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T O P I C R E V I E WSpicaI meant those that only have Venus aspecting Pluto, with no other planet aspecting Venus, because that would change venus’s condition.pocketrocketMy 8h Venus sextiles Pluto and I do have some of those traits you've mentioned, esp. secretly desiring and thinking about that person.AstraI have venus opposite pluto and your description does not fit me at all. I have never stalked anyone or got obsessed about any man. In fact, I'm quite aloof. When I dumped each of my ex boyfriends, they ended up stalking me. Random men approach me daily and propose marriage, which still baffles me.I suppose its possible that this aspect can make someone obsessive, though I've always seen it play out in myself and others with this aspect as attracting obsessive men and stalkers. charlieMy husband has Venus 12H Pisces op Pluto Virgo 7H.He couldn’t be less obsessed if you paid him, HOWEVER, he does attract some weird a$$ lunatics that always want to suck his soul dry :-/ Men and women. It doesn’t help that he’s curteous because it’s always misinterpreted as “wow, I’m sure he loves me! I should press the issue further”.Before One has time to blink 1 1/2 times, things have spiraled elsewhere..Poor guy is always bewildered wondering whether he needs to be mean instead! Somna7HNope, description does not fit me.Venus Trine Pluto and I'm not Obsessed with Women.------------------My Chart : http://imgur.com/hCRDawDmargym0oAs a woman with Venus sq. Pluto almost exact (0.04) I do not agree with this at all.I have never been one to "play the field" (my Scorpio Moon would never allow me to be so vulnerable) but instead have only ever been in long-term relationships. I much prefer to give my heart to ONE PERSON that I completely trust than risk being hurt multiple times. I do form my attachments QUICKLY though, and I do find myself in very passionate, do-or-die type relationships. If I sense the other person is losing interest I close up emotionally. My biggest flaw is the fact I need a lot of reassurance, even if I "know" the other person loves me. I also keep my relationships very private. I am not one to talk about my partner in front of other people (good or bad).I definitely don't hate men (I prefer the company of men over women actually) but I AM skeptical of them and their actions. I have become very good at sniffing out the ones with good hearts vs. the ones who will break them. I don't take ANYTHING at face value, and if a man attempts to sweet talk me I INSTANTLY suspect they have an ulterior motive. In general (and again I don't know if it's my Venus/Pluto or my Scorpio Moon) but I'd say this Scorpio influence makes one a little more cautious, a little more discerning, a little more "picky" with who you give your heart to and definitely more obsessive and passionate in matters of love.I wouldn't say I attract creepy stalkers or find myself in twisted situations with men even though I have this aspect, but I also know my power...and I take the necessary steps in my daily life to not invite that kind of unwanted attention. I put out subconscious boundaries with men I encounter. I am also so painfully loyal to my partner and I have no interest anyway!Plut0nian2I have tPluto in 5th H square Venus, Mars and Jup.I too do not agree with the Op, I agree with charlie and Margymoo.I am private and passionate too, I need too much time to open up, I am suspicious and I have a very difficult time trusting others (Saturn on 8th H cusp), I am extremely picky but could be Neptune conjuct DSC. I have a similar problem like Charlie's husband. I am serious, never touch not even accidentally others, I never say anything weird or being playful with someone I don't really like. I am very and I mean VERY careful let alone that I am kind of cold naturally anyway, I don't know where they do get that feeling like we have some special connection or smth.
I suppose its possible that this aspect can make someone obsessive, though I've always seen it play out in myself and others with this aspect as attracting obsessive men and stalkers.
Poor guy is always bewildered wondering whether he needs to be mean instead!
------------------My Chart : http://imgur.com/hCRDawD
I have never been one to "play the field" (my Scorpio Moon would never allow me to be so vulnerable) but instead have only ever been in long-term relationships. I much prefer to give my heart to ONE PERSON that I completely trust than risk being hurt multiple times.
I do form my attachments QUICKLY though, and I do find myself in very passionate, do-or-die type relationships. If I sense the other person is losing interest I close up emotionally. My biggest flaw is the fact I need a lot of reassurance, even if I "know" the other person loves me.
I also keep my relationships very private. I am not one to talk about my partner in front of other people (good or bad).
I definitely don't hate men (I prefer the company of men over women actually) but I AM skeptical of them and their actions. I have become very good at sniffing out the ones with good hearts vs. the ones who will break them. I don't take ANYTHING at face value, and if a man attempts to sweet talk me I INSTANTLY suspect they have an ulterior motive.
In general (and again I don't know if it's my Venus/Pluto or my Scorpio Moon) but I'd say this Scorpio influence makes one a little more cautious, a little more discerning, a little more "picky" with who you give your heart to and definitely more obsessive and passionate in matters of love.
I wouldn't say I attract creepy stalkers or find myself in twisted situations with men even though I have this aspect, but I also know my power...and I take the necessary steps in my daily life to not invite that kind of unwanted attention. I put out subconscious boundaries with men I encounter. I am also so painfully loyal to my partner and I have no interest anyway!
I am private and passionate too, I need too much time to open up, I am suspicious and I have a very difficult time trusting others (Saturn on 8th H cusp), I am extremely picky but could be Neptune conjuct DSC.
I have a similar problem like Charlie's husband. I am serious, never touch not even accidentally others, I never say anything weird or being playful with someone I don't really like. I am very and I mean VERY careful let alone that I am kind of cold naturally anyway, I don't know where they do get that feeling like we have some special connection or smth.
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