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hypatia238 | Okay I noticed I get happy and excited when people show their angry side to me (not directed at me though)...its kind of weird but its true, I get very happy and excited. This doesn't apply if the anger is directed at me, I don't enjoy conflict but is necessary at times. I know my paternal grandpa would laugh when I was kid when he would see people boxing and kicking each other's butt on TV, I found this odd but amusing and intriguing about him. I wonder if I inherited some weird gene. I always found this amusing about my grandpa, he was actually a super calm guy who had no anger issues at all. My mom would get angry while driving when I was a kid, it was the only time I would see her truly let go and get angry, I freaking loved it. Anyhoo do you get really excited too when people express anger....is your IC in aries? Mars in the 4th house? |
hypatia238 | hahaha I must be the only person that gets excited when people express anger... I think is the combo of IC in Aries with Mars in LEO the reason why! Anyhoo... |
ULT12 | I knew a Mars-4 who I felt was like this. With them I got the feeling they had a/the "misery loves company" mindset so I'm not totally sure it was/is a Mars-4 thing but I could TOTALLY see how the symbolism works* so, cool. (*humans seem normally consoled/comforted by conditions&elements of/like their early environments, and Mars is the Planet of strife, war, etc...) In your case IC-Aries might do like Mars-4, but I suspect for you here Mars-8 is much much more causative. Attraction to dangerous situations + enjoyment of 'flexing your muscles' in sudden, emergency fashion & emergency situations. (forgive the poor wordage, I just woke up) |
hypatia238 | I am not a misery likes company type of person, I feel when people express their anger I feel this empowerment energy which is very nice and I don't know I find it hot when people express passion and feel comfortable expressing this side of them. |
anonymidarkness | Maybe you like aggresion rather than anger ? |
ULT12 | quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I am not a misery likes company type of person, I feel when people express their anger I feel this empowerment energy which is very nice and I don't know I find it hot when people express passion and feel comfortable expressing this side of them.
Just to be clear , I was definitely not saying you were this type or Mars/4 was a "misery loves company" placement. The person I mentioned had a very self-centered yadda-yadda Chart + they were young when I knew them so they didn't have yet the time to quell things.
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hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by ULT12: [QUOTE]Originally posted by hypatia238: [b]I am not a misery likes company type of person, I feel when people express their anger I feel this empowerment energy which is very nice and I don't know I find it hot when people express passion and feel comfortable expressing this side of them.
Just to be clear , I was definitely not saying you were this type or Mars/4 was a "misery loves company" placement. The person I mentioned had a very self-centered yadda-yadda Chart + they were young when I knew them so they didn't have yet the time to quell things.[/B][/QUOTE]I got you
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hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: Maybe you like aggresion rather than anger ?
No. When I see that fire when they are angry, I get excited lol, I start to smile, it bumps me up but the person is not acting on the anger to be fair, just really expressing it and then I am "hell yeah" type of thing LOL. Aggression I enjoy if is channeled in bed but I need to feel safe and somewhat in control. |
Graham | You seem to enjoy observing others engaging in a healthy expression of anger ... perhaps because you "know" (instinctively, via Neptune) that not expressing anger can result (eventually) in serious health issues - such as heart attacks, depression and psychosis.And ... if so ... your enjoyment probably comes from knowing that the other person is "doing what needs to be done by her/him to stay healthy". |
anonymidarkness | quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: No. When I see that fire when they are angry, I get excited lol, I start to smile, it bumps me up but the person is not acting on the anger to be fair, just really expressing it and then I am "hell yeah" type of thing LOL. Aggression I enjoy if is channeled in bed but I need to feel safe and somewhat in control.
Isn't "hell yeah" a bit too much? About the aggression? I liike the way u put it |
hypatia238 | quote: Originally posted by Graham:
You seem to enjoy observing others engaging in a healthy expression of anger ... perhaps because you "know" (instinctively, via Neptune) that not expressing anger can result (eventually) in serious health issues - such as heart attacks, depression and psychosis.And ... if so ... your enjoyment probably comes from [b]knowing that the other person is "doing what needs to be done by her/him to stay healthy". [/B]
I like your interpretation! |