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lisalisa | What signs hate being alone or doing things alone? Always want to do things with someone and feel lonely quickly |
charlie | Based on personal experience alone: Taurus |
lisalisa | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Based on personal experience alone: Taurus
do taurus also want to do things together all the time? Clingy?
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charlie | quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: [QUOTE]Originally posted by charlie: [b]Based on personal experience alone: Taurus
do taurus also want to do things together all the time? Clingy?[/B][/QUOTE]The ones I know aren't necessarily clingy per se but they all like to be around other people all the time.
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Dreaminess | Based on my personal experience cancerian influenced people i have noticed are the ones that dont like to do things alone nor being alone for too long, they can get very clingy. i have noticed Libra influenced people to, esp libra moons, dont like to do things alone. But they are much more not a fan of "doing things alone" rather than being alone so they are less clingy than a cancer is. |
Ann7 | quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Based on my personal experience cancerian influenced people i have noticed are the ones that dont like to do things alone nor being alone for too long, they can get very clingy. i have noticed Libra influenced people to, esp libra moons, dont like to do things alone. But they are much more not a fan of "doing things alone" rather than being alone so they are less clingy then a cancer.
I agree with this, my oldest (25) is a Libra sun / Cancer moon - she, admittedly, does not like to be alone and always has someone over at her place to hang out with her... Don't get me wrong, she is not unstable or dependent on company but if she has the choice of having friends or family around as opposed to being by herself she will choose the first.
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hearttreasure | quote: Originally posted by Dreaminess: Based on my personal experience cancerian influenced people i have noticed are the ones that dont like to do things alone nor being alone for too long, they can get very clingy. i have noticed Libra influenced people to, esp libra moons, dont like to do things alone. But they are much more not a fan of "doing things alone" rather than being alone so they are less clingy than a cancer is.
Yup. I agree with this too. Cancer and Libra on top of that. But I have found that Gemini is secretly can not stand alone for a long time too but hides it well. My bf admits that he is scared being lonely and doesn't like knowing/feeling that he is alone. Well, maybe because he has cancer influenced in his chart. lol. |
Orange | Im a Libra Venus with a stellium in my 7th, and i HATE being alone |
margym0o | quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: But I have found that Gemini is secretly can not stand alone for a long time too but hides it well. My bf admits that he is scared being lonely and doesn't like knowing/feeling that he is alone. Well, maybe because he has cancer influenced in his chart. lol.
I am a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon and I can attest to this! Mind you I'm sure there are other natal factors involved but I HATE being alone! Even as an adult, I have no desire to live on my own or have that "independence." They don't always have to be beside me, but as long as I know there is someone else in the house, I'm satisfied. I wouldn't necessarily call myself "clingy" in relationships either but togetherness is important to me and I genuinely enjoy having company when I do things. The only thing I prefer to do alone is shop for myself (clothes, etc.) as I find it overwhelming to have someone dragging behind me as I make up my mind! Ironically my SO with a Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon and a huge 7th house stellium actually likes his alone time and "space." I think just knowing that he "has someone" is enough for him. He is completely content to run errands and do most other mundane things by himself. I think it's a conflict for him, actually, because he seems to really enjoy having company at times (super cuddley, very affectionate) but will then turn on a dime and resist. Must be all the conflicting ideals in the 7th house.
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AscTaurus | Mostly air ascendants. Sun/Moon/Asc in aspect to Mercury. Sun/Moon/Mercury/Mars in 7th/3rd or 11th. Stellium/triple conjunction in 3rd/7th/11th house. T-square with the apex planet in 3rd/7th/11th. North Node in 3rd/11th/7th. Part of fortune 3rd/11th/7th Mercury/Venus strong people Unaspected planet in 3rd/7th/11th. Singleton planet in 3rd/7th/11th house. I would exclude Saturn/Neptune and Pluto from all this as they tend to be loners. A Saturn in 3rd house unaspected for instance, may be prone to social anxiety and ills in expressing themselves or being around people etc.
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Sagical | quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: Most air Sun signs/Moon or ascendants.Sun/Moon/Asc in aspect to Mercury. Sun/Moon/Mercury/Mars in 7th/3rd or 11th. North Node in Libra,Aquarius or Gemini. Mercury aspected people. Mostly those with Jupiter there. Venus in aspect to Jupiter people. Venus in aspect to Jupiter people.
I have the majority of what was put down and I don't fit it! On another note, first place goes to Libra. Hands down. Strong Libran influences in the chart. Doesn't have to be Sun in Libra. (I was watching an interview of the Bee Gee's Barry Gibb. He is a Virgo, however he had said he had a strong desire to have somebody in his life. He couldn't bear being alone).
My father in law, is a Pisces Sun, but hates being alone. His wife had to go into senior care due to the progression of Alzheimers. After that he spent a lot of time over at his daughter's place visiting cause he couldn't be alone. Now he has found a lady friend to hang with. Second place, Cancer, then Pisces. SOME Cancer placements display great neediness and clinginess. On the opposite end of the spectrum - I would put SOME Aries, Sagittarius and Aquarius influences as the signs who are independent and can spend a lot of time alone. I do have a close friend who is a Libra with North Node in Aries and he is happy being single without a partner. I guess it would depend on the astrological signatures and the strengths of the planets and signs in the chart...... |
I'm so cappy | Hm. I have a Libra Moon and I believe I could go without seeing another human being for weeks rather easily. I wish I had the opportunity to try it. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. |
Aquacheeka | I would look to the moon sign for this. Moon in the 7th house, Pisces moon and Cancer moon. Possibly Libra moon too but depends on the house position. |
Peluches | quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Hm. I have a Libra Moon and I believe I could go without seeing another human being for weeks rather easily. I wish I had the opportunity to try it.
Yeah, me too. Libra Sun. |
hearttreasure | quote: Originally posted by margym0o: I am a Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon and I can attest to this! Mind you I'm sure there are other natal factors involved but I HATE being alone! Even as an adult, I have no desire to live on my own or have that "independence." They don't always have to be beside me, but as long as I know there is someone else in the house, I'm satisfied. I wouldn't necessarily call myself "clingy" in relationships either but togetherness is important to me and I genuinely enjoy having company when I do things.The only thing I prefer to do alone is shop for myself (clothes, etc.) as I find it overwhelming to have someone dragging behind me as I make up my mind! ...
LOL. But my bf has moon in Sag. Weird. |
Gemini Blues | Gem 8th sun and merc Leo moon Scorp Asc... |
PixieJane | Not Libra. Healthy Libra REQUIRES balance. Balance means an equal time alone as with someone else. That is to say there are times Libra hates being alone but also times that a Libra hates being around other people (and if forced to at this time you'll see a side of Libra that is the opposite of charming). I understand that in our society that promotes "either/or" thinking that it's difficult to understand this, but if you don't and try to give a Libra the constant company you think s/he craves then you're setting yourself up to be burned by Libra when it finally becomes too much for Libra to handle any longer (and then blaming Libra for it when you wouldn't give Libra some space). As always others aspects also influence how much company and alone time a Libra needs as well as how a Libra reacts when the scales get too far out of balance one way or the other. |
Valentine | Generally, I think that the Air and Fire signs are more extroverted and Water and Earth introverted. As a Scorpio, I enjoy time alone. |
Odette | Pisces and Cancer Moons can't be alone for a day. They panic. Libra Sun/Moon/AC would usually prefer to be in a relationship - but they are not all *that* obsessed with the idea. |
Gabby | Sorry to be the oddball, but I'm a libra Venus, AC, Pluto and I'll do everything alone before I'll be with someone who I don't want to spend the rest of my life with. |
Sagical | quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: I would look to the moon sign for this. Moon in the 7th house, Pisces moon and Cancer moon. Possibly Libra moon too but depends on the house position.
I strongly agree! I dated this guy, a long time ago. He was an Aquarius with a 7th house moon in Cancer. He also had Jupiter conj desc as well. |