Hi Primerose...The youtubers give 'general' information based on Sun-Sign astrology.
Like Kannon kind of said, you'd need a personal reading to get more detailed information honed to your own chart.
You could 'probably' try doing your Venus House (and degree) as your Ascendant, and read it like a Horary chart? (I think that's what it would be called. .... You might have success trying to post your 'Venus Horary'? over in the LL "Horary & Events" forum. Explain what you're looking for.
You could also read Venus through a 'Rulerships' type chart... (including Aspects -- and what kind of pattern those planets make too). Can get quite involved.
There are many ways to approach a delineation.
Found some links... Hope you'll find useful information here.
- http://healinguniverse.com/understanding-the-venus-return/
- http://cafeastrology.com/astrologytopics/venusreturn.html
I was about to post this... and found an LL thread from LONGGGGG ago!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/015824.html
For me.. I'm getting ready for my Venus Taurus return in mid-June.
When Venus enters Taurus, I go downtown on a special Venus-walk... to take in the Beauty wherever I find it. I've visited museums, buildings with gorgeous architecture. Visited a community theatre building and reminisced about those days I once had (when I was once physically very attractive and played some great roles).
My Venus in 5th house... ruled by Sun, Leo. One year I touched (and read the vibrations) off a very very special-made unique only two left in the world special historical piano located in a 5-star lobby of hotel across from a specialized Arts Center.
Last year there was a mass-shooting that occurred downtown on my Venus return day... I think I cried for the pain of that for months afterwards. Pain 'hung' in the atmosphere for a long time here. It was quite a shocking and very dark day.
Might be strange... but Venus 'feels' important to me. I don't understand why she should be singled out more than the others... even my sun and its ruler?
I registered here May 15, 2012 as the astronomy and astrology community awaited a special occultation of Venus and the Sun.
Astrologically, Venus was Retrograde in Gemini. On May 20 there was a NM Eclipse at 0.21 Gem (annular), and there was a Full Moon (partial) eclipse at 14.14 Sagittarius on June 4th. (Coincidence? that was the eclipse happening on June 5, in that degree, the day I was baptized after I was born.)
The video shows pictures of Venus crossing the face of the Sun, June 6, 2012.
(music) King of Pain (Police) [4:52] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUUKROUaanI
May Venus' Return to her chart position today bring you Beauty, and so much Love.
(music) Song I Hope You Dance (Lee Ann Womack, lyrics) [4:48] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMtuygBrDWA
_____________________
ADD
Found this video ... Very informative
(topic) Venus Return. Predict Your Love Life for the Year (Lada Duncheva) [7:12] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2X0eTApXEeU