes the failed relationships end up in friendships, which is totally okay too :0). Oddly enough usually I am not the first to initiate kissing or hugging. BUT if it doesn't happen in a timely manner, I get impatient and just start the kissing or hugging myself. teasel quote:Originally posted by Violets:Okay, I think that was up long enough. you're as bad as I am. On another board, I kept deleting whole posts, just recently.Violets quote:Originally posted by teasel: you're as bad as I am. On another board, I kept deleting whole posts, just recently.Hahahaha. teasel.AstraI have Venus in Aries at 29 degrees, so I wonder if this degree waters down my venus a little since it is so close to Taurus.I'm very direct with people and independent. I refuse to act helpless in order to get a cute guy to help me. Winning over a guy using my charm and personality is important to me instead of pretending to be someone I'm not.That being said, I prefer to be chased. I will not ask out a guy. LaceyLeighBump for more replies. Piscean TigressI don't like to chase; but when a like a man and he comes to me, I'm very open in my speaking and smile all the time. If I found that the way of thinking of the guy doesn´t match with mine, I run away! no matter how handsome and hot he could be... I choose brains and sense of humor over appearance. polkadotstarsI'm an Aries Venus conjunct Mars. I don't go after guys first. I have this weird fear that every guy I find attractive is already in a relationship so they'd reject me if I made a move first, and it'd be really awkward, and I'd feel uncomfortable. (Weird, I know)So, with that being said, I wait for guys to come to me. But once I'm talking to a guy I'm interested in, I usually make a lot of eye contact, smile, make up a little inside joke/competitive thing with us. I usually talk about sports in some way and how I'm athletic. My attention is all on them. It's like a locked target. If we start dating, I hate games. All these stupid dating rules are in effect. Like you can't respond to someone's text within a few hours, you have to act like you're too busy to see them sometimes, etc. Seriously lame. I'm a what you see, what you get dater. I'm not obsessively wanting to see someone, but if I'm free and they're free, let's cut the games, and hang out. Lol *roll eyes*-The difference between Aries Venus and Taurus Venus-When my boyfriend and I started dating, it started out as friends. And I was the first one to kiss him. We had gone on "friend dates" too many times and I was getting annoyed already, lol! Meanwhile, he is a Taurus Venus. He said he had it all planned out. He was planning on taking me on our next date to look at the stars out in the country, he was going to bring champagne and little snacks for us. And he was going to kiss me for the first time under the stars. But I beat him to it, lol! I think that definitely sums up the difference between Venus Aries and Taurus!Anyways, is that Aries Venus enough for you? LolPrimarose220Do Venus in Aries and Venus in Taurus try to compete with others on who is going to kiss each other first?Is Venus in aries in the 2nd house compatiblity good with someone who has Venus in TaurusPrimarose220 quote:Originally posted by polkadotstars:I'm an Aries Venus conjunct Mars. I don't go after guys first. I have this weird fear that every guy I find attractive is already in a relationship so they'd reject me if I made a move first, and it'd be really awkward, and I'd feel uncomfortable. (Weird, I know)So, with that being said, I wait for guys to come to me. But once I'm talking to a guy I'm interested in, I usually make a lot of eye contact, smile, make up a little inside joke/competitive thing with us. I usually talk about sports in some way and how I'm athletic. My attention is all on them. It's like a locked target. If we start dating, I hate games. All these stupid dating rules are in effect. Like you can't respond to someone's text within a few hours, you have to act like you're too busy to see them sometimes, etc. Seriously lame. I'm a what you see, what you get dater. I'm not obsessively wanting to see someone, but if I'm free and they're free, let's cut the games, and hang out. Lol *roll eyes*-The difference between Aries Venus and Taurus Venus-When my boyfriend and I started dating, it started out as friends. And I was the first one to kiss him. We had gone on "friend dates" too many times and I was getting annoyed already, lol! Meanwhile, he is a Taurus Venus. He said he had it all planned out. He was planning on taking me on our next date to look at the stars out in the country, he was going to bring champagne and little snacks for us. And he was going to kiss me for the first time under the stars. But I beat him to it, lol! I think that definitely sums up the difference between Venus Aries and Taurus!Anyways, is that Aries Venus enough for you? LolI totally agree, as I have taken on these traits very early as a child as well and even now. I have become a little hesitant due to rejection. Primarose220 quote:Originally posted by YellowGerbera:Aries Venus... that would be me!Deep deep deep.. Scanning...Identifying target.. LOCKED on target.. ATTACK!!!! I go VERY direct. I will start up a conversation. I want to get their attention first! I will wait till the perfect moment to strike though. I joke in conversation, joke lots! Witty jokes, dirty jokes, anything to make him LAUGH, and laugh together! I ask a lot of questions too.. I wanna know about him right away to see if we have common interest. If I find one, BOOM!! Perfect opportunity to ask for their Facebook, their number.. I don't care!! I must obtain his contact so I can bug him later on My venus conjuncts mars also... I'm not sure how much of what I said is influenced by my mars... lolol Can we sometimes be too forward, as I did give someone my number, but they did not call at all. But I picked up on my crush alot.LionFishI go after what I want.My attractions are usually very sudden and I put my all into them as long as they are interested. I love to write love notes to show that im thinking about them. I make them the center of my attention, flirting shamelessly. Touching them during conversation, like a hand on his arm, to initiate physical contact and show him that I'm open to him touching me. I like to make jokes and use little competitions to flirt as well. Lot's of eye contact and inviting body language. I'm very forward when I know what I want. But even after all that, I won't initiate the first kiss. He has to want me and show it or I lose interest. Char25Like the other person asked...does venus in Aries in the 2nd house contribute some Taurus energy to a venus Aries person...does anyone have an opinion on that? polkadotstars quote:Originally posted by Char25:Like the other person asked...does venus in Aries in the 2nd house contribute some Taurus energy to a venus Aries person...does anyone have an opinion on that? I believe it does. Just like I pick up Scorpio energy because my sun, moon, and mercury are in my 8th house. Your planet will pick up on energy in the house that it is in. FruityLlamaIm fairly direct like others have said. I do concentrate quite hard on my "target" when im interested. I can also be a little cunning..almost methodical in my "lure" hehe But im not really aggressive in my approach. my venus is in the 10th house and im very shy to be honest.
quote:Lets pretend you have met a guy who you find absolutely attractive and amazing on so many different levels. You have never spoken to him yet. How do you seduce him?What is YOUR style?Go step by step... and describe the way you would normally behave.
Go step by step... and describe the way you would normally behave.
Deep deep deep.. Scanning...Identifying target.. LOCKED on target.. ATTACK!!!!
I go VERY direct. I will start up a conversation. I want to get their attention first! I will wait till the perfect moment to strike though.
I joke in conversation, joke lots! Witty jokes, dirty jokes, anything to make him LAUGH, and laugh together! I ask a lot of questions too.. I wanna know about him right away to see if we have common interest. If I find one, BOOM!! Perfect opportunity to ask for their Facebook, their number.. I don't care!! I must obtain his contact so I can bug him later on
My venus conjuncts mars also... I'm not sure how much of what I said is influenced by my mars... lolol
How I chase all depends on the other person and my comfort with the other person/how much confidence I have regarding having an actual chance with you.. But what I've noticed is this:
Some people make me shy and I'm incredibly quiet, some people make me very comfortable and confident, allowing me to be the life of the party.
I enjoy making anyone laugh but if I'm interested in you, that's my main goal. I'll joke around a lot, showing different sides of me that aren't so attractive under the safety blanket of a "joke".. but just to see how you react. I'm sure (hopefully!) that'll change as I grow older and mature more.
I can get a little obsessive and I will want to know as much about you as I possibly can. I'll ask you questions, some will probably be too personal but I know no boundaries once my heart is set on you. The chase is on and I won't rest until you're mine or until I'm no longer attracted to you; whichever comes first.
I'm also very hot and cold but I think that's due to my Mars in Cancer lol..
quote:Originally posted by Violets:Okay, I think that was up long enough.
you're as bad as I am. On another board, I kept deleting whole posts, just recently.
quote:Originally posted by teasel: you're as bad as I am. On another board, I kept deleting whole posts, just recently.
Hahahaha.
I'm very direct with people and independent. I refuse to act helpless in order to get a cute guy to help me. Winning over a guy using my charm and personality is important to me instead of pretending to be someone I'm not.
That being said, I prefer to be chased. I will not ask out a guy.
If I found that the way of thinking of the guy doesn´t match with mine, I run away! no matter how handsome and hot he could be... I choose brains and sense of humor over appearance.
So, with that being said, I wait for guys to come to me. But once I'm talking to a guy I'm interested in, I usually make a lot of eye contact, smile, make up a little inside joke/competitive thing with us. I usually talk about sports in some way and how I'm athletic. My attention is all on them. It's like a locked target.
If we start dating, I hate games. All these stupid dating rules are in effect. Like you can't respond to someone's text within a few hours, you have to act like you're too busy to see them sometimes, etc. Seriously lame. I'm a what you see, what you get dater. I'm not obsessively wanting to see someone, but if I'm free and they're free, let's cut the games, and hang out. Lol *roll eyes*
-The difference between Aries Venus and Taurus Venus-When my boyfriend and I started dating, it started out as friends. And I was the first one to kiss him. We had gone on "friend dates" too many times and I was getting annoyed already, lol! Meanwhile, he is a Taurus Venus. He said he had it all planned out. He was planning on taking me on our next date to look at the stars out in the country, he was going to bring champagne and little snacks for us. And he was going to kiss me for the first time under the stars. But I beat him to it, lol! I think that definitely sums up the difference between Venus Aries and Taurus!
Anyways, is that Aries Venus enough for you? Lol
Is Venus in aries in the 2nd house compatiblity good with someone who has Venus in Taurus
quote:Originally posted by polkadotstars:I'm an Aries Venus conjunct Mars. I don't go after guys first. I have this weird fear that every guy I find attractive is already in a relationship so they'd reject me if I made a move first, and it'd be really awkward, and I'd feel uncomfortable. (Weird, I know)So, with that being said, I wait for guys to come to me. But once I'm talking to a guy I'm interested in, I usually make a lot of eye contact, smile, make up a little inside joke/competitive thing with us. I usually talk about sports in some way and how I'm athletic. My attention is all on them. It's like a locked target. If we start dating, I hate games. All these stupid dating rules are in effect. Like you can't respond to someone's text within a few hours, you have to act like you're too busy to see them sometimes, etc. Seriously lame. I'm a what you see, what you get dater. I'm not obsessively wanting to see someone, but if I'm free and they're free, let's cut the games, and hang out. Lol *roll eyes*-The difference between Aries Venus and Taurus Venus-When my boyfriend and I started dating, it started out as friends. And I was the first one to kiss him. We had gone on "friend dates" too many times and I was getting annoyed already, lol! Meanwhile, he is a Taurus Venus. He said he had it all planned out. He was planning on taking me on our next date to look at the stars out in the country, he was going to bring champagne and little snacks for us. And he was going to kiss me for the first time under the stars. But I beat him to it, lol! I think that definitely sums up the difference between Venus Aries and Taurus!Anyways, is that Aries Venus enough for you? Lol
I totally agree, as I have taken on these traits very early as a child as well and even now. I have become a little hesitant due to rejection.
quote:Originally posted by YellowGerbera:Aries Venus... that would be me!Deep deep deep.. Scanning...Identifying target.. LOCKED on target.. ATTACK!!!! I go VERY direct. I will start up a conversation. I want to get their attention first! I will wait till the perfect moment to strike though. I joke in conversation, joke lots! Witty jokes, dirty jokes, anything to make him LAUGH, and laugh together! I ask a lot of questions too.. I wanna know about him right away to see if we have common interest. If I find one, BOOM!! Perfect opportunity to ask for their Facebook, their number.. I don't care!! I must obtain his contact so I can bug him later on My venus conjuncts mars also... I'm not sure how much of what I said is influenced by my mars... lolol
Can we sometimes be too forward, as I did give someone my number, but they did not call at all. But I picked up on my crush alot.
My attractions are usually very sudden and I put my all into them as long as they are interested.
I love to write love notes to show that im thinking about them. I make them the center of my attention, flirting shamelessly. Touching them during conversation, like a hand on his arm, to initiate physical contact and show him that I'm open to him touching me. I like to make jokes and use little competitions to flirt as well.
Lot's of eye contact and inviting body language. I'm very forward when I know what I want.
But even after all that, I won't initiate the first kiss. He has to want me and show it or I lose interest.
quote:Originally posted by Char25:Like the other person asked...does venus in Aries in the 2nd house contribute some Taurus energy to a venus Aries person...does anyone have an opinion on that?
I believe it does. Just like I pick up Scorpio energy because my sun, moon, and mercury are in my 8th house. Your planet will pick up on energy in the house that it is in.
But im not really aggressive in my approach. my venus is in the 10th house and im very shy to be honest.
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