T O P I C R E V I E W |
Readytochill | What aspects and/or house/sign placements would cause someone to want their significant other to be with them when they're too far away but when they come to visit and want to see you, you push them away? I experience this in my relationships and it's hard to deal with D: |
athenegoddess | Uranus. |
charlie | Definitely Uranus!! I am like this! I almost exlusively have friends far, FAR away, because when they are too close I feel claustrophobic. When I think about it, I don't actually ever need to see them. Email, calls, sms, is OK by me. My husband has the same amount of Uranus aspects as I do and we take turns saying hi and bye so it kinda works out just swell |
Readytochill | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Definitely Uranus!! I am like this! I almost exlusively have friends far, FAR away, because when they are too close I feel claustrophobic. When I think about it, I don't actually ever need to see them. Email, calls, sms, is OK by me. My husband has the same amount of Uranus aspects as I do and we take turns saying hi and bye so it kinda works out just swell
Yes! I have a lot of friends far away too! It sucks when I want to hang out with someone and have a select few I would want to go with in my town but just saw them recently so I don't want go with them lol I don't have much Uranus aspects in my chart though. My boyfriend is very Uranian and he wants to see me more than I want to see him when he's in town lol
|
DopGang | quote: Originally posted by charlie: Definitely Uranus!! I am like this! I almost exlusively have friends far, FAR away, because when they are too close I feel claustrophobic. When I think about it, I don't actually ever need to see them. Email, calls, sms, is OK by me. My husband has the same amount of Uranus aspects as I do and we take turns saying hi and bye so it kinda works out just swell
I'm the same way.
|
hmm | URANUS SQUARE VENUS or opposite... that's the definition of that aspect |
Randall | Uranus/Aquarius. |
Isa | Thank you for this thread. When Uranus is touching venus in my transit chart, i feel it deeply. I want to be alone in my house. Transit venus is in conjunction with transit Uranus in the first right now and i wanted to be far away from my BF this week lolIn my next SR Uranus will be in my 7th house and venus in the 1st. They wont oppose each other but i'm so scared.
|
hypatia238 | Saturn or pluto in the 11th or ruling your 11th house or conjunct the AC perhaps or heavy gemini or mercury influence. Geminis love their space...or Venus retro or the ruler of your 11th house retro... Do you have any of these placements? If not post your chart so we can take educated guesses as to what in your chart can indicate this. Also check your relocation chart and post it too if you are not living in your birth country or town. |
Aries23Degrees | quote: Originally posted by Readytochill: What aspects and/or house/sign placements would cause someone to want their significant other to be with them when they're too far away but when they come to visit and want to see you, you push them away?I experience this in my relationships and it's hard to deal with D:
Something very airy about that. More specifically Aquarius i.e. Sun/Moon or Venus/Mars in Aquarius. Aquarius IME always seems to like people when they are far away. But the closer they get,the less likely that their affections remain consistent. |
Readytochill | Thank you for everyone's replies! The only thing that rings a bell is Aquarius on my DSC. But I don't think that it would make me more Uranian than my boyfriend who has sun conjunct Uranus and moon opposite Uranus. I figured he would be more Uranian than me. He understands and appreciates being away from each other but I think I take being away to a different level than he's used to. |