Hello everyone, I've been on four dates with capricorn man (Venus in aquarius, mars in Taurus). I am taurus with Venus and Mars in cancer, and we are both ascendant capricorn.
He has very similar placements to my best friend so I can understand him. We have so much fun and communication is really easy, we talk on the phone until 5 am sometimes as well and our dates last for hours just talking. He has said a couple of things that are a bit of a red flag.
He keeps going on about being liberal and open with sex, even though he wanted a long term commitment with his ex . He said that at the beginning with her, he was only looking for casual and nothing serious but that's how he usually starts.
He asked me what my intentions were and I said I want to go with the flow, get to know him as friendship is very important to me, and take it from there. He said he was badly hurt by his ex, they broke up in November, so feels apathy.
He said he wanted to be open and honest with me, that that's how he feels right now, just quite numb, but that he feels chemistry with me and wants to find out more about me. I said that if he's clear that he feels apathy and he doesn't see this going anywhere then perhaps we should stop seeing each other. He then said I was putting limitations on this (not sure why).
We are both away on holiday now, and he suggested we not speak but instead think about what we want, and then meet next week and talk about it. But he's been texting me everyday on his holiday with photos and other comments to our previous conversations, and flirting calling me hi cute cat.
Is this a red flag? Is he afraid? Any insights appreciated, thank you
Btw my sun trines his moon, my moon with his Pluto, his sun is conjunct my Neptune and Uranus if this means anything. Our mercuries are also conjunct. His Pluto is sextile my asc node,his Pluto trine my mars, his moon trine my Uranus and Neptune.