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T O P I C R E V I E WDavina98I have found that people with a strong Sagittarius vibe are often quick to blame others for everything bad that happend around them. Being such an extroverted confident sign, and not backing down to anger, when they’re frustrated about something that no one has control over, they need someone to be responsible. They need to let this anger out on something or someone so they can be happy sag again. That’s the thing, they can’t hold on to anger. Even if it means they have to send it to someone else lol. They can say really mean things when angry... Can someone say this is true? Solar_Leo_QueenYeah they can be mean when really angry. I have a friend with Sag sun/mercury/mars and Libra moon/venus. He is a joy to be around when he’s not angry. But the minute things start getting tense, he turns into the most negative person you’ll ever meet. I think he has Leo rising too since he has no trouble putting someone in their place in public. The one time he threw a party, he got too drunk, and then created drama centered on this one girl he didn’t like. He called her out in front of everyone, even though it wasn’t necessary. There was truth to what he was saying, but that doesn’t mean he should’ve done that.I’m terrified of seeing that side of him ever again.Aries23DegreesI used to be like that when I was on autopilot-years ago. But since then, I have matured greatly.I used to fight with my Leo Sun Cap Moon friend a lot in high school because he used to call me an a***.But I got on hugely well with an Aries mate who used to goad me on. Sometimes Aries and Sag are not great influences on each other In retrospect I see the Leo's point. I was blaming others for my anger or discontent and hated feeling sad.To this day, my anger is still an issue. But I work out to direct the tension to a productive outlet.I think Sags lack of tact can be naive sometimes. But vindictive in others. Sometimes I dislike the self righteous attitudes of many.SulkyarcherSun in Sagittarius here. Yup! That's one shadow aspect of us Sadges, when we get angry we become holier than thou, and self-righteous, and act like we're perfect, when we're not! But for me, it's worst because I have Mars in Aries, that adds more fire to the fire.I have Saturn, though. So I've gotten bad karma for being too blunt sometimes.Lalafortunaea quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:Sun in Sagittarius here. Yup! That's one shadow aspect of us Sadges, when we get angry we become holier than thou, and self-righteous, and act like we're perfect, when we're not! But for me, it's worst because I have Mars in Aries, that adds more fire to the fire.I have Saturn, though. So I've gotten bad karma for being too blunt sometimes.At least youre honest! lol Sulkyarcher quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea: At least your honest! lol Hopefully, if I'm honest, I can at least not be intense and sharp about it. And diplomatic, instead of 'in your face' and shrill.Supreme cTIm a scorpio sun in 9th house but a sag mercury and venus and have no problem calling you out whenever i get ****** off about something my first instinct is to say how i feel and tbh i can say mean things even to my good friends but some how i always seem to get away with it hahah i swear sags can get away with saying the most wildest **** anyone who knows me well knows im the one who will say something reckless its honestly not on purpose iv been like that since i was a baby my parents use to cringe at all the stupid things i would say but one thing about me is i usually dont say things with bad intentions i just say it like it is and when you come across in that manner without polishing your words it does come across mean but i do say mean things if im truly angry thats when all the truth comes outI notice i tend to offend cancers ALOT LOL thats the one sign i see sags burn often with words no offense but cancer gets butt hurt to easily everything gets taken to the heart and they dont get over it i dated cancer suns and moons and i always hurt there feelings and i didnt mean too im dating a sag with mercury and venus in capricorn and i love it shes the first girl who i dont offend often i can just tell her things straight up and she doesnt get butt hurt about it we even talk **** to each other and forget about it after thats perfect to me because most of the time after i say something im over it pretty soon and its hard when the other person is still pining over something i blurted out about Lalafortunaea quote:Originally posted by Supreme cT:Im a scorpio sun in 9th house but a sag mercury and venus and have no problem calling you out whenever i get ****** off about something my first instinct is to say how i feel and tbh i can say mean things even to my good friends but some how i always seem to get away with it hahah i swear sags can get away with saying the most wildest **** anyone who knows me well knows im the one who will say something reckless its honestly not on purpose iv been like that since i was a baby my parents use to cringe at all the stupid things i would say but one thing about me is i usually dont say things with bad intentions i just say it like it is and when you come across in that manner without polishing your words it does come across mean but i do say mean things if im truly angry thats when all the truth comes outI notice i tend to offend cancers ALOT LOL thats the one sign i see sags burn often with words no offense but cancer gets butt hurt to easily everything gets taken to the heart and they dont get over it i dated cancer suns and moons and i always hurt there feelings and i didnt mean too im dating a sag with mercury and venus in capricorn and i love it shes the first girl who i dont offend often i can just tell her things straight up and she doesnt get butt hurt about it we even talk **** to each other and forget about it after thats perfect to me because most of the time after i say something im over it pretty soon and its hard when the other person is still pining over something i blurted out about I know exactly what you mean!I can joke sometimes in a rude way and sometimes its just sincere without any mean intentions. I have on GF who I can call a ho and she can call me a ho (among other things) but neither of us mean it in a cruel or catty way, so it's cool. We can be blunt with each other about anything, and I like that freedom of communication. It also means we can be honest without beating around the bush.Cancers are notorious for beating around the bush and that can bother me. Just say it straight, already! On the flip side I have other friends who do get butt hurt, so I've got to tone it down. I've learned to *attempt* to regulate and control myself so I can bring out Mrs straight up Blunt when appropriate, and be more delicate around more insecure people. But I'm not immune to getting hurt even if someone means no harm. I can logically know they didn't mean to offend, but there are just some spots that are sore, so I can understand my more sensitive friends, still. But overall this is why ever since birth almost, many, maaaany of my friends have been sags. we just vibe well more often than not and have enough confidence and self esteem together to be able to just say whateverAdded: I honestly just love saggies as friends PixieJaneJust adding my 2 cents...The Sags I'm thinking of offhand (4 at the moment, 2 with a Sag stellium as well) aren't this way (propping themselves up by tearing others down by yelling at them, that is blaming others for their problems), nor are Sag heavy people I'm thinking of (I'm thinking of 4, not including any with a Sag sun, and I should add that I was enemies with one of them but I would not say she blamed others for her problems, though she did think you deserved whatever mistreatment she gave you, which is a human trait). They can be mean, dismissive, irresponsible, but they seem less likely than most to blame others for their problems (but at the same time don't really give a fig about the problems of others, even if he or she is causing them by being an ass). As a general rule, the vibe I get with Sag is "don't worry about spilled milk, the cat will come along and lap it up." That said, needing others to take the blame for one's own behavior or problems is default human nature (and Sags do it to an extent as well, but I think they do it a bit less, though they're more vocal than most about the blaming they engage in, and more likely to say it to your face than behind your back). Being blunt (whether or not it's intended to be mean) and expecting thick skins in others is something I'd agree with. And they typically have a thick skin themselves. The one exception I know of (quick to dish it out and call you on your BS even faster than most Sags, but unable to take it when people call her out on her BS or even just joke around with her) is, I think, the exception because of her Cancer moon along with her Scorpio Venus & Mars. She also carries around a lot more resentment than other Sags I know.arcturus90Yeah I hate some Sagittarius but some others are okay. Maybe this is because most of them have their Sun in Scorpio in Vedic LalafortunaeaDon't sags rule the ass? xD LOLDesiring ShadowsMy boss is a Sagittarius and watch out because I’m about to talk sh*t... lol jk.She’s a very sweet woman. She loves her sports and politics. Let’s not get too personal.. but the problem with how she used to be , a long time ago, whenever something would break or she would misplace something.. she would literally always blame me! And we are on good terms. I worked for the lady for years. But that’s just how she can react by being hostile as a defense mechanism to hide her vulnerable side where she feels like she’s out of control of the situation ...Or some other stuff.Tbh I believe in Vedic Astrology. But y’all can consider me a libra if that’s what you want. I am the most uncultured libra of the century. 😂😱 but enough about my 5th house energy,,, this woman may very well be a Scorpio in Vedic astrology , or Sagittarius. I wouldn’t really know, Desiring ShadowsThis whole post is me throwing up I do apologize for this little BLuRP please disregard 😇Desiring Shadows quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:Don't sags rule the ass? xD LOLThat’s Libra. Libras got the booty, Sagittarius time the thighs I believe?RandallI like them.Aries23Degrees quote:Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: That’s Libra. Libras got the booty, Sagittarius time the thighs I believe?I my experience. Cancer/Scorpio folks should rule the booty. Most I have met (even guys) have got cakes for days lol Desiring Shadows quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I my experience. Cancer/Scorpio folks should rule the booty. Most I have met (even guys) have got cakes for days lol LOL! 😂😂😂Sulkyarcher quote:Originally posted by Randall:I like them.I knew you were cool, Randall!
I’m terrified of seeing that side of him ever again.
I used to fight with my Leo Sun Cap Moon friend a lot in high school because he used to call me an a***.
But I got on hugely well with an Aries mate who used to goad me on. Sometimes Aries and Sag are not great influences on each other
In retrospect I see the Leo's point. I was blaming others for my anger or discontent and hated feeling sad.
To this day, my anger is still an issue. But I work out to direct the tension to a productive outlet.
I think Sags lack of tact can be naive sometimes. But vindictive in others. Sometimes I dislike the self righteous attitudes of many.
I have Saturn, though. So I've gotten bad karma for being too blunt sometimes.
quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:Sun in Sagittarius here. Yup! That's one shadow aspect of us Sadges, when we get angry we become holier than thou, and self-righteous, and act like we're perfect, when we're not! But for me, it's worst because I have Mars in Aries, that adds more fire to the fire.I have Saturn, though. So I've gotten bad karma for being too blunt sometimes.
At least youre honest! lol
quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea: At least your honest! lol
Hopefully, if I'm honest, I can at least not be intense and sharp about it. And diplomatic, instead of 'in your face' and shrill.
I notice i tend to offend cancers ALOT LOL thats the one sign i see sags burn often with words no offense but cancer gets butt hurt to easily everything gets taken to the heart and they dont get over it i dated cancer suns and moons and i always hurt there feelings and i didnt mean too im dating a sag with mercury and venus in capricorn and i love it shes the first girl who i dont offend often i can just tell her things straight up and she doesnt get butt hurt about it we even talk **** to each other and forget about it after thats perfect to me because most of the time after i say something im over it pretty soon and its hard when the other person is still pining over something i blurted out about
quote:Originally posted by Supreme cT:Im a scorpio sun in 9th house but a sag mercury and venus and have no problem calling you out whenever i get ****** off about something my first instinct is to say how i feel and tbh i can say mean things even to my good friends but some how i always seem to get away with it hahah i swear sags can get away with saying the most wildest **** anyone who knows me well knows im the one who will say something reckless its honestly not on purpose iv been like that since i was a baby my parents use to cringe at all the stupid things i would say but one thing about me is i usually dont say things with bad intentions i just say it like it is and when you come across in that manner without polishing your words it does come across mean but i do say mean things if im truly angry thats when all the truth comes outI notice i tend to offend cancers ALOT LOL thats the one sign i see sags burn often with words no offense but cancer gets butt hurt to easily everything gets taken to the heart and they dont get over it i dated cancer suns and moons and i always hurt there feelings and i didnt mean too im dating a sag with mercury and venus in capricorn and i love it shes the first girl who i dont offend often i can just tell her things straight up and she doesnt get butt hurt about it we even talk **** to each other and forget about it after thats perfect to me because most of the time after i say something im over it pretty soon and its hard when the other person is still pining over something i blurted out about
I know exactly what you mean!
I can joke sometimes in a rude way and sometimes its just sincere without any mean intentions. I have on GF who I can call a ho and she can call me a ho (among other things) but neither of us mean it in a cruel or catty way, so it's cool. We can be blunt with each other about anything, and I like that freedom of communication. It also means we can be honest without beating around the bush.
Cancers are notorious for beating around the bush and that can bother me. Just say it straight, already!
On the flip side I have other friends who do get butt hurt, so I've got to tone it down. I've learned to *attempt* to regulate and control myself so I can bring out Mrs straight up Blunt when appropriate, and be more delicate around more insecure people.
But I'm not immune to getting hurt even if someone means no harm. I can logically know they didn't mean to offend, but there are just some spots that are sore, so I can understand my more sensitive friends, still.
But overall this is why ever since birth almost, many, maaaany of my friends have been sags. we just vibe well more often than not and have enough confidence and self esteem together to be able to just say whatever
Added: I honestly just love saggies as friends
The Sags I'm thinking of offhand (4 at the moment, 2 with a Sag stellium as well) aren't this way (propping themselves up by tearing others down by yelling at them, that is blaming others for their problems), nor are Sag heavy people I'm thinking of (I'm thinking of 4, not including any with a Sag sun, and I should add that I was enemies with one of them but I would not say she blamed others for her problems, though she did think you deserved whatever mistreatment she gave you, which is a human trait). They can be mean, dismissive, irresponsible, but they seem less likely than most to blame others for their problems (but at the same time don't really give a fig about the problems of others, even if he or she is causing them by being an ass). As a general rule, the vibe I get with Sag is "don't worry about spilled milk, the cat will come along and lap it up."
That said, needing others to take the blame for one's own behavior or problems is default human nature (and Sags do it to an extent as well, but I think they do it a bit less, though they're more vocal than most about the blaming they engage in, and more likely to say it to your face than behind your back).
Being blunt (whether or not it's intended to be mean) and expecting thick skins in others is something I'd agree with. And they typically have a thick skin themselves. The one exception I know of (quick to dish it out and call you on your BS even faster than most Sags, but unable to take it when people call her out on her BS or even just joke around with her) is, I think, the exception because of her Cancer moon along with her Scorpio Venus & Mars. She also carries around a lot more resentment than other Sags I know.
quote:Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:Don't sags rule the ass? xD LOL
That’s Libra. Libras got the booty, Sagittarius time the thighs I believe?
quote:Originally posted by Desiring Shadows: That’s Libra. Libras got the booty, Sagittarius time the thighs I believe?
I my experience. Cancer/Scorpio folks should rule the booty. Most I have met (even guys) have got cakes for days lol
quote:Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I my experience. Cancer/Scorpio folks should rule the booty. Most I have met (even guys) have got cakes for days lol
LOL! 😂😂😂
quote:Originally posted by Randall:I like them.
I knew you were cool, Randall!
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