Re-reading my response,I realised that I may have to retract what I said.It is the Moon(beg your pardon)that is more personal I think. With the Ic being the conditioning we are born into.
The Virgo Ic typically suggests one who grows up in an intellectually superior home environment. Or an environment of intellectual snobbery/dissection.
Being "ditzy" or "playing dumb" doesn't bode well with this surrounding. Often times there is a lot of mental sparring with the parents typically very involved in the child's schooling.
If the child has Moon in Cancer for instance,such an environment may lack warmth or emotional care.
So notice how such an individual may spend money to either self nourish or self soothe(Moon in 2nd in Cancer). They may also invest a lot of money in creating a cushy home environment.
They will try to fulfill for themselves the treatment that they expected to receive in childhood.
This will give them emotional security (Cancer in 2nd) which will be one of their pillars of identity.
Mercury/Uranus would make you weird (regardless of your Ic). In that many people around you are boggled about what goes on in your head i.e. the things that tickle your fancy and what you like to talk about.
My Dad has the conjunction in Leo and he is very tall. I wonder if that's also the case with you?
In my case my family and I may disconnect due to my Moon in Cancer being so sensitive and a majority of my Ic being in Leo.
With Moon conjunct the Ic from the 3rd emphasizes an intellectual expression to emotions (Cancer 3rd). I have done that since forever.
But am not sure that my family is on par. They may find my need to talk about feelings "foreign" to them.
My sister has Pluto in 3rd. We talk a great deal though. So I am not completely alone.
Where is your Moon?